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The Attachment Theory - How Your Childhood Affects Your Relationships
 
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The attachment theory argues that a strong emotional and physical bond to one primary caregiver in our first years of life, is critical to our development. If our bonding is strong and we are securely attached, then we feel safe to explore the world. If our bond is weak, we feel insecurely attached. We are afraid to leave or explore a rather scary-looking world. Because we are not sure if we can return. Often we then don't understand our own feelings. Special thanks for our patroeon supporters: Ville Medeiros, Chutimon Nuangnit, Cedric Wang, Mike, Eva Marie Koblin, Julien Dumesnil, Mathis and the others. You are wonderful !!! If you feel helpful and want to support our channel, write a comment, subscribe and spread the word or become a patron on www.patreon.com/sprouts. Full Script: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1v82PcEvf_G2iolc5ejPY5dQ2RtqU1Vj9V5L_iIKWUhk/edit?usp=sharing Dealing with Attachment Issues: Dealing with Attachment Issues is no easy task. For those who feel like they can’t help themselves, or can’t find trust through their partners of family, we recommend looking for professional support through a therapy. If you are able to form a secure attachment to a therapist, he can become the one who provides you with that secure base. Here three of possible therapies: 1. Psychoanalysis. The aim of psychoanalysis therapy is to release repressed emotions and experiences, i.e., make the unconscious conscious. In order to do that they therapist might try to bring back some childhood memories, to work at the root cause of the problem. 2. Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT). CBT is a psycho-social intervention that is widely used for improving mental health. Instead of trying to bring you back in time, it aims to explain you whats going on inside your brain and how to cope with irrational feelings or fears. 3. The Hoffmann Process. This 7-8 days guided process, designed by the American psychologist Hoffmann, brings participants back into their childhood to reconnect with their parents at the time when attachment is formed. Its very intensive. Sources: Havard Study https://arizona.pure.elsevier.com/en/publications/feelings-of-parental-caring-predict-health-status-in-midlife-a-35 Minnesota Study https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2857405/ Further Readins: https://www.psychologistworld.com/developmental/attachment-theory
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How Your Childhood Affects Your Love Styles
 
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Our childhood, how we were brought up, our relationships with our caregivers play a big impact on our love styles. Whether you are the pleaser, the victim or the controller, your upbringing is largely responsible for that. Watch this video to see how your childhood might have affected who you are. 6 Types of Childhood Abuse https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vRkKPMXXN8M What is Love? https://youtube.com/video/VVGZLuMpVnM/ Our Articles: https://psych2go.net/dr-milan-kay-yerkovichs-5-love-styles/ https://psych2go.net/the-4-attachment-styles-in-love/ https://psych2go.net/dr-helen-fishers-4-love-types/ References: Yerkovich, M., & Yerkovich, K. (2017). How We Love. Retrieved September 28, 201 Check out: Clascity - A Knowledge-Sharing Platform to teach and learn everything https://clascity.com/ We're also partnered with BetterHelp, where you could get online counselling at an affordable rate. You must be 18+ : http://betterhelp.com/Psych2Go http://betterhelp.com/Psych2Go
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35 PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE
 
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The Science of Love | John Gottman | TEDxVeniceBeach
 
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World-renowned relationship expert John Gottman set forth to understand why relationships don’t work, but for that he needed to first understand relationships scientifically. Gottman then measured the behavior, perception and physiology of couples over time to understand how love works. With that he was able to create equations for love and discern the mathematical dynamics of love. His science was able to predict with a 90% accuracy whether relationships would last or not. Finally, his studies conclude that the magic of love requires calm and commitment, which in the end makes the magic of great love a bit less of a mystery. John Gottman speaks about how his scientific research has now created a new understanding of all love relationships (heterosexual and same-sex), across the entire life span. He describes the new LOVE EQUATIONS, and the magic trio of calm, trust, and commitment. For more, visit The Gottman Institute at https://www.gottman.com/. World-renowned for his work on marital stability and divorce prediction, Dr. John Gottman has conducted 40 years of breakthrough research with thousands of couples. He is the author of over 200 published academic articles and author or co-author of more than 40 books, including The New York Times bestseller The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Dr. Gottman’s media appearances include Good Morning America, Today, CBS Morning News, and Oprah, as well articles in The New York Times, Redbook, Glamour, Woman’s Day, People, Self, and Psychology Today. Co-founder of The Gottman Institute with his wife, Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, John is a Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Washington where he founded ”The Love Lab" at which much of his research on couples interactions was conducted. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Healthy Relationships - What You MUST Know To Sustain A Great Relationship
 
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Healthy Relationships - The keys to establishing a healthy relationship that will last forever. The Ultimate Life Purpose Course - Create Your Dream Career: http://www.actualized.org/life-purpose-course Leo's Top 140 Self Help Books http://www.actualized.org/books Full Transcript Here: http://www.actualized.org/articles/healthy-relationships Video Summary: Building a healthy relationship is a life-long endeavor, not a weekend project. Spend time learning about yourself, the opposite sex, and the critical psychological building blocks that govern love and sex. Know the defining characteristics of a co-dependent relationship, an independent relationship, and an inter-dependent one. The co-dependent relationship is the least healthy and unfortunately the most common. Both parties are looking to their partner to fulfill them, which is not only impossible, but typically catastrophic. Independent relationships may struggle to take-off, but offer the potential of becoming an even-healthier inter-dependent relationship with sufficient cooperation. Inter-dependent relationships are built on the individual strengths of both partners, and the synergy created when these individuals collaborate. To best prepare for a healthy relationship, work on yourself first. Operate from a position of abundance, at least in terms of potential partners. Learn to be happy all by yourself. Build yourself an awesome life, and use personal development to work on any "opportunities" for improvement in terms of your personal psychology.
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The Challenges of Anxious-Avoidant Relationships
 
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Some of the most difficult relationships are those between people who can be categorised as 'avoidant' and others who are labelled 'anxious.' Learn to know which of these two you might be - and how better to handle the tensions that arise in a pairing with your counterpart. Sign up to our new newsletter and get 10% off your first online order of a book, product or class: https://bit.ly/2LayJ9F For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://bit.ly/2E9cxhd Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://bit.ly/2AISjqj Download our App: https://bit.ly/2PchwyB FURTHER READING You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://bit.ly/2zwmdOT “There are so many ways to be unhappy in love, but one kind which modern psychology has given particular attention to are relationships, very high in number, in which one of the parties is defined as avoidant in their attachment patterns – and the other as anxious. Attachment Theory is the term given to a set of ideas about how we love and the role of childhood therein originally developed by the English psychologist John Bowlby in the 50s and 60s. It divides up humanity into three categories according to our varying capacity to behave with confidence and trust in relationships.” MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Visit us in person at our London HQ: https://bit.ly/2zB8573 Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://www.theschooloflife.com/london/community/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Amanda Eliasson https://vimeo.com/artofam
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6 Types of Childhood Abuse
 
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Childhood abuse can have far reaching effects. From insecurities to intimacy issues, from not daring to trust people to difficulties making friends, the effects of childhood abuse can show in any area of your life. Childhood abuse can develop into lifelong issues, or even Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Today on psych2go, we will learn about different types of abuse. Needless to say, these might be triggering for people so be watchful of what you are comfortable with reading about. There are many more types, so feel free to add others in the comments. Article & research by Kayleigh H: https://psych2go.net/childhood-abuse-types-which-others/ If you enjoyed this video, you can support us by grabbing one of our solar planet bracelet here: https://goo.gl/1XXgG1 or t-shirt here: https://goo.gl/sfWmCZ Happy Sunday and thank you for all the support! Use the discount code: Psych2Go to get 10% off on either items. Sound track: Better Days - Bensound Time Stops - Silent Partner
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What Is Your Attachment Style?
 
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Attachment theory refers to a set of ideas formulated by psychologists in the 1960s that gives us an exceptionally useful guide to how we behave in relationships. Knowing whether we are secure, anxious or avoidant in our attachment patterns gives us a vocabulary with which to get on top of some very tricky dynamics and helps us grow into more predictable and more joyful companions in love. Sign up to our new newsletter and get 10% off your first online order of a book, product or class: https://bit.ly/2LayJ9F For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://bit.ly/2BF0N5N Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://bit.ly/2MCcRZx Download our App: https://bit.ly/2N2UMAY FURTHER READING You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://bit.ly/2N2NKvQ “One of the greatest questionnaires in the history of 20th-century psychology had a modest start in the pages of a local Colorado newspaper The Rocky Mountain News in July 1985. The work of two University of Denver psychologists Cindy Hazan and Phillip Shaver, the questionnaire asked readers to identify which of three statements most closely reflected who they were in love.” MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Visit us in person at our London HQ: https://bit.ly/2MrIVA3 Watch more films on SELF in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLself You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://bit.ly/2N2UMAY Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Julia Marchowska https://marchowskajulia.wixsite.com/mysite
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10 Tricks from a Former FBI Agent to Become 200% Attractive
 
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Former FBI agent Dr. Jack Schafer revealed top 10 tricks to become 200% attractive. These secret tips will change your life forever. Follow these easy successful techniques to find a common language with anyone anytime. In informal communication, the inclination of the head to the side is a sign of trust. Eyebrows give a certain signals to your opponent as well. When the brain recognizes a sincere smile, it makes you smile back and starts producing endorphins that help feel a little more joy. Never hesitate to ask a person for a small favor, for example give advice or help to choose something. Whispering is perceived as an intimate form of communication. People love when something that was achieved by working hard is noticed in them. Your opponent's gestures at this moment reflect emotions, feelings, and sympathies. There's nothing a good movie can't teach you! TIMESTAMPS Start with bending your head to the side 0:37 Develop facial expressions, play with eyebrows 1:14 Learn to smile with your eyes, without a grin 1:58 Forget the phrase “You're welcome” 2:45 Shift to a whisper, emphasize without a reason 3:28 Let people compliment themselves 4:23 Make mistakes in front of your opponent 5:22 Pay attention to the pottery when you spend time together 6:02 Watch the lips of the interlocutor, learn to change the color of the eyes 6:41 If the situation is not that smooth, recall movies 7:34 Other signals and tactics that will help you win sympathy and trust 8:15 The formula of friendship developed by an FBI agent 9:04 SUMMARY -Bend your head to the side as a sign of trust. -If you like a person you don’t know, give them a quick distant signal by uplifting your eyebrows. -Smile sincerely to push people to continue communicating. -Never say ’You are welcome" when responding to a person for the service rendered to them. -Whisper if you want to take your relationship with someone on the next level. -The best way to make a compliment is to encourage a person to praise himself. -Make a deliberate mistake during the conversation and let your opponent correct you. -Your opponent's gestures at this moment reflect emotions, feelings, and sympathies. -Avoid narrowed eyes, compressed lips, ostentatious yawn and wrinkled nose. -Sometimes people like each other only after a series of obstacles and contradictions they go through together. -Use emotional gestures, be sincere, demonstrate coldness or inaccessibility, show that you are alike. -Proximity, frequency, duration and intensity are the main characteristics necessary for strong trust and friendship. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Reasons to Remain Single
 
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The pressure to be in a relationship, and the suggestion that anyone who isn’t in one is weird and pitiable, has very bad consequences for us all, forcing people into choices they shouldn’t necessarily have to make. For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://goo.gl/Otka03 Download our App: https://goo.gl/g6MK6V FURTHER READING “Anyone who lives alone and manifests no longing to be in a relationship is – in our times – almost automatically (though more or less secretly) viewed as both pitiable and deeply troubled. It’s simply not thought possible to be at once alone and normal. This sets us up for collective catastrophe, for it means that a huge number of people who have no innate wish to live with anyone else, and are at heart deeply ill-suited to doing so, are every year press-ganged and shamed into conjugal life, with disastrous results for all involved...” You can read more on this and other topics on our blog TheBookofLife.org at this link: https://goo.gl/S18TdL MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/agcypC Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships Do you speak a different language to English? Did you know you can submit Subtitles on all of our videos on YouTube? For instructions how to do this click here: https://goo.gl/Ne10Gt SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://goo.gl/g6MK6V Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Martin Stacey http://www.martinstacey.co.uk/ Neil Evan http://www.neilevan.com/ #TheSchoolOfLife
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Who Is the Right Person for You? (Personality Test)
 
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Finding the right person to share your life with is super important. Take this simple test to find out what type of person is the right one for you! You will answer 10 questions and see the number of points you get for this or that answer after each question. What talent would you appreciate most in your partner? 0:47 What do you look forward to doing together with your partner most of all? 1:18 Which movie would you want to enjoy with your partner? 2:03 When sharing your problems with your partner, how do you expect him or her to react? 2:41 What would you never give up for your relationship? 3:32 Which sound most appealing to you? 4:12 What phrase would be an absolute deal breaker for you? 4:48 All your friends are happy for you and ask you to describe your relationship using one emoji. What is it going to be? 5:24 What would your ideal honeymoon look like? 5:59 What's a perfect anniversary gift from your love? 6:39 SUMMARY - If you have 100-150 points, you’ll be happy with an Adventurer. Trying new things together, traveling the world, looking for the special in the ordinary and being bold and spontaneous is what you appreciate most in life. - You got 160 to 220 points? In that case, a Materialist is out there waiting for you. Maybe that well-organized successful individual will walk into your life tomorrow? Who knows... - Those who scored 230 to 300 points will be in a harmonious relationship with a Family Man (Woman). You can’t wait to settle down and start living with a person who will share your values and beliefs. - If your score is 310 to 400 points, a Romantic dreamer will come into your life and stay there for good. You need someone to chase sunsets with, to fly you to the Moon and let you play among the stars without living your own home and to give you all the love and admiration you deserve. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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10 Psychology Tricks That Work ON ANYBODY
 
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10 Mind Game Tricks You Can Do On Your Friends. 10 Edible Makeup Ideas / 10 Funny Pranks https://youtu.be/UiOkZ-DAGTE Jake Paul's Team 10 Members Reimagined As Cartoon Characters https://youtu.be/-uFZyx70_n8 Subscribe: https://goo.gl/Hnoaw3 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The human brain is a powerful organ, but not so powerful that you can’t easily manipulate the minds of others. By using these sneaky tricks, you can fool people into doing exactly what you want them to do, without them even knowing what’s going on! From defusing a sticky situation in the boardroom to catching a stalker, these are 10 psychology tricks that work on anybody. If you ever find yourself in a sticky situation with a colleague at work, use this easy method. When you think someone is going to talk bad about you, or get aggressive with you at a meeting, just sit next to them. People are less likely to get aggressive with someone who is nearby. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheTalko Twitter: https://twitter.com/thetalko Instagram: https://instagram.com/the_talko ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.thetalko.com/
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10 Types of Girls Men Usually Don't Marry
 
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What are the types of girls guys date before meeting the one? Finding your one and only true love can be quite a journey. While girls believe it’s mostly a challenge for them, guys face the same struggles. They meet a whole bunch of different girls on the way to finding that special someone. Dr. Samantha Rodman, a clinical psychologist and dating coach, believes that every girl can be classified as a certain type. No offense, ladies, but it looks like most of you belong to one of 10 categories — unless you’re already a category 11, which means “the one” to someone. Let’s see if you agree with the divisions and recognize yourself as one of the types. TIMESTAMPS: Daddy’s Girl 1:00 Party Animal 1:56 Good Student 2:44 Miss Jealousy 3:15 Gossip Fan 3:56 A girl your mother will love 4:35 Worried is her second name 5:14 Drama Queen 5:53 Fancy Girl 6:27 Beauty Queen 7:00 The One 7:27 #yourrelationship #girlsandboys #menandwomen Music by Epidemic Sound https://www.epidemicsound.com/ SUMMARY: - Whatever a guy does, he’ll never be better than her father. And according to Dr. Rodman, a breakup is likely to make the man feel much worse than the woman. - A party animal definitely knows where the good parties are and which clubs are the best. If a man wants to accompany her, he’s going to have to be OK hanging out with a lot of people she knows. - A smart and well-educated girl — what could possibly go wrong here? Well, you can have a long and interesting conversation with this girl, but only if she can find time for it because she’s crazy about her studies and takes additional classes and extracurriculars. - Jealousy in a relationship is normal, but only when it doesn’t get out of hand. A girl that always reads between the lines and looks for a reason to get angry is a red flag. These girls are scared of being alone. They see a prospective threat in any other woman their guy ever greets, be it a colleague or just some acquaintance. - When in a relationship with this girl, men often think that Miss Jealousy is a better option because at least she thinks about him instead of thinking and talking about completely different people. - It’s very likely that this man will soon get the feeling that his girlfriend has a relationship with both him and his mother. This is definitely not a good situation for any guy. - She’ll bombard him with text messages to check on him every 10 minutes. It’s not about being jealous; it’s just that she worries too much. - There’s never a dull moment with drama queens because they are so emotional, and the relationship is never easy. It’s not difficult to get them to go somewhere, but at the same time, they often create drama even when there’s no good reason for it. - Fancy Girs are trendy and stylish, and they know everything about fashion. They know which clothes to wear to attract attention, and they’re the ones who always look perfect. So what could possibly go wrong here? - Beauty Queen, like a fancy girl, is very beautiful, and she gets a lot of attention from men. Most of the time, the guy who dates her doesn’t even understand why she chose him. - But “the one” is a girl who laughs at her boyfriend’s jokes, and he laughs at hers. She is someone who might have completely different tastes in art, cinema, or music, but they still have a lot in common. She is good with her boyfriend’s mother and his friends. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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6 Signs You’re Dealing With a Toxic Person
 
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How to know that you’re dealing with a toxic person? They do exist, and chances are we’ve met one or 2. Sometimes they might not realize they’re causing harm to others. There are situations that might be putting us at risk and, without us knowing it, damaging our sense of worth. Fortunately, there are warning signs you can look for to see if the person you’re dealing with is a toxic person. #toxicpeople #toxicrelationship # TIMESTAMPS: Toxic people play the victim 1:02 Emotional abuse 2:52 Pathological liars 4:07 Toxic people seek to control 5:25 People who don’t respect boundaries 6:32 Negative people 7:59 Music: https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music SUMMARY - People who struggle with the victim mentality don’t think they have power over their lives, and they blame other people and circumstances for how unhappy they are. They also avoid responsibility. Have you ever been in a situation where you believed someone owed you an apology but, by the end of the conversation, you ended up apologizing instead? That is a classic victim attitude, in which they flip the situation. - Emotional abuse can be one of the most painful forms of violence and a killer of self-esteem. It can be verbal: yelling, belittling, criticism, and accusing. It can also be subtle: intimidation, manipulation, and the “silent treatment.” - Pathological liars take lying to the extreme. A pathological liar is someone who constantly tells lies, usually in an effort to protect their image. They are masters of manipulation and can lie straight to your face. They tend to be impulsive people with a deep need to impress. Their lies might not always have a purpose, and sometimes they might lie to you just because they can. - Some toxic people can be master manipulators, and they are clever about hiding their true intentions. Controlling people might want to know where you are and who you are with. They might be vocal about it or try to control you in more subtle ways. - Toxic people project their vulnerabilities and insecurities onto another person in the form of anger and bullying. They are incapable of respecting boundaries. They can’t process their own toxicity, so they deal with it by putting it onto someone else. - Everyone can feel negative sometimes. But toxic people wish to share their negativity with the world, and it can spread like wildfire. They can only speak of bad news or negative stories and complain nonstop. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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PSYCHOTHERAPY - Sigmund Freud
 
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Sigmund Freud, the inventor of psychoanalysis, appreciated the many ways in which our minds are troubled and anxious. It isn't us in particular: it's the human condition. Find out more about how Freud thought in our 'Great Thinkers': https://goo.gl/toR8m8 If you like our films, take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): https://goo.gl/7JluX0 FURTHER READING “He described himself as an obsessional neurotic. For although the father of modern psychology told us so much about our inner lives, he was touchingly vulnerable himself....” You can read more on this and many other topics on our blog TheBookofLife.org: https://goo.gl/WtiV8v MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/NJ702c More films on PSYCHOTHERAPY in our playlist below: http://bit.ly/TSOLpsychotherapy Do you speak a different language to English? Did you know you can submit Subtitles on all of our videos on YouTube? For instructions how to do this click here: https://goo.gl/fUMMxh SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Mad Adam http://www.madadamfilms.co.uk #TheSchoolOfLife
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5 Psychological Flirting Tips
 
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Have you ever wondered how to get that person's attention or how to get them attracted to you? Well, we have 5 psychological flirting tips just for you! Based on Psych2Go's article: http://www.psych2go.net/top-10-psychological-flirting-strategies-that-actually-work/ Subscribe for more: http://youtube.com/psych2gotv Animation by Nikola Bruno-Santerre. Contact: [email protected] To connect with Psych2Go, reach out here: [email protected] Our main website with 500+ articles on psychology can be found here: http://psych2go.net
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The Men's Sexual Psychology Secret  | language of Desire
 
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The Missing Link In Every Relationship Sex? Communication? Romantic Dates? All these things are important, but a breakthrough new video reveals the surprising factor that can make ALL the difference in a relationship and few, if any women (or men) are even aware of it! Click Here To Discover How To Understand & Attract Any Man: http://languageofdesires.co/lod47felicity You're about to learn the biggest secrets 96% of women never learn in their lifetime to instantly attract a man, inspire his love, and make him love you for the rest of your life. Let me start by asking you a few questions. Please be honest when you answer them. Have you ever felt frustrated because you love a man more than he loves you? Are you annoyed when he tells you, "Nothing is wrong," but you know something is definitely wrong? Have you ever wondered why he's withdrawing from you? Doesn't it just kill you when you see the man of your dreams loses interest little by little, day by day, right in front of your eyes? The once ardent lover has now turned into a total stranger. After many failed relationships, I finally decided to take matters into my own hands. After many painful trials and errors, I suddenly discovered a system that would trigger love in a man. After seeing my success, all my girlfriends wanted to know how I did it. I shared the system with them. It worked like a charm. I finally got it! The secrets only master seductresses know. You may have heard of some of these legendary seductresses: Cleopatra, Wallis Simpson and the now infamous Camilla Parker-Bowels. These women were neither the smartest nor the most beautiful (please tell me you know someone who looks better than Camilla!) But there is one thing they know and understand better than 99.9% of women in this world. They know HOW TO INFLUENCE MEN. In other words, they know how to attract men to their way of thinking and make them obsessed and want to satisfy each and every one of their little wishes. They also make men obsessed and fall so deeply in love that in the case of Wallis Simpson, King Edward VIII gave up his throne to spend his life with "the woman I love." This is the power to influence men and make him obsessed. This is the value of aligning men to your way of thinking. It's the power that will deliver the man of your dreams and the love life you could only hope for right to your doorstep. Tell me this is something you don't want to learn and master! To assist your learning, I've spent a lot of time filtering through a huge amount of information, simplifying it and condensing the most useful, practical advice into the least amount of material for you. I want you to quickly digest the information and start applying it in the real world to see how powerful it truly is. If you've ever wanted to know how to truly understand any man, then this is the most important video you'll ever watch. http://languageofdesires.co/lod47felicity Url of video: https://youtu.be/_tgq9RXGP5Y Subscribe Here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCn5XJZ8y156-VbAeBgh5pVQ?sub_confirmation=1 --- Sexual,Psychology,Psychology of Sexuality,attract a man,Human Sexuality,Desire,Relationship,Advice,Tips,Talk,Romance,Romantic,Couples,Happy Couples,Good Sex Life,talk dirty,Love Advice,Better Sex,naughty talk,Collection,Kiss obssession,obsessed,Review,mind,Body,talk,how to please a man
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10 Signs You Need to Be Single Right Now
 
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You're doing your best to build a lasting relationship and when you don't succeed, you blame yourself for the failure. But the truth is that you just might not be ready to fall in love right now! Here are 10 signs showing that could be the case. For instance, if you’re not over your ex, it can hold you back and even mess up your timing in subsequent relationships. Even if you’re sure that you're ready to start anew, deep down your heart might still be broken. Take some time off to learn your lesson and recover. Let yourself grieve, but remember that you will get better eventually. Time really does heal all wounds. TIMESTAMPS: You’re still not over your ex 0:29 You aren't happy with yourself 1:03 You're way too busy 1:44 You're too closed-off 2:18 You need a rescuer 2:57 You want to be the rescuer 3:51 You'd like to focus on other aspects of your life first 4:36 You’re more in love with the idea of being in a relationship 5:20 You need somebody to “complete” you and make you happy 6:11 You just don't feel like being in a relationship 6:54 #relationship #truelove #relationshipgoals Music by Epidemic Sound https://www.epidemicsound.com/ SUMMARY: - Insecurities and low self-esteem can sabotage any relationship. And that’s because those who aren't happy with themselves tend to perceive the world in black-and-white. Things for them are either really good or really bad, and such people usually can’t compromise. - You're a busy person who doesn't even have time for yourself, let alone for others. So your life will by no means become easier if you start a relationship. Relationships require to give and take, and if you’re too busy to give, then you’re setting yourself up for failure. - You simply don't feel the need for emotional connection. When you have to talk about your feelings, you hold your tongue. And even when something’s bothering you, you bottle it up and deal with it your own way. - You're waiting for that perfect someone to appear out of nowhere and save you from your worries and everyday problems. However, your issues won't miraculously vanish as soon as you start a relationship. - It's also a pretty common occurrence when people prefer to save rather than be saved. Unfortunately, you can't fix other people. As soon as you decide to save someone from their destructive habits or thinking your perception changes. They become more of a project for you rather than an equal partner. - You may have an exciting new job, or your studies are taking up all your energy and spare time. When your priorities are elsewhere, you’re not even thinking about dating. And that’s okay! Don't feel pressured to start a relationship. - If you think that a relationship is the most important thing in life and everything else ceases to exist as soon as you enter one, then, however contradictory this may sound, you're not ready to be in a relationship. - How’s this for a paradox: you aren't ready for a relationship if you feel happy only when you're in one! Instead of living your own life and doing what you like, you try to find happiness in someone else. You feel that you aren't “complete” without your “other half.” - Sometimes you just won't listen to what your instincts tell you. By pushing yourself into a relationship, you’re not doing any favors for yourself or your partner. You might like a person, but if you realize that you aren't 100% invested in this union, don't force yourself. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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26 PSYCHOLOGY FACTS YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT PEOPLE
 
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Learning something new about yourself is always interesting and entertaining. And understanding the psychology behind the way we behave, treat others, and express ourselves can be even more appealing. Today, we here at Bright Side have compiled a list of the most surprising psychology facts that can help you better understand yourself and others. Other videos you might like: 10 Psychology Problems Caused by Parenting Behavior https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_eJPX-OI7c& 13 Psychology Tricks That Work On Anybody https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSvxuekIVuk& 12 Smart Psychological Tips You'd Better Learn https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Szahr27ReQo& SUMMARY: - Any friendship that begins in the period between 16 and 28 years of age is more likely to be robust and long-lasting. - Women generally prefer men with deep husky voices because they seem more confident and not aggressive. - The smarter the person is, the faster he thinks, and the sloppier his handwriting is. - Our emotions don’t affect the way we communicate. In fact, the way we communicate has an influence on our mood. - The way a person treats restaurant staff reveals a lot about their character. - People who have a strong sense of guilt understand others’ thoughts and feelings better. - Men are not funnier than women. They just make more jokes, not caring whether others like their humor or not. - Shy people talk little about themselves, but they do this in a way that makes other people feel that they know them very well. - Women have twice as many pain receptors in their bodies than men, but they have a much higher pain tolerance. - Listening to high-frequency music makes you feel calm, relaxed, and happy. - If you can’t stop your stream of thoughts at night, get up and write them down. This trick will set your mind at ease so you can sleep. - Good morning and good night text messages activate the part of the brain responsible for happiness. - Doing things that scare you will make you happier. - The average amount of time a woman can keep a secret is 47 hours and 15 minutes. - People who try to keep everyone happy often end up feeling the loneliest. - The happier we are, the less sleep we require. - When you hold the hand of your beloved, you feel less pain and worry less. - Intelligent people have fewer friends than the average person. The smarter the person is, the more selective they are. - Marrying your best friend eliminates the risk of divorce by over 70%. This marriage is more likely to last a lifetime. - The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems. - Women who have mostly male friends stay in a good mood more often. - People who speak two languages may unconsciously shift their personalities when they switch from one language to another. - Being alone for a long time is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. - Travel boosts brain health and decreases a person’s risk of heart attack and depression. - People look more attractive when they speak about the things they are interested in. - When two people talk to each other, and one of them turns their feet slightly away or repeatedly moves one foot in an outward direction, this is a sign of disagreement. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz For copyright matters please contact us at: [email protected] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC  ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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How A Messed Up Childhood Affects You In Adulthood
 
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It's a humbling situation, but much about who we are as adults can be traced back to things that happened to us before our 12th birthday. Part of learning to be an adulthood means making sense of the events of our childhood. We need to spot how our past might be trying to interfere with our chances in the present. For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://goo.gl/WA5d2o Join our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/P6fM1C Download our App: https://goo.gl/b7FNXL FURTHER READING “We are, all of us, beautifully crazy or, to put it in gentler terms, fascinatingly unbalanced. Our childhoods, even the apparently benign ones, leave us no option but to be anything else. As a result of these childhoods, we tend, over most issues, to list – like a sailing yacht in high wind – far too much in one direction or another. We are too timid, or too assertive; too rigid or too accommodating; too focused on material success or excessively lackadaisical. We are obsessively eager around sex or painfully wary and nervous in the face of our own erotic impulses. We are dreamily naive or sourly down to earth; we recoil from risk or embrace it recklessly; we have emerged into adult life determined never to rely on anyone or as desperate for another to complete us; we are overly intellectual or unduly resistant to ideas. The encyclopedia of emotional imbalances is a volume without end. What is certain is that these imbalances come at a huge cost, rendering us less able to exploit our talents and opportunities, less able to lead satisfying lives and a great deal less fun to be around…” You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://goo.gl/6ubziU MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Visit us in person at our London HQ: https://goo.gl/qf1h3j Watch more films on SELF in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLself You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://goo.gl/b7FNXL Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Directed by: Hannah & Martha  Design: Hannah McNally Animation Team: Flora Caulton, Emily Downe, Martha Halliday, Hannah McNally, Kathrin Steinbacher  www.hannahandmartha.com www.floracaulton.co.uk www.emilydowne.co.uk www.kathrinsteinbacher.com #TheSchoolOfLife
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Psychological Test: Guess Which One Is Not a Family
 
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The first relationship of any of us is the one with our families during childhood, and it often determines how we view the world. Take this psychological test to find out how your own first relationships have shaped your personality. Look closely at the picture of 3 families, or two families and one group of people, to be more precise. Can you tell which family is not a real one? Don’t think about it for too long, go with your gut here. Even if the family you come from wasn’t a happy one, don’t let the traumatic experience of the past affect your present and future. Even if your parents, sadly, didn’t have a loving relationship, it doesn’t mean your love and family life will go according to the same scenario. This video is intended for entertainment and information purposes only. The video is not intended to serve as a substitute for professional, medical or psychiatric advice of any kind. Music: 7th Floor Tango - Silent Partner https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music TIMESTAMPS Pick a family 0:46 Option #1 explained 1:21 Option #2 explained 2:13 Option #3 explained 3:14 SUMMARY -Don’t overthink your choice, just go with your gut here. -If your answer is family #1, you’re probably not a family-oriented person - at least not in the traditional sense. -If you picked family #2 because you believe it’s not a real one, you’re strongly family-oriented - there’s nothing more important to you than your family. Being a real family person, you were able to spot the fake family right away. -In case family #3 looks like a group of strangers to you, you probably come from a dysfunctional family. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Your Childhood Always Affects Your Relationships
 
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Why don't your romantic relationships work out? Psychologists believe the main reason lies in your childhood. The thing is that your childhood experiences create certain love patterns. Experts describe 5 main love styles you can develop, thanks to your early years. Other videos you might like: 11 Signs Your Love Will Last a Lifetime https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1hLH8ZbIIDk& 10 Early Signs of a Toxic Relationship https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CEUw8-LnhwI& PASSION VS. REAL LOVE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w7b8yjlxqnM& TIMESTAMPS: The Pleaser 0:53 The Avoider 2:39 The Vacillator 4:15 The Controller 5:56 The Victim 7:45 Music by Epidemic Sound https://www.epidemicsound.com/ SUMMARY: - Grown-up pleasers have difficulties saying no, establishing clear personal boundaries, and expressing their true feelings. In romantic relationships, they give their all to their partners, once again, doing everything they possibly can to make them happy. - Avoiders are highly logical. They enjoy their space and almost never get emotional. Even more so, they feel really uncomfortable when someone else shows strong emotions. The main problem in their relationships is the absence of emotional connection. - Vacillators strive to find the stable love they never received in their childhood and make one crucial mistake while doing it: They idealize their partner. Every time a vacillator falls in love, they jump into the relationship right away, thinking they’ve found their perfect soul mate. - Controllers view the world from 2 perspectives: They're either in control themselves or they're being controlled by others. They don't like stepping out of their comfort zone or expressing their emotions and vulnerability. The only feeling that isn't weak is anger, so they prefer to use it as a weapon to remain in power. - In their adult life, victims become very adaptable and prefer to go with the flow. They can be described as introverted, shy, and self-conscious. Of course, all this doesn't help them in their romantic love at all. They have no idea what life is like without abuse and violence, so they tend to go for domineering, controlling, and even cruel partners. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Photos: https://www.depositphotos.com East News ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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10 Psychology Problems Caused by Parenting Behavior
 
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With most psychological issues, the reasons are quite trivial: childhood emotional impressions. You should know that your low self-esteem and anxiety might be caused by certain parenting mistakes. TIMESTAMPS Lack of independence 0:36 Depression, a feeling of guilt 1:35 Inability to rest and relax completely 2:25 Harmful addictions and extreme sports 2:55 Personal life issues 3:29 Search for a parent-partner 4:01 Suppression of own talents and lack of initiative 4:19 Closeness, suppression of emotions 4:46 Extremely low self-esteem, desire to be like someone else 5:11 Lack of independence, irresponsibility 5:45 SUMMARY Parenting mistakes are quite common, but their price is too high. With our own unrestraint, overindulgence, inconsistency, or over-busyness, we make our children nervous and naughty. You are capable of avoiding this. You only have to cherish, understand, respect, and love your kids. Do any of these situations sound familiar to you? Then show this video to your parents. If you’re still a child, they’ll probably change their behavior for the better. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz For copyright matters please contact us at: [email protected] Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC  ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Attachment Theory: How Your Childhood Shaped You
 
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Our interpersonal relationships start forming as soon as we’re born, and psychologists have studied how those early connections can set the stage for the other relationships we form later in life. Hosted by: Stefan Chin ---------- Support SciShow by becoming a patron on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/scishow ---------- Dooblydoo thanks go to the following Patreon supporters: Kelly Landrum Jones, Sam Lutfi, Kevin Knupp, Nicholas Smith, D.A. Noe, alexander wadsworth, سلطا الخليفي, Piya Shedden, KatieMarie Magnone, Scott Satovsky Jr, Charles Southerland, Bader AlGhamdi, James Harshaw, Patrick Merrithew, Patrick D. Ashmore, Candy, Tim Curwick, charles george, Saul, Mark Terrio-Cameron, Viraansh Bhanushali, Kevin Bealer, Philippe von Bergen, Chris Peters, Justin Lentz ---------- Looking for SciShow elsewhere on the internet? Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/scishow Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/scishow Tumblr: http://scishow.tumblr.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/thescishow ---------- Sources: https://www.amazon.com/Fundamentals-Psychology-Context-Stephen-Kosslyn/dp/0205507573 (Pages 554-556) https://courses.lumenlearning.com/boundless-psychology/chapter/theories-of-human-development/ http://www.psychology.sunysb.edu/attachment/online/ew_stability.pdf https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=zUMBCgAAQBAJ&oi=fnd&pg=PP1&dq=Patterns+of+attachment:+A+psychological+study+of+the+strange+situation&ots=jdcLDlxVFN&sig=3n6lMVCngU62guJaa-uOVj9Bw2A#v=onepage&q=Patterns%20of%20attachment%3A%20A%20psychological%20study%20of%20the%20strange%20situation&f=false https://www.researchgate.net/publication/232424826_Attachment_and_psychopathology_in_adulthood https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=eZMxoRs5aUkC&oi=fnd&pg=PP2&dq=attachment+theory+in+adulthood&ots=bVxwLQgM0O&sig=d678JQzTGw1LfkApD72ANo-byoY#v=onepage&q=attachment%20theory%20in%20adulthood&f=false https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=SKidSuluprgC&oi=fnd&pg=PP2&dq=erikson+developmental+stages&ots=E60eEsNiEI&sig=cP-vplYHR6yM7-MKc6-81-90rXI#v=onepage&q=erikson%20developmental%20stages&f=false https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3861901/pdf/nihms529403.pdf https://www.nichd.nih.gov/research/supported/seccyd/Pages/overview.aspx http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14616734.2016.1259335?journalCode=rahd20 http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14616734.2012.672280 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3670111/pdf/nihms468524.pdf https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/reactive-attachment-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20352939 https://internal.psychology.illinois.edu/~rcfraley/attachment.htm http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/wol1/doi/10.1111/jftr.12045/full http://psycnet.apa.org/record/1997-06133-015 https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ960225.pdf
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Power and Distorted Relationships: The Psychology of the “Loyal Slave” and “Mammy” (Lecture)
 
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In the final days of the America Civil War, previously isolated slave populations found the opportunity to run toward Union ships or infantry encampments. Likewise, as federal forces moved onto these plantations and publicly read the Emancipation Proclamation, newly freed slaves migrated in great numbers to the nearest city where the Freedman’s Bureau worked to reunite scattered families and provide various forms of social or economic support. Southern planters watched their slaves leave with dismay, having lived under the delusion that their “human property” saw them as patriarchs who provided daily protection from birth to death. Their “defections” stripped away any pretense of the master-slave relationship. Join Ranger Troy Harman and explore the shattered notions of the “loyal slave” and “Mammy” following the end of the war and the transformation of southern society.
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10 Things ALL Men Do When They Are In Love
 
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10 ways to tell if he likes you back. Subscribe: https://goo.gl/Hnoaw3 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Most people believe when it comes to love, women are the ones that fall first and hardest. But according to science, it’s actually men who fall in love, and are often the first to say “I love you.” Other than when he tells you, how can you be sure that a man loves you? We will share some things that every single man does when they fall in love. Love may feel magical, but it’s really a chemical reaction that takes place in our brain, involving things like dopamine which affect our bodies. We’ll explain the science behind why this happens, and how it manifests in behavior. Learn about the different types of romance, and how to tell if you have a compassionate man who wants a healthy, long term relationship with you. Even someone’s body language can tell you whether or not they are in love, so check to see if he’s subconsciously mimicking what you do. When you are finished watching the video, tell us what you think in the comment section, and don’t forget to subscribe to TheTalko! ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheTalko Twitter: https://twitter.com/thetalko Instagram: https://instagram.com/the_talko For more videos and articles visit: http://www.thetalko.com/
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The Paradox of Love & Hate: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder - BPD Relationship Expert
 
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WARNING: this video was not meant to be a resource for those who have Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD), which is a very unfortunate psychological disorder. The video was created as a resource to victims of abuse, past and present, from people diagnosed with BPD. I do not believe that people with BPD are all the same, and are equally abusive. I do know that they hurt the people that they love. Some of them hurt these people very badly. This video is NOT a resource for people suffering with BPD. In fact, it will surely aggravate their condition. Although I believe I know a great deal about the disorder, I am neither a specialist nor an expert in the treatment of it. My skill set is with people who I refer to as “Self-Love Deficients” (codependents) who have Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency). Those who criticize my video(s) on BPD are misinformed about who I am. I neither represent people with BPD, nor do I ever try to. Rather, I am a psychotherapist who provides mental health services to people who are SLD’s (codependents) and trauma survivors. My work is about empowerment, healing and escaping abusive relationships. This is evident in my Human Magnet Syndrome book and my other video and training materials. My intention is not to malign people with BPD, but to empower and lead my clients away from their compulsion to stay in relationships with individuals who are harmful and abusive to them. My work represents people who want to heal psychological wounds and who take personal responsibility for their actions. I AM AGAINST abusive individuals who narcissistically justify their harmful behavior or blame it on the victims. If that fits with people diagnosed with BPD, or for that matter, NPD or ASPD, then I offer no apologies. Ross Rosenberg's latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminar, workshop and other services can be found at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com or www.HumanMagnetSyndrome.com. Ross Rosenberg’s work on codependency, narcissism, trauma, Self-Love Recovery™, and his "Codependency Cure™" has earned him international recognition. He owns Clinical Care Consultants, a multi-location Chicago suburb counseling center, and the Self-Love Recovery Institute. He has traveled to 30 states and twice to Europe to present his workshops. Ross's first book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome" sold over 50K copies and is published in French, Spanish and soon in Czech. His latest Human Magnet Syndrome book, a complete re-write of the first, is available on February 1st. Ross’s 7 million video views/68,000 subscribers YouTube platform has established him as global phenomenon. Ross owns Clinical Care Consultants, a counseling center located in Arlington Heights and Inverness IL. . Ross's articles at http://goo.gl/XEVxgE Dysfunctional Relationship Information.
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Relationship Between Psychology And Persuasion
 
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COM 231 GRAND CANYON WEEK 2 COMPLETE WORK LATEST Just Click on Below Link To Download This Course: URL= http://www.tutorialsexperts.us/product/com-231-grand-canyon-week-2-complete-work-latest/ Contact Us [email protected] COM 231 Grand Canyon Week 2 Complete Work Latest COM231 COM 231 Grand Canyon Week 2 Discussion 1 What is the relationship between psychology and persuasion? Share a psychological theory that is persuasive. COM 231 Grand Canyon Week 2 Discussion 2 Where do most college students exist on Maslow’s hierarchy of needs? Be descriptive in your explanation of why. COM 231 Grand Canyon Week 2 Journal Reflection 2 Each week, you are required to submit a journal entry of a minimum of 150 words, addressing a specified topic. Topic: Give an example of how Maslow’s hierarchy of needs affects persuasion. Explain a personal experience relating to this example. Where do most college students exist on Maslow’s hierarchy of needs? Where do you exist? GCU style is not required, but solid writing skill is expected. COM 231 Grand Canyon Week 2 Assignment History of Persuasion Essay-Final The purpose of this assignment is to show your understanding of the concepts surrounding the genesis of persuasion as a focused area of study among scholars. By analyzing the thoughts of the first and most prominent persuasive theorists, you will be able to build upon a foundation of the laws of thought as they govern all formation of concepts, judgments, and arguments. It is not possible in the time provided to cover every theory of persuasion from ancient times to present. Therefore, pick one persuasive theorist from Ancients (e.g., Cicero, Plato, Aristotle, Protagoras, Gorgias) and one modern theorist. For each, explain how they understood persuasion and how this would have influenced their communication behaviors. Provide specific illustrations to support the connections you make. After thoughtfully reading the articles/chapters assigned last week, write a 750-1,000-word final draft essay in which you do one of the following: Describe the original understanding of sophistry and contrast that understanding with its common understanding today. Analyze the role of rhetoric in knowledge (according to the Gorgias). How has this role changed today? Use the GCU Library to locate at least two additional resources to support your essay. Apply the feedback you received for your History of Persuasion Essay-Rough Draft to the final draft of your assignment. Prepare this assignment according to the guidelines found in the GCU Style Guide, located in the Student Success Center. This assignment uses a grading rubric. Please review the rubric prior to beginning the assignment to become familiar with the expectations for successful completion of the assignment. You are required to submit this assignment to Turnitin. Refer to the directions in the Student Success Center. Submit the assignment according to the directions provided by the instructor. COM 231 Grand Canyon Week 2 Assignment Cognitive Dissonance Essay assignment Write a 250-500 word essay that analyzes how cognitive dissonance explains the effectiveness of the arguments that you read this week. Use the GCU eLibrary to locate at least two additional resources to support your essay. You are not required to submit this assignment to Turnitin, unless otherwise directed by your instructor. If so directed, refer to the Student Success Center for directions. Only Word documents can be submitted to Turnitin. Prepare this assignment according to the guidelines found in the GCU Style Guide, located in the Student Success Center. Download File
Let's Talk About Sex: Crash Course Psychology #27
 
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Want more videos about psychology every Monday and Thursday? Check out our sister channel SciShow Psych at https://www.youtube.com/scishowpsych! Sex is complicated for different reasons in different cultures. But, it's the entire purpose of life, so there's no reason to blush. In this episode of Crash Course Psychology, Hank talks about Kinsey, Masters and Johnson, Sexuality, Gender Identity, Hormones, and even looks into the idea of why we have sex. There's a lot to go through here. -- Table of Contents: Alfred Kinsey & Sex Surveys 0:00 Biological Sex & Gender Identity 2:01 Masters & Johnson 3:07 Sex Hormones 5:31 Physiological & Social Factors of Sex 7:11 Sexual Orientation 8:51 Why We Have Sex 10:17 -- Want to find Crash Course elsewhere on the internet? Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/YouTubeCrashCourse Twitter - http://www.twitter.com/TheCrashCourse Tumblr - http://thecrashcourse.tumblr.com Support CrashCourse on Subbable: http://subbable.com/crashcourse
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Your Body Language Reveals the Truth About Your Relationship
 
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What your body language says about your personality and your relationship. You can understand what is happening in your relationship without any words. Don't worry; it might be not so dramatic as you imagine. There are a lot of things people try to communicate non-verbally. There is no need to say anything when our body language is expressive enough! The main thing is to read it correctly. TIMESTAMPS Situation #1. Everything is fine, and you like each other. 0:57 Your partner turns their body to you. 1:17 Their pupils dilate. 3:24 Too active in your presence. 3:54 Situation #2. Something is going wrong. You need to talk. 4:45 Their kisses become quick and formal. 5:09 Reaction to your jokes. 5:20 Body "blocks". 5:39 #bodylanguage #attractpeople #personalitytest SUMMARY Good signs - A fantastic indicator is if you start to notice that your hands touch each other by chance very often. There might be even no real reason for it. Or, even better, many specks of dust unexpectedly appear on your clothes that need to be urgently cleaned - what your partner diligently does! Well, with such signs, you can be sure that the interest in you is high. - Sometimes you might notice that, after telling some joke, the person who told it is looking at you and waiting for your reaction. Oh, that is an obvious sign of liking! - A shocking fact for you now: did you know that men usually stop smiling widely around the age of 5-6 years? If you notice that a man near you is wearing a Hollywood smile, it can mean that he is really happy, according to the words of the psychologist Patti Wood. - 100% proof that everything is going well is if you start to notice that your partner uses the same gestures and intonations that you do. It doesn't mean that they are trying to tease you. It is more probable that they like you and are copying you subconsciously! Bad signs - It is a bad sign if partners show contempt toward each other. It might be eye-rolling or speaking badly about the partner, making sarcastic remarks or even calling names. According to the statistics, it is a predictor that there is a threat of break-up or divorce. - You and your partner may sit at the table together, but if you are still eating your ravioli while your partner is already on their coffee and cheesecake, - too bad. Happy couples typically mirror each other's movements, therefore showing some synchronicity. It happens on a subconscious level, and its absence can be food for thought. - 'Arguing is a bad sign!' - you will say. Well, yes. But if partners are cold toward each other and keep their emotions "conserved," it can be an indicator that they have moved past the point of no-return and don't have any feelings left to express. - Loving people tend to show care toward their beloved ones. If instead of straightening your clothes or smoothing your hair, they simply inform you that your hair is messy, you should think whether your relationship is still harmonious. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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18 Types of Kisses And What They Actually Mean
 
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There are more than 100 types of kisses out there, and each of them shows different feelings! How do you kiss your partner? Check out what your kisses say about your relationship! TIMESTAMPS French kiss 0:28 Quick kiss 1:16 Kiss on the cheek 1:50 Blown kiss 2:23 “Lock” kiss 2:56 “Angel's kiss” 3:25 Kiss on the nose 4:08 Kiss on the forehead 4:39 Kiss on the ear 5:05 Kiss on the lobe of the ear 5:40 Kissing hand 6:20 Neck kiss 7:01 Hickey 7:39 One-lip kiss 8:06 “The Eskimo” kiss 8:40 Lower lip biting 9:09 “Vacuum” kiss 9:37 Body contact 10:08 SUMMARY - Those couples, who prefer French kissing over anything else, are at the peak of their attraction to one another and just can't get enough. If you're together for a long time and still French kiss quite frequently, then you're one of those rare couples, who were able to carry this initial passion through all these years. - Quick kissing is typical for couples, who're together for a long period of time and who've already passed the peak of their passion. However, if you usually kiss like that, it doesn't necessarily mean that you two don't love each other anymore. You're just on another level of your relationship. - Who said that physical contact should be one of the main attributes of kissing? Blown kisses can be just as alluring as all the other ones! If you and your partner frequently blow small and cute kisses to each other, that means that you both are very flirtatious and love to live in the moment. Watch the video and find out other types of kisses what they mean. And which one of these types of kissing is your favorite? Tell us in the comments! Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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20 RELATIONSHIP STEREOTYPES THAT ARE TRUE
 
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There's no smoke without fire, so these hilarious stereotypes are mostly true! Grab some popcorn and enjoy these funny scenes of couples' lives! ;) ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/5Minute.Crafts.Girly/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/5.min.crafts/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/5m_crafts 5-Minute Crafts KIDS: https://goo.gl/PEuLVt The Bright Side of Youtube: https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- TIMESTAMPS: 0:10 Girls vs guys 1:10 Before vs after marriage 2:25 With vs without you 4:00 When your girl is taller than you For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Is Social Media Hurting Your Mental Health? | Bailey Parnell | TEDxRyersonU
 
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Scrolling through our social media feeds feels like a harmless part of our daily lives. But is it actually as harmless at seems? According to social media expert Bailey Parnell, our growing and unchecked obsession with social media has unintended long term consequences on our mental health. As social media continues to become part of the fabric of modern life – the “digital layer” – abstinence is becoming less of an option. Bailey think it’s high time we learned to practice safe social before it’s too late. What are the common triggers? How are they affecting you over time? How can you create a more positive experience online? Bailey covers this and more in “Is Social Media Hurting Your Mental Health?” Bailey Parnell was recently named one of Canada's Top 100 Most Powerful Women. She is an award-winning digital marketer, public speaker and businesswoman with a talent for helping people tell better stories. Her work and expertise have been featured on CBC, CTV & in other local Toronto media. Bailey recently founded SkillsCamp, a soft skills training company where they help people develop the essential skills needed for professional success. She also currently works in digital marketing at Ryerson University. Bailey is a frequent public speaker having spoken to more than 10 thousand people. She primarily speaks about social media, personal branding, and media and mental health. She guest lectured her first MBA class at 21-years-old and has been the youngest speaker as multiple academic conferences. She is currently pursuing her Masters in Communication and Culture with a research focus on social media and mental health, and holds an honours BA from the RTA School of Media at Ryerson. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Psychology Explains Why People Cheat In A Relationship
 
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Psychological Analysis of Eminem: Childhood and Relationship with Parents
 
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Darius Cikanavičius from http://SelfArcheology.com analyzes three of Eminem's songs and how they reveal Eminem's dysfunctional childhood and his difficult relationship with his parents. Eminem's videos: Sing for the Moment - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D4hAVemuQXY Cleanin' Out My Closet - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RQ9_TKayu9s My Mom - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3j2DwztCFU Full lyrics: Sing for the Moment - http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/eminem/singforthemoment.html Cleanin' Out My Closet - http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/eminem/cleaninoutmycloset.html My Mom - http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/eminem/mymom.html A couple of my articles on childhood trauma: Empathy And Laughing At Others' Misery - http://blog.selfarcheology.com/2013/05/empathy-and-laughing-at-others-misery.html It's Not The Child's Fault - http://blog.selfarcheology.com/2013/05/its-not-childs-fault_28.html How We Learn Not to Feel - http://blog.selfarcheology.com/2013/07/when-we-get-hurt-for-being-hurt-how-we.html Common Reactions to The Topic of Childhood Trauma - http://blog.selfarcheology.com/2013/05/common-reactions-to-topic-of-childhood.html Website: http://selfarcheology.com Support us on Patreon: http://patreon.com/selfarcheology Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/selfarcheology Blog: http://blog.selfarcheology.com Support Self-Archeology ♥: http://selfarcheology.com/donate.html Twitter: http://twitter.com/SelfArcheology
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The Way You Hold Hands Reveals a Lot About Your Relationship
 
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How to Know if You’re Meant to be. There are always little signs here and there that can say a lot about a couple's true behind-closed-doors dynamic. And holding hands is definitely one of them! That's simply because body language is your subconscious speaking, putting your innermost feelings on display. So what deepest and darkest secrets can it uncover about your relationship? How a couple holds hands is just a tiny part of the whole picture, so it can’t predict the success or failure of a relationship all by itself. It’s a good place to start, but always look for other clues if you’re having doubts about your partner’s emotional investment in your relationship. And, again, talking openly and honestly will never let you down. TIMESTAMPS Down-facing palm 0:55 Interlocked fingers 1:40 The over-the-shoulder lock 2:39 The one-finger hold 3:22 “Reinforcement” from the other hand 4:07 The wrist grab 5:00 Linked arms 5:53 Holding fingers and slightly pulling the hand 6:48 Without holding hands 7:38 Music: https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music SUMMARY -Couples that hold their palms down have a strong bond based on sincere affection. Whoever’s palm is facing downward or behind tends to have a stronger personality. -Interlocked fingers symbolize passion and a strong connection between two people. If you and your partner don't mind meeting each other halfway, you're gonna be just fine. -There's no distance between you two, which symbolizes how loving and intimate your bond is. -You're two strong and successful individuals who respect each other's space and privacy but can create a powerful union at the same time. -If you notice that you or your partner uses “reinforcement” from the other hand quite often, this can either be a really good sign or a red flag: it can indicate an overly possessive person or show how serious your relationship is getting. -If you and your partner like to gently grab or hold the other’s wrist from behind with your forearms crossing, it means that you enjoy every second that you spend together. -If you and your partner link arms every day, it can mean that the one who takes their partner’s arm is seeking protection or feeling a little bit insecure in the relationship. -Whoever’s pulling the other’s hand might be trying to force their partner to make decisions faster than they're used to. It can also indicate that one of you is fed up with the routine in the relationship. -If your partner always tries to avoid holding your hand, it may be a sign that they're just not that into you. On the other hand, it could simply be shyness or a desire for privacy and more independence. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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8 Unique LGBTQ Dating Problems
 
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Get a solar universe bracelet here: https://goo.gl/DYN43G Use the discount code: psych2go to get 10% off. There are a number of things those in the LGBTQ community endure during their time on the dating scene. In fact, we have 8 of them listed below. Before you read on, keep in mind that the LGBTQ community is diverse and a few of these problems are directed more to some than they are to others. Based off our article: https://psych2go.net/8-unique-lgbtq-dating-problems/ Links to more of our LGBTQ articles by Alex: https://psych2go.net/category/lgbt/ Content/Script/Voice over by: Alex Nunez Animated by: Chloe Watson (New animator for Psych2Go!) Project Manager: Erin Bogo Community Manager: Priscilla Cha, Nicole Pridemore Producer: Psych2Go Support us by grabbing a psychology magazine here: https://psych2go.shop/collections/magazines Or get a bracelet here: https://www.introvertpalace.com/products/universe-galaxy-the-eight-planets-in-the-solar-system-guardian-star-natural-stone-beads-bracelet-bangle-for-women-men-gift More Psych2Go here: http://youtube.com/psych2go Website: http://psych2go.net Twitter: http://twitter.com/psych2go Facebook: http://facebook.com/psych2go Tumblr: http://psych2go.me
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9 Types of Non-Physical Acts That Are Still Cheating
 
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Not all cheating is physical, and defining an emotional affair that can spoil a happy relationship can be way harder. According to statistics, around 45% of men and 35% of women have admitted to have done some sort of nonphysical cheating. Pay attention to the 9 types of emotional infidelity and what you should do to keep your relationship healthy. If you want to break free from the negative and destructive aspects of your relationship, never be mad at your partner for something they don’t know they’re doing wrong. Talk to them. If you can’t stand the urge to flirt with other people, both online and offline, and you can’t help crossing the line with strangers, it’s a clear red flag that something’s missing between you and your partner. If you’re going out of your way to hide something or someone from your partner, then it clearly means that you’re feeling a little guilty about something. Maybe you feel that your secret “friend” is a threat to your relationship and don’t want to admit this fact. The only way out for you is to admit it to yourself and figure out why you’re being secretive in the first place. Remember that while attraction is not a choice, cheating definitely is. It’s also true for same-sex friends you or your partner has. An affair doesn’t just randomly happen, only you can make a choice to give in to your temptations or not go down that slippery slope. Remember, the love you feel for the dollars in your bank account is nothing compared to the love of a loyal spouse. Let your family and friends know that when it comes to your significant other and your relationship, there is a line that they can’t cross. Music: Love Now - Eveningland Nimbus - Eveningland Dat Groove - Audionautix https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music TIMESTAMPS You’re too close to your opposite-sex friend. 0:46 You flirt online and offline. 1:36 You’re having an affair with your phone. 2:28 You constantly complain about your partner to others. 3:40 You cross the line with strangers. 4:30 You have a secret friend. 5:26 You fantasize about others. 6:29 You lie about your finances. 7:37 You don’t stand up for your partner. 8:37 SUMMARY -Nobody’s saying that men and women can’t be “just friends”, but if your gut is telling you there’s an attraction between your partner and their “friend”, address the issue directly. -Anonymous online flirting, as well as the offline sort, is still an affair. -Instead of talking to their partner, friend, or family member, people are diving into virtual reality to distract themselves. -When you complain about your partner to others, you actually just end up creating even more space between the two of you. -If you need someone, especially a complete stranger, to fill whatever void you have in your relationship, you’re crossing the line into emotional infidelity. -If you’re relying on someone for emotional support, and that person isn’t in a romantic relationship with you, you’re setting yourself up for some trouble with your partner. -In case you’re consistently daydreaming about a sexual partner other than your partner, this could be considered emotional infidelity, and it could lead to a sexual affair because it means you’re disconnected from your spouse. -The problem with financial dishonesty, like any other type of lying, is that trust is lost, and the relationship immediately loses any chance of success. -If your boyfriend or girlfriend won’t stand up for you, it’s possible that they don’t consider the relationship as serious as you do. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Whisper 20 - Personality and relationship psychology
 
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I couldn't sleep, so I decided to make a really long video. I love Psychology Today, so I mostly just ramble about that and read a few articles.
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The Impact of Early Emotional Neglect
 
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A lot of our adult problems come down to varieties of emotional neglect suffered in childhood. In this film, we look at one of the most famous experiments in the history of psychology, The Still Face Experiment, devised by Professor Ed Tronick - which gives us an insight into the vulnerability of, and need for love in young children. For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://bit.ly/2v1rTho Join our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://bit.ly/2NVwt89 Download our App: https://bit.ly/2Aib6f4 FURTHER READING “Many of us are wandering the world bearing a lot of emotional damage. We may be depressed, anxious or very difficult around sex and relationships. We might in certain moods ask ourselves where the difficulties came from. It’s a continually weird, provocative and yet – in The School of Life’s view – extremely accurate answer that the damage comes, almost always, from childhood, especially early childhood.” You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://bit.ly/2LvbX1a MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Visit us in person at our London HQ: https://bit.ly/2Lx7gnM Watch more films on SELF in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLself You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://bit.ly/2Aib6f4 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Matt Knott https://www.curtisbrown.co.uk/client/matthew-hammett-knott #TheSchoolOfLife #Psychology #Love
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20+ Psychology Tricks to Read Anyone Like a Book
 
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We get over 55% of information through nonverbal communication, like facial expressions, gestures, and other body movements. Pay attention to the signals that other people send without even realizing it. You’ve probably wondered how convenient life would be if you could read other people's minds. Some people use their intuition for this, but if you’re not so perceptive, there’s only one choice left: learning to read people's body language. TIMESTAMPS Closing their eyes 0:45 Covering their mouth 1:00 Chewing on their glasses 1:26 “Presenting” their face 1:52 Rubbing their chin 2:16 Crossed arms 2:34 Fixing their posture 3:02 Leaning forward 3:22 Leaning back 3:50 Swinging from their heels to their toes 4:14 Rubbing their hands 4:37 The "glove" handshake 4:59 A handshake with the palm facing the floor vs ceiling 5:29 Cupping someone’s hands during a handshake 5:57 A handshake with a touch 6:25 Fixing their tie 7:09 Collecting imaginary lint 7:30 Putting their feet on the desk 7:50 Mounting a chair like a horse 8:11 Playing with their shoe 8:35 Eye contact 8:57 Avoiding eye contact 9:34 Unbroken staring 9:50 A lot of blinking 10:16 SUMMARY - If a person is talking to you and closing their eyes, you should know that they’re trying to hide from the outside world. - A few fingers, a palm, or even a fist near the mouth helps us hold back the words we don't want to let out. - If you see someone chewing on the earpieces of their glasses, try having a heart-to-heart with them and cheering them up. They’re definitely subconsciously worried about something. - Crossed arms are a clear sign that a person is not feeling it today. - When a woman wants a man to notice her, she tries to present herself in the best way possible. She straightens her back to emphasize her breasts, and she may also cross her legs. - When people like someone and want to get to know them, they usually lean forward. - If someone sits back in their chair, they’re showing that they’re tired of the conversation and don't want to keep it going. - If a person doesn't swing back and forth but bounces up and down on their toes, it might be a sign that they’re feeling confident. - Rubbing the hands together generally means that a person has a positive feeling about something, and they’re hopeful. - While you’re shaking hands with someone, if that person takes your wrist with their free hand, they’re showing that they’re trustworthy, friendly, and honest. What psychological approaches do you use to read others? Share your secrets in the comments below. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Psychology And Relationships: When They Fail
 
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Esther Perel | Modern Love and Relationships | SXSW 2018
 
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Relationships are going through a complex cultural shift. Expectations on intimate partnerships are at an all-time high, yet we lack the tools and resources to reach this new Olympus. Join iconic couples therapist Esther Perel as she shines a light on the state of modern love, the importance of erotic intelligence, and how listening to the stories of others helps us navigate our own relationships. About SXSW: SXSW dedicates itself to helping creative people achieve their goals. Founded in 1987 in Austin, Texas, SXSW is best known for its conference and festivals that celebrate the convergence of the interactive, film, and music industries. An essential destination for global professionals, the event features sessions, showcases, screenings, exhibitions, and a variety of networking opportunities. SXSW proves that the most unexpected discoveries happen when diverse topics and people come together. SXSW 2019 will take place March 8-17, 2019. Subscribe: http://www.youtube.com/user/sxsw?sub_confirmation=1 Connect with us online: WEBSITE: https://www.sxsw.com/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/SXSWFestival/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/sxsw INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/sxsw/
Views: 554456 SXSW
How To Choose A Partner Wisely
 
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We’re given very little guidance on how to choose our partners and tend to leave it to that mysterious force we know as ‘instinct’. However, it truly pays to be a little more rational in this area and work out how our instincts operate and why they push us towards some people and away from others. For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://goo.gl/lLmtDZ Join our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Or visit us in person at our London HQ: https://goo.gl/scNBv2 FURTHER READING “How do we choose the people we fall in love with? The Romantic answer is that our instincts naturally guide us to individuals who are kind and good for us. Love is a sort of ecstasy that descends when we feel ourselves in the presence of a benign and nourishing soul, who will answer our emotional needs, understand our sadness and strengthen us for the hard tasks of our lives. In order to locate our lover, we must let our instincts carry us along, taking care never to impede them through pedantic psychological analysis and introspection or else considerations of status, wealth or lineage. Our feelings will tell us clearly enough when we have reached our destiny. To ask someone with any degree of rigour why exactly they have chosen a particular partner is – in the Romantic world-view – simply an unnecessary and offensive misunderstanding of love: true love is an instinct that accurately and naturally settles on those with a capacity to make us happy.…” You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://goo.gl/IkAGvy MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/1y98gz Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships Do you speak a different language to English? Did you know you can submit Subtitles on all of our videos on YouTube? For instructions how to do this click here: https://goo.gl/J1yL37 Download our App: https://goo.gl/S6UUH4 SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://goo.gl/S6UUH4 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Zedem media http://www.zedemanimations.com/ #TheSchoolOfLife
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10 Rare Psychological Delusions
 
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16 Psychological Paradoxes That Make You Behave Strangely
 
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When we say our actions are a result of only our own decisions, we lie a bit. Our brain is constantly tricking us, impairing our perception of reality. Are you one of the many people who wonder why they get their best ideas in the shower? The answer to this eternal question might seem confusing as it’s one of a number of paradoxes you've probably never thought about. TIMESTAMPS: The more effort you make to impress people, the less impressed they are 0:37 The harder you try to achieve your goal, the harder it will be to get there 1:09 The more honestly you speak about your mistakes, the more perfect you seem to other people 1:43 The more you dislike something about another person, the more likely it is that you have this character trait yourself 2:11 People who don't trust others can't be trusted either 2:39 The more failures you've had, the more likely you are to succeed in the end 3:22 The more you fear death, the less you enjoy life 3:55 If you care little about others, you don't care enough about yourself 4:18 The more friends you make, the more lonely you feel 4:41 The more you argue, the less likely you are to convince people of your point of view 5:13 The more options you have, the less happy you are with each of them 5:40 The more you learn, the more you realize how little you know 6:05 Overconfident people are rarely right 6:23 The harder you try to keep a person close, the more you push them away 6:46 The less available something is, the more you want it 7:13 The best ideas come to you in the shower 7:33 #psychology #psychologicaltricks #psychologicaleffects Music by Epidemic Sound https://www.epidemicsound.com/ SUMMARY: - When you are trying too hard to impress people, you aren't likely to show your true self. Subconsciously, people will feel your insincerity and won't fall for your performance. - Your mind can play some pretty cruel tricks on you! For example, if you expect something to be difficult, you unconsciously overcomplicate things. - Vulnerability is an amazing thing. When you aren't afraid to demonstrate it and feel comfortable about not being ideal, people tend to think that you’re perfect. - According to Carl Jung, a famous psychologist, if there's a trait that bothers you in others, it reflects those parts of you that you deny or feel insecure about - Those who feel insecure about any kind of connection they have with others often use this tactic. - There's nothing wrong with trying again and again. You'll succeed eventually! - Any fear you have paralyzes your desire to be happy and enjoy your life. And since the fear of death is one of the most potent fears a person can have, it doesn't let you live your life to the fullest. - You might not notice it at first sight, but be sure that those who are rude, uncaring, and impolite to other people are just as negligent to themselves. - If you really want to convince someone, stop arguing. Give the other party time to come to the same conclusion on their own. - This is the famous “paradox of choice,” where people who are presented with more options feel less satisfied with the one they make. When you make your choice, you automatically reject other alternatives. - The more convinced a person is that they are right, the less likely they are to know the subject. The problem is that many facts change over time. But an overly confident person isn't likely to check the truthfulness of something they think they know. - When you try to be as close as possible to another person, that's mostly your jealousy speaking. Such behavior can only make your partner feel obliged to love you and be loyal. And that's not a healthy relationship. - A relaxed state of mind can help you turn your focus inward. Thus, your mind will be more likely to make insightful connections. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Psychological flexibility: How love turns pain into purpose | Steven Hayes | TEDxUniversityofNevada
 
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What can we do to prosper when facing pain and suffering in our lives? More than a thousand studies suggest that a major part of the answer is learning psychological flexibility. Steven C. Hayes is one of the researchers who first identified that process and put it into action in the form of a popular acceptance and mindfulness method called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. In this emotional talk, Hayes distills the essence of psychological flexibility down into a few easy to understand sentences. He takes viewers through a harrowing journey into his own panic disorder, to the very moment in his life when he made this life changing choice: I will not run from me. Hayes shows how making that choice allows us to connect with our own deep sense of meaning and purpose, arguing that taking a loving stance to your own pain allows you to bring love and contribution into the world. Steven C. Hayes is Nevada Foundation Professor at the Department of Psychology at the University of Nevada. An author of 38 books and more than 540 scientific articles, he has shown in his research how language and thought leads to human suffering, and has developed “Acceptance and Commitment Therapy” a powerful therapy method that is useful in a wide variety of areas. His popular book “Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life” was featured in Time Magazine among several other major media outlets and for a time was the number one best selling self-help book in the United States. Dr. Hayes has been President of several scientific societies and has received several national awards, such as the Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapy. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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7 Curious Facts Your Appearance Says About You
 
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Research continues to show that our appearance can say a lot about our personality and lifestyle. Let’s find out what exactly your facial features can say about you. Psychologist and neuroscientist Dr. Keith Welker studied the facial structure of around 1,000 World Cup soccer players and found that a player’s facial width-to-height ratio was closely connected to the number of goals he scored. The higher the number, the more competent a person is. Your wrinkles tell the story of your life. There are certain muscles that work every time you smile, cry, frown, or raise your brows. After some time, they get used to particular emotions and “draw” them on your face, making them visible even when your face is resting. There's a slight differentiation between genders when it comes to picking “the good side”. Women tend to turn to the camera with their left side. Researches believe that this is because the left part of our face is controlled by the right hemisphere of our brain, which is responsible for our emotions. That's why it seems way more attractive. In 2015 a group of scientists analyzed 123 selfies taken from Sina Weibo, a Chinese microblogging site sort of like Twitter. The researchers found a fascinating connection between types of selfies and people's personalities. Selfie takers with the infamous duck face and high angle tend to be neurotic. People who are friendlier and more open to new experiences tend to use the bottom-up approach while taking selfies. Have you ever noticed how identical twins start to look less and less alike as they get older? You can have the best genes ever, but the lifestyle you lead will still affect your appearance. Music: https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music Preview photo credit: Martin Freeman attends the "Ghost Stories" photocall in Rome on April 06, 2018: By Stefano Costantino/MEGA/EAST NEWS, https://www.eastnews.ru/pictures/picture/id/63416636/i/9/t/127 Benedict Cumberbatch attends the Avengers "Infinity War" UK Fans Screening at the BBC Studio in London 08 Apr 2018: By Fred Duval/MEGA/EAST NEWS, https://www.eastnews.ru/pictures/picture/id/63417669/i/8/t/127 Animation is created by Bright Side. TIMESTAMPS Facial structure 0:35 Broad cheekbones 1:36 Wrinkles 2:25 Your good side 3:18 Selfies 4:16 Nose 5:16 The Dorian Gray effect 6:04 Tricky appearance 6:46 SUMMARY -According to the research, the visually wider your face, the higher your chances of being successful are. -British scientists have found that men with higher levels of testosterone have wider faces with broad cheekbones. -Crow's feet and smile lines say that you're a true optimist who's pretty emotional but also just loves to laugh and have a good time. A crease on your forehead between your eyebrows suggests a completely different story. -Engineers, mathematicians, and chemists usually pose with their right side to the camera, while art critics and psychologists prefer their left side. -People who are friendlier and more open to new experiences tend to use the bottom-up approach while taking selfies. -The bigger a person's nose, the more ambitious they are. -Your bad habits are slowly being imprinted right on your face. -Beautiful people might seem way friendlier than they really are. Those with a round face and big eyes are often seen as naive, genuine, and kind. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Psychology of Anxiety
 
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Take a deep breath in and out. Feel better? Anxiety and stress can be pretty gnarly. When it starts to affect your daily life, that’s when there’s some serious concern. But what can you do when you have a problem with anxiety? This week, Micah explores the psychology of anxiety and its treatment. Suffering from anxiety? Check out these resources: http://psychcentral.com/resources/Anxiety_and_Panic/ https://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms https://www.mentalhealth.gov/get-help/immediate-help/ Sources: http://psitnotes.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Adult-Psychopathology-and-Diagnosis-7th-Edition-Beidel-Deborah-C.-Frueh-B.-Christopher.pdf https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3878378/ https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/anxiety-disorders/index.shtml http://gracepointwellness.org/1-anxiety-disorders/article/38467-the-symptoms-of-anxiety https://www.adaa.org/about-adaa/press-room/facts-statistics http://www.webmd.com/balance/guide/how-worrying-affects-your-body#1 http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/mental-health-anxiety-disorders#1 https://www.helpguide.org/articles/anxiety/therapy-for-anxiety-disorders.htm Support us on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/neurotransmissions HUGE thanks to our Patreon supporters, particularly to Ryan M. Shaver, Carrie McKenzie, and Brandon Cisneros - our Patreon Producers. Thanks you three! Also, big shoutout to our newest patron, Stephen Smith! Neuro Transmissions is a channel on a mission to bring neuroscience to everyone. It's not rocket surgery, it's brain science! Learn all sorts of fun and interesting things with Alie Astrocyte every other Sunday by subscribing to the channel. Have a topic you want covered? Let us know in the comments. Share, like, and subscribe for more videos to come! Over and out. Neuro Transmissions is on the other social medias too: https://www.facebook.com/neurotransmissions https://www.twitter.com/neuroyoutube https://www.instagram.com/neurotransmissions https://www.neurotransmissions.science Snapchat - @neuroyoutube Brain images from Motifolio drawing toolkits (www.motifolio.com) Vector images from freepik.com “In The Mist” by Trackmanbeatz is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License. Artist: www.trackmanbeatz.com "Romantic" by BenSound is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License. Artist: http://www.bensound.com The following images and video are Creative Commons and were used for educational purposes: https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/3/36/Left_shark.png https://c1.staticflickr.com/4/3742/9266558714_a4eb48686a_b.jpg The following images were used for educational purposes and fall under fair use laws: http://www.greengiant.eu/en/story All other content is original and/or owned by Neuro Transmissions.
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When Romance Is Actually Relationship Abuse | HealthyPlace
 
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Relationship abuse can masquerade as romance in certain situations. Is your love overly romantic ... or abusive? Watch this and get more info at https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/verbalabuseinrelationships/2019/2/abusive-behavior-vs-normal-behavior-whats-the-difference, 'Abusive Behavior Vs. Normal Behavior: What's the Difference?' ▷ Subscribe to the HealthyPlace YouTube Channel at http://bit.ly/2I4o7bH ▷ Visit http://HealthyPlace.com for Trusted Mental Health Information Abusive behavior is often confused with healthy behavior in relationships. How do you know if you're being abused or not? Learn the differences at HealthyPlace. ▷ https://bit.ly/2VbwHf0 ▷ See the latest posts on the 'Verbal Abuse in Relationships' blog at http://bit.ly/abuseblog Get more videos about relationship abuse and emotional abuse here: ▷ Abuse, Abusive Relationships Playlist | http://bit.ly/abusevideos Visit HealthyPlace for more: ▷ In-depth Abuse Information & Resources | http://bit.ly/abuseinforesource ▷ In-depth Emotional and Psychological Abuse Articles | https://goo.gl/v3zJRV ▷ In-depth Verbal Abuse Articles | https://goo.gl/JSv34g ○Follow HealthyPlace on Social Media: ▷ Facebook | http://bit.ly/2jGgZYt ▷ Twitter | http://bit.ly/2KO4Ehg ▷ Instagram | http://bit.ly/2FY90i3 ▷ Pinterest | http://bit.ly/2wnDsCJ ▷ Tumblr | http://bit.ly/2IlK9u1