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The Attachment Theory - How Childhood Trauma Affects Your Life
 
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The attachment theory argues that a strong emotional and physical bond to one primary caregiver in our first years of life, is critical to our development. If our bonding is strong and we are securely attached, then we feel safe to explore the world. If our bond is weak, we feel insecurely attached. We are afraid to leave or explore a rather scary-looking world. Because we are not sure if we can return. Often we then don't understand our own feelings. Special thanks for our patroeon supporters: Ville Medeiros, Chutimon Nuangnit, Cedric Wang, Mike, Eva Marie Koblin, Julien Dumesnil, Mathis and the others. You are wonderful !!! If you feel helpful and want to support our channel, write a comment, subscribe and spread the word or become a patron on www.patreon.com/sprouts. Full Script: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1v82PcEvf_G2iolc5ejPY5dQ2RtqU1Vj9V5L_iIKWUhk/edit?usp=sharing Dealing with Attachment Issues: Dealing with Attachment Issues is no easy task. For those who feel like they can’t help themselves, or can’t find trust through their partners of family, we recommend looking for professional support through a therapy. If you are able to form a secure attachment to a therapist, he can become the one who provides you with that secure base. Here three of possible therapies: 1. Psychoanalysis. The aim of psychoanalysis therapy is to release repressed emotions and experiences, i.e., make the unconscious conscious. In order to do that they therapist might try to bring back some childhood memories, to work at the root cause of the problem. 2. Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT). CBT is a psycho-social intervention that is widely used for improving mental health. Instead of trying to bring you back in time, it aims to explain you whats going on inside your brain and how to cope with irrational feelings or fears. 3. The Hoffmann Process. This 7-8 days guided process, designed by the American psychologist Hoffmann, brings participants back into their childhood to reconnect with their parents at the time when attachment is formed. Its very intensive. Sources: Havard Study https://arizona.pure.elsevier.com/en/publications/feelings-of-parental-caring-predict-health-status-in-midlife-a-35 Minnesota Study https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2857405/ Further Readins: https://www.psychologistworld.com/developmental/attachment-theory
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12 Surprising Facts About Relationships!
 
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Today, you’ll learn some facts about relationships and love that lots of couples can easily relate to. The relationship facts in this video, however, are mostly based around psychology and science, rather than pure conjecture. After all - we want you to know the truth! This video is for educational purposes only. Sources: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/jomf.12092 https://www.businessinsider.com/facts-about-marriage-2017-2 https://www.infoplease.com/us/marital-status/median-age-first-marriage-1890-2010 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9325592 https://www.huffpost.com/entry/relationship-facts-everyone-should-know_n_58d554a2e4b02a2eaab3890f http://time.com/41762/study-marriage-is-good-for-the-heart/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200409/cupids-comeuppance https://learning.knoji.com/why-love-makes-us-act-so-irrational-the-chemistry-behind-a-fool-in-love/ https://www.ucdavis.edu/news/lovers-hearts-beat-sync-uc-davis-study-says/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21910541 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23107993 https://heart.bmj.com/content/104/23/1937 https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/06/study-sleep-deprived-men-more-likely-to-assume-that-women-want-them/276502/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-truth-about-exercise-addiction/201808/the-connection-between-sex-and-sleep Music: “Ukulele” from Bensound.com Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (VO), HowlingCreations (animation) for helping to create this video!
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35 PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE
 
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Healthy Relationships - What You MUST Know To Sustain A Great Relationship
 
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Healthy Relationships - The keys to establishing a healthy relationship that will last forever. The Ultimate Life Purpose Course - Create Your Dream Career: http://www.actualized.org/life-purpose-course Leo's Top 140 Self Help Books http://www.actualized.org/books Full Transcript Here: http://www.actualized.org/articles/healthy-relationships Video Summary: Building a healthy relationship is a life-long endeavor, not a weekend project. Spend time learning about yourself, the opposite sex, and the critical psychological building blocks that govern love and sex. Know the defining characteristics of a co-dependent relationship, an independent relationship, and an inter-dependent one. The co-dependent relationship is the least healthy and unfortunately the most common. Both parties are looking to their partner to fulfill them, which is not only impossible, but typically catastrophic. Independent relationships may struggle to take-off, but offer the potential of becoming an even-healthier inter-dependent relationship with sufficient cooperation. Inter-dependent relationships are built on the individual strengths of both partners, and the synergy created when these individuals collaborate. To best prepare for a healthy relationship, work on yourself first. Operate from a position of abundance, at least in terms of potential partners. Learn to be happy all by yourself. Build yourself an awesome life, and use personal development to work on any "opportunities" for improvement in terms of your personal psychology.
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Your Body Language Reveals the Truth About Your Relationship
 
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What your body language says about your personality and your relationship. You can understand what is happening in your relationship without any words. Don't worry; it might be not so dramatic as you imagine. There are a lot of things people try to communicate non-verbally. There is no need to say anything when our body language is expressive enough! The main thing is to read it correctly. TIMESTAMPS Situation #1. Everything is fine, and you like each other. 0:57 Your partner turns their body to you. 1:17 Their pupils dilate. 3:24 Too active in your presence. 3:54 Situation #2. Something is going wrong. You need to talk. 4:45 Their kisses become quick and formal. 5:09 Reaction to your jokes. 5:20 Body "blocks". 5:39 #bodylanguage #attractpeople #personalitytest SUMMARY Good signs - A fantastic indicator is if you start to notice that your hands touch each other by chance very often. There might be even no real reason for it. Or, even better, many specks of dust unexpectedly appear on your clothes that need to be urgently cleaned - what your partner diligently does! Well, with such signs, you can be sure that the interest in you is high. - Sometimes you might notice that, after telling some joke, the person who told it is looking at you and waiting for your reaction. Oh, that is an obvious sign of liking! - A shocking fact for you now: did you know that men usually stop smiling widely around the age of 5-6 years? If you notice that a man near you is wearing a Hollywood smile, it can mean that he is really happy, according to the words of the psychologist Patti Wood. - 100% proof that everything is going well is if you start to notice that your partner uses the same gestures and intonations that you do. It doesn't mean that they are trying to tease you. It is more probable that they like you and are copying you subconsciously! Bad signs - It is a bad sign if partners show contempt toward each other. It might be eye-rolling or speaking badly about the partner, making sarcastic remarks or even calling names. According to the statistics, it is a predictor that there is a threat of break-up or divorce. - You and your partner may sit at the table together, but if you are still eating your ravioli while your partner is already on their coffee and cheesecake, - too bad. Happy couples typically mirror each other's movements, therefore showing some synchronicity. It happens on a subconscious level, and its absence can be food for thought. - 'Arguing is a bad sign!' - you will say. Well, yes. But if partners are cold toward each other and keep their emotions "conserved," it can be an indicator that they have moved past the point of no-return and don't have any feelings left to express. - Loving people tend to show care toward their beloved ones. If instead of straightening your clothes or smoothing your hair, they simply inform you that your hair is messy, you should think whether your relationship is still harmonious. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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How To Use Reverse Psychology With A Man! Get EFFECTIVE Results!
 
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How to use reverse psychology with a man! #1 You have to change your mindset first! #2 The explanation. Explain what is happening between you two. What is happening at the moment between you two. Not that you need him but call out the explanation system! Showing a man that you can make fun of him lightly and create some positive emotions is a way that you can convenience him subconsciously that he likes you. You want to make sure you see yourself as worthy so he can also see the value in you too! Watch the video for more tips! DO NOT FORGET TO SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL! FREE E-BOOK: https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/free-ebook/ Join me on my social media and discover exclusive content. I'll provide all the tips you need to make your love life better quickly Find me on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/AlexLoveCoach/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrecormont/ My Website to see all my articles: https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/ My name is Alex Cormont and I've been helping men and women in their love life for more than 10 years. I became the number one relationship expert in France and Europe. For the past decade, I have helped more than 20000 people all around the world. You want to find the one? Save your marriage? Get back with an ex or learn how to attract a man into your life? I'll give you all the tips you need to improve your relationship. Yes, Love can be taught and I'm the expert you need! I have a unique philosophy from the country of love itself. You deserve to be happy and I give you all the secrets you need in this channel.
10 Couple Sleeping Positions and Their Real Meanings
 
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Even in the happiest couples, a lot of things are often left unsaid. However, when we fall asleep, our subconscious wakes up and spills all the beans. Watch the video to find out what you and your partner's sleeping position reveals about your relationship! For example, sleeping at a certain distance while still holding hands or staying connected through any other minimal touch shows that both of you are confident in the relationship. You don't need any over-the-top gestures to know that your partner is head-over-heels in love with you. Hilary Thompson, a wellness consultant with SleepTrain, says that minimal touch is just a little reminder of your presence and the affection you give to each other. So you can sigh with relief; your subconscious confirms that your relationship is on top of its game! TIMESTAMPS: Spooning 0:44 Head on the chest 1:38 Back-to-back 2:16 Face-to-face 3:08 Sleeping on your stomachs 4:01 Hand touching 4:46 Leg hugging 5:27 Tangling 6:18 One of the partners dominates the bed 7:04 Sleeping in separate beds 8:03 Music by Epidemic Sound https://www.epidemicsound.com/ SUMMARY: - Spooning indicates intimacy and deep understanding between partners. This position also shows your roles in the relationship. If you're the big spoon, you’re protective of your partner and can even be a bit possessive at times. - According to Patti Wood, a body language expert and the author of Success Signals: A Guide to Reading Body Language, the partner who puts their head on the other’s chest shows their dependence, while the one who sleeps on their back demonstrates their power and desire to protect their other half. - Sleeping back-to-back can have completely different meanings depending on the space between you two. If your backs are touching, it shows that you're an established couple that values their space but manages to keep that connection with one another. - Sleeping with your faces and bodies turned towards each other is a position that signifies emotional connection. If you and your partner are touching during face-to-face sleeping, it means that you want the same things and understand each other perfectly. - If both you and your partner are big fans of sleeping on your stomach, this could be a sign of a little trouble in your personal paradise. - Sleeping at a certain distance while still holding hands or staying connected through any other minimal touch shows that both of you are confident in the relationship. - Intertwining your legs together while sleeping is another great sign for your relationship. Even if you don't really sleep that close to one another, this “leg hugging” shows your bond with your partner and your desire for deeper emotional and physical connection. - Tangling is a popular sleeping position among couples who just started dating. This is that stage of any new relationship when you just can't get enough of each other. And that's exactly what this position signifies. - If you or your partner prefer a starfish position and take up a whole lotta space while sleeping, it's not really a good sign. It basically indicates a selfish person who wants to be in charge at all times. Another important factor is whether your heads are at the same level. - The reasons behind a couple sleeping in different beds can vary from comfort issues and snoring to really serious problems in the relationship. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Reasons to Remain Single
 
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The pressure to be in a relationship, and the suggestion that anyone who isn’t in one is weird and pitiable, has very bad consequences for us all, forcing people into choices they shouldn’t necessarily have to make. For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://goo.gl/Otka03 Download our App: https://goo.gl/g6MK6V FURTHER READING “Anyone who lives alone and manifests no longing to be in a relationship is – in our times – almost automatically (though more or less secretly) viewed as both pitiable and deeply troubled. It’s simply not thought possible to be at once alone and normal. This sets us up for collective catastrophe, for it means that a huge number of people who have no innate wish to live with anyone else, and are at heart deeply ill-suited to doing so, are every year press-ganged and shamed into conjugal life, with disastrous results for all involved...” You can read more on this and other topics on our blog TheBookofLife.org at this link: https://goo.gl/S18TdL MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/agcypC Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships Do you speak a different language to English? Did you know you can submit Subtitles on all of our videos on YouTube? For instructions how to do this click here: https://goo.gl/Ne10Gt SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://goo.gl/g6MK6V Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Martin Stacey http://www.martinstacey.co.uk/ Neil Evan http://www.neilevan.com/ #TheSchoolOfLife
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All the Body Signs That Indicate a Truly Happy Couple
 
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You can never know what struggle a couple goes through behind closed doors and is their relationship still fresh and romantic. Or can you? Dr. Lilian Glass, the author of the documentary film Body Language Decoded and the bestselling book He Says She Says, thinks otherwise. Actually, something as simple as a photograph of a couple can help you reveal a lot about their relationship and even predict their future! We collected 12 details that you should pay attention to if you want to become a body language pro. TIMESTAMPS “He's mine” gesture 1:20 Mutual care 1:51 Strong connection 2:39 Owner 3:26 Like-minded 4:12 Who's the boss? 4:59 Popular people 5:51 Attachment 6:34 Bragging 7:11 Toe-to-toe 7:57 Protector 8:40 Alpha male 9:14 SUMMARY - A hand placed on a partner’s torso or chest hints at feelings of possessiveness. As a rule, it’s mainly women who use this kind of gesture. Their whole body says, "He is mine."  - Sometimes the body language signals come from both the man and the woman. For example, if a woman’s body is turned to her partner, it means she wants to be as close to him as possible. At the same time, the man is standing upright next to her with his hand placed on her waist. - You probably know some couples of this next type. They became used to doing everything together a long time ago. They rarely say “I am” and use “we are” for everything. - When a man holds a woman very firmly by her forearm, this sign indicates that he "owns" her. He shows her off, controls her, and tries to hold her close. Does she like it? Of course, she doesn’t. - Relaxed hands and an intimately inclined head indicate two like-minded people who trust each other. Their relationship may not be sunshine and roses all the time, but what counts is that they are both willing to work on whatever problems may come. - Look at the woman. She is standing in front of the man and smiling. Her legs are positioned in a way to take up more space. This body language shows us a self-confident person. She’s the boss in this relationship. - Some people know exactly how to pose for the camera. People, who love to be in full view, have a specific and quite confident body posture. Here the man is holding the woman firmly, and she knows how to stand to look great and show all the good features of her figure and looks. - They are equal in this union: there are no leaders, no followers, and they live in peace. They’ve been together for a long time and can always rely on each other. They have each other’s backs. This is a power-couple. - Very often you can see men place their hand much lower than a woman’s waist. At first sight, this seems to have a sexual subtext or little bit of the “showing-off” aura about it. - Another lovely thing that men sometimes do is putting their hands on a woman's shoulder. By doing this, a man demonstrates deep care for a woman and shows her and everyone else that he can protect her. In this case, they both walk toe-to-toe, meaning that they’re focused on each other, forgetting about everything else. - Protector: this is an already classic gesture where the woman holds her partner’s arm. It means she depends on him and feels protected. In this case, the man usually stands in front of the woman. He dominates in their relationship and shows that he can be relied on. - Men have different ways to show their power using their body language, and the strongest one is when a man puts his feet up. Women can do this too, but in general, this posture is more common for men. This demonstrates his great self-confidence and belief in himself. Powerful people often choose this position. Do you recognize yourself and your loved one in any of these postures? Share your opinions in the comment section! Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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20 RELATIONSHIP STEREOTYPES THAT ARE TRUE
 
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There's no smoke without fire, so these hilarious stereotypes are mostly true! Grab some popcorn and enjoy these funny scenes of couples' lives! ;) ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/5Minute.Crafts.Girly/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/5.min.crafts/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/5m_crafts 5-Minute Crafts KIDS: https://goo.gl/PEuLVt The Bright Side of Youtube: https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- TIMESTAMPS: 0:10 Girls vs guys 1:10 Before vs after marriage 2:25 With vs without you 4:00 When your girl is taller than you For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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10 Simple Psychological Tricks That Always Work
 
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Can you shape how others perceive you? Do you ever wish you could control what people thought of you? Or maybe you just wanna communicate in a more confident way? Well, you don’t need any magical powers to make it happen — just good old-fashioned psychology tricks! Other videos you might like: 19 Simple Psychological Tricks That Actually Work https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4tWdTmYZoM& 10 Tricks from a Former FBI Agent to Become 200% Attractive https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxVryHiRnDE& Science Proves Anyone Can Fall In Love With You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9maxVPfUdDI TIMESTAMPS: Find out if someone is secretly looking at you 0:36 Diffuse a conflict with food 1:45 Get someone to tell you more 3:10 Make yourself memorable in job interviews 3:47 Form stronger bonds with people 4:54 Control people’s assumptions about you 5:42 Make someone feel like they’re important 6:43 Get someone to help you do something 7:49 Get people to believe in you 8:33 Keep people’s attention 9:24 Music by Epidemic Sound https://www.epidemicsound.com/ SUMMARY: - If you want to learn if someone has been looking at you, try yawning. No, it’s not some secret code, but if someone is looking at you and you happen to yawn, they won’t be able to help but yawn themselves. - The food serves as a great distraction and can actually relieve tension since you’ll start to care more about the food than what you’re talking about. - When there’s silence, the other person is more likely to talk and will probably say more than they would if you were to interject. - A sure way to stand out from the crowd is to use the “serial position effect.” This is based on the idea that people tend to remember the first and last parts of things and not as much of the middle. - If you’re in a new relationship or starting a friendship with someone, instead of going to the movies or out to eat, try doing an activity together that can get your blood pumping. - While you’re talking and getting to know each other, try to point out something you both have in common. Maybe you grew up in the same town or you both have the same alma mater. - When you meet someone for the first time at a party or work event, say their name right after they introduce themselves. - Instead of asking the person point blank if they can help, pose a false dilemma. - Even if you aren’t sure of something, that doesn’t mean you should question what you say. Try leaving out the word “I think” when you talk to your friends and family. - For people to pay attention to what you’re saying, keep direct eye contact with them while you’re talking. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Photos: https://www.depositphotos.com East News ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Relationship Advice - The Master Plan For Creating An Amazing Relationship
 
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Relationship Advice - The deep truth you must know if you ever want to have a chance of maintaining a healthy relationship. The Ultimate Life Purpose Course - Create Your Dream Career: http://www.actualized.org/life-purpose-course Leo's Top 140 Self Help Books http://www.actualized.org/books Full Video Transcript Here: http://www.actualized.org/articles/relationship-advice Video Summary: A high rate of divorce and break-ups is a fact of our society. It's not surprising, given the casual approach our society takes to finding and building long-term relationships. In case you haven't figured it out yet, chance is not on your side when seeking a mate or discerning how to make that relationship a healthy one. So what should you be learning to better navigate these treacherous waters? Some basic realities of human relationships is a fine place to start. These truths work on the playground as well in the bedroom. Give up any misguided notions you may harbor in these areas: you can't control another person, period -- in any way. The only person you can control is you. The best thing for you to change is your attitude. Then some hints for building better intimate relationships: don't operate from sexual scarcity. Get your financial life in order. Get as healthy and fit as you can be. Work on fixing you -- if you're always the one left behind, figure out why and work on that. These are hard truths, that many people will discount, as they travel the road from disastrous relationship to disastrous relationship. Ignore them at your peril.
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26 PSYCHOLOGY FACTS YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT PEOPLE
 
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Learning something new about yourself is always interesting and entertaining. And understanding the psychology behind the way we behave, treat others, and express ourselves can be even more appealing. Today, we here at Bright Side have compiled a list of the most surprising psychology facts that can help you better understand yourself and others. Other videos you might like: 10 Psychology Problems Caused by Parenting Behavior https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_eJPX-OI7c& 13 Psychology Tricks That Work On Anybody https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSvxuekIVuk& 12 Smart Psychological Tips You'd Better Learn https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Szahr27ReQo& SUMMARY: - Any friendship that begins in the period between 16 and 28 years of age is more likely to be robust and long-lasting. - Women generally prefer men with deep husky voices because they seem more confident and not aggressive. - The smarter the person is, the faster he thinks, and the sloppier his handwriting is. - Our emotions don’t affect the way we communicate. In fact, the way we communicate has an influence on our mood. - The way a person treats restaurant staff reveals a lot about their character. - People who have a strong sense of guilt understand others’ thoughts and feelings better. - Men are not funnier than women. They just make more jokes, not caring whether others like their humor or not. - Shy people talk little about themselves, but they do this in a way that makes other people feel that they know them very well. - Women have twice as many pain receptors in their bodies than men, but they have a much higher pain tolerance. - Listening to high-frequency music makes you feel calm, relaxed, and happy. - If you can’t stop your stream of thoughts at night, get up and write them down. This trick will set your mind at ease so you can sleep. - Good morning and good night text messages activate the part of the brain responsible for happiness. - Doing things that scare you will make you happier. - The average amount of time a woman can keep a secret is 47 hours and 15 minutes. - People who try to keep everyone happy often end up feeling the loneliest. - The happier we are, the less sleep we require. - When you hold the hand of your beloved, you feel less pain and worry less. - Intelligent people have fewer friends than the average person. The smarter the person is, the more selective they are. - Marrying your best friend eliminates the risk of divorce by over 70%. This marriage is more likely to last a lifetime. - The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems. - Women who have mostly male friends stay in a good mood more often. - People who speak two languages may unconsciously shift their personalities when they switch from one language to another. - Being alone for a long time is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. - Travel boosts brain health and decreases a person’s risk of heart attack and depression. - People look more attractive when they speak about the things they are interested in. - When two people talk to each other, and one of them turns their feet slightly away or repeatedly moves one foot in an outward direction, this is a sign of disagreement. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz For copyright matters please contact us at: [email protected] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC  ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Attachment Theory: How Your Childhood Shaped You
 
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Our interpersonal relationships start forming as soon as we’re born, and psychologists have studied how those early connections can set the stage for the other relationships we form later in life. Hosted by: Stefan Chin ---------- Support SciShow by becoming a patron on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/scishow ---------- Dooblydoo thanks go to the following Patreon supporters: Kelly Landrum Jones, Sam Lutfi, Kevin Knupp, Nicholas Smith, D.A. Noe, alexander wadsworth, سلطا الخليفي, Piya Shedden, KatieMarie Magnone, Scott Satovsky Jr, Charles Southerland, Bader AlGhamdi, James Harshaw, Patrick Merrithew, Patrick D. Ashmore, Candy, Tim Curwick, charles george, Saul, Mark Terrio-Cameron, Viraansh Bhanushali, Kevin Bealer, Philippe von Bergen, Chris Peters, Justin Lentz ---------- Looking for SciShow elsewhere on the internet? Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/scishow Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/scishow Tumblr: http://scishow.tumblr.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/thescishow ---------- Sources: https://www.amazon.com/Fundamentals-Psychology-Context-Stephen-Kosslyn/dp/0205507573 (Pages 554-556) https://courses.lumenlearning.com/boundless-psychology/chapter/theories-of-human-development/ http://www.psychology.sunysb.edu/attachment/online/ew_stability.pdf https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=zUMBCgAAQBAJ&oi=fnd&pg=PP1&dq=Patterns+of+attachment:+A+psychological+study+of+the+strange+situation&ots=jdcLDlxVFN&sig=3n6lMVCngU62guJaa-uOVj9Bw2A#v=onepage&q=Patterns%20of%20attachment%3A%20A%20psychological%20study%20of%20the%20strange%20situation&f=false https://www.researchgate.net/publication/232424826_Attachment_and_psychopathology_in_adulthood https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=eZMxoRs5aUkC&oi=fnd&pg=PP2&dq=attachment+theory+in+adulthood&ots=bVxwLQgM0O&sig=d678JQzTGw1LfkApD72ANo-byoY#v=onepage&q=attachment%20theory%20in%20adulthood&f=false https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=SKidSuluprgC&oi=fnd&pg=PP2&dq=erikson+developmental+stages&ots=E60eEsNiEI&sig=cP-vplYHR6yM7-MKc6-81-90rXI#v=onepage&q=erikson%20developmental%20stages&f=false https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3861901/pdf/nihms529403.pdf https://www.nichd.nih.gov/research/supported/seccyd/Pages/overview.aspx http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14616734.2016.1259335?journalCode=rahd20 http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14616734.2012.672280 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3670111/pdf/nihms468524.pdf https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/reactive-attachment-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20352939 https://internal.psychology.illinois.edu/~rcfraley/attachment.htm http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/wol1/doi/10.1111/jftr.12045/full http://psycnet.apa.org/record/1997-06133-015 https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ960225.pdf
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PSYCHOTHERAPY - Melanie Klein
 
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Melanie Klein was a great psychotherapist who teaches us how to stop either idealising or denigrating others. SUBSCRIBE to our channel for new films every week: http://tinyurl.com/o28mut7 If you like our films take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): http://www.theschooloflife.com/shop/all/ Brought to you by http://www.theschooloflife.com Animated by Perrie Murphy: https://vimeo.com/perriemurphy Produced in collaboration with Mad Adam http://www.MadAdamFilms.co.uk Some of the statues in this video are by Gert Germeraad: http://www.gertgermeraad.eu #TheSchoolOfLife
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Psychological Test: Guess Which One Is Not a Family
 
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The first relationship of any of us is the one with our families during childhood, and it often determines how we view the world. Take this psychological test to find out how your own first relationships have shaped your personality. Look closely at the picture of 3 families, or two families and one group of people, to be more precise. Can you tell which family is not a real one? Don’t think about it for too long, go with your gut here. Even if the family you come from wasn’t a happy one, don’t let the traumatic experience of the past affect your present and future. Even if your parents, sadly, didn’t have a loving relationship, it doesn’t mean your love and family life will go according to the same scenario. This video is intended for entertainment and information purposes only. The video is not intended to serve as a substitute for professional, medical or psychiatric advice of any kind. Music: 7th Floor Tango - Silent Partner https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music TIMESTAMPS Pick a family 0:46 Option #1 explained 1:21 Option #2 explained 2:13 Option #3 explained 3:14 SUMMARY -Don’t overthink your choice, just go with your gut here. -If your answer is family #1, you’re probably not a family-oriented person - at least not in the traditional sense. -If you picked family #2 because you believe it’s not a real one, you’re strongly family-oriented - there’s nothing more important to you than your family. Being a real family person, you were able to spot the fake family right away. -In case family #3 looks like a group of strangers to you, you probably come from a dysfunctional family. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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What Is Your Attachment Style?
 
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Attachment theory refers to a set of ideas formulated by psychologists in the 1960s that gives us an exceptionally useful guide to how we behave in relationships. Knowing whether we are secure, anxious or avoidant in our attachment patterns gives us a vocabulary with which to get on top of some very tricky dynamics and helps us grow into more predictable and more joyful companions in love. Sign up to our new newsletter and get 10% off your first online order of a book, product or class: https://bit.ly/2LayJ9F For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://bit.ly/2BF0N5N Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://bit.ly/2MCcRZx Download our App: https://bit.ly/2N2UMAY FURTHER READING You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://bit.ly/2N2NKvQ “One of the greatest questionnaires in the history of 20th-century psychology had a modest start in the pages of a local Colorado newspaper The Rocky Mountain News in July 1985. The work of two University of Denver psychologists Cindy Hazan and Phillip Shaver, the questionnaire asked readers to identify which of three statements most closely reflected who they were in love.” MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Visit us in person at our London HQ: https://bit.ly/2MrIVA3 Watch more films on SELF in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLself You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://bit.ly/2N2UMAY Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Julia Marchowska https://marchowskajulia.wixsite.com/mysite
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PSYCHOTHERAPY - Sigmund Freud
 
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Sigmund Freud, the inventor of psychoanalysis, appreciated the many ways in which our minds are troubled and anxious. It isn't us in particular: it's the human condition. Find out more about how Freud thought in our 'Great Thinkers': https://goo.gl/toR8m8 If you like our films, take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): https://goo.gl/7JluX0 FURTHER READING “He described himself as an obsessional neurotic. For although the father of modern psychology told us so much about our inner lives, he was touchingly vulnerable himself....” You can read more on this and many other topics on our blog TheBookofLife.org: https://goo.gl/WtiV8v MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/NJ702c More films on PSYCHOTHERAPY in our playlist below: http://bit.ly/TSOLpsychotherapy Do you speak a different language to English? Did you know you can submit Subtitles on all of our videos on YouTube? For instructions how to do this click here: https://goo.gl/fUMMxh SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Mad Adam http://www.madadamfilms.co.uk #TheSchoolOfLife
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8 Unique LGBTQ Dating Problems
 
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Get a solar universe bracelet here: https://goo.gl/DYN43G Use the discount code: psych2go to get 10% off. There are a number of things those in the LGBTQ community endure during their time on the dating scene. In fact, we have 8 of them listed below. Before you read on, keep in mind that the LGBTQ community is diverse and a few of these problems are directed more to some than they are to others. Based off our article: https://psych2go.net/8-unique-lgbtq-dating-problems/ Links to more of our LGBTQ articles by Alex: https://psych2go.net/category/lgbt/ Content/Script/Voice over by: Alex Nunez Animated by: Chloe Watson (New animator for Psych2Go!) Project Manager: Erin Bogo Community Manager: Priscilla Cha, Nicole Pridemore Producer: Psych2Go Support us by grabbing a psychology magazine here: https://psych2go.shop/collections/magazines Or get a bracelet here: https://www.introvertpalace.com/products/universe-galaxy-the-eight-planets-in-the-solar-system-guardian-star-natural-stone-beads-bracelet-bangle-for-women-men-gift More Psych2Go here: http://youtube.com/psych2go Website: http://psych2go.net Twitter: http://twitter.com/psych2go Facebook: http://facebook.com/psych2go Tumblr: http://psych2go.me
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Esther Perel | Modern Love and Relationships | SXSW 2018
 
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Relationships are going through a complex cultural shift. Expectations on intimate partnerships are at an all-time high, yet we lack the tools and resources to reach this new Olympus. Join iconic couples therapist Esther Perel as she shines a light on the state of modern love, the importance of erotic intelligence, and how listening to the stories of others helps us navigate our own relationships. About SXSW: SXSW dedicates itself to helping creative people achieve their goals. Founded in 1987 in Austin, Texas, SXSW is best known for its conference and festivals that celebrate the convergence of the interactive, film, and music industries. An essential destination for global professionals, the event features sessions, showcases, screenings, exhibitions, and a variety of networking opportunities. SXSW proves that the most unexpected discoveries happen when diverse topics and people come together. SXSW 2019 will take place March 8-17, 2019. Subscribe: http://www.youtube.com/user/sxsw?sub_confirmation=1 Connect with us online: WEBSITE: https://www.sxsw.com/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/SXSWFestival/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/sxsw INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/sxsw/
Views: 665282 SXSW
How to Deal with Relationships? | Sadhguru
 
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Sadhguru looks at how human relationships are not absolute, and are always variable, and need a lot of attention. He explains that the need for a relationship is arising because though every individual is a complete life, people are under the illusion that they are half a life that cannot be without another. **************************************** Transcript: http://isha.sadhguru.org/blog/video/the-nature-of-human-relationships/ Sadhguru: But he must be punished? (Laughter) Either by you or somebody he must be punished. (Laughter and Applause) What kind of punishment do you normally give to people? (Laughter) Already enough of punishment has been given, isn’t it? Already it’s been given – the ugliness, the nastiness, the silent treatment everything has happened, so what more punishment you want to give? Your thing is, there is no remorse on other side. There is no remorse on the other side because people are doing what they want to do, not what you want them to do, always. And that may not be in your interest, but they are doing what they want to do. Is it right, wrong – I am not going into the morality of it. I want you to understand the mechanics of the situation. Somebody is doing what they want to do; now you think they must be punished, probably they have not broken any law, otherwise they would be anyway punished. They’re breaking an understanding between two people; probably you misunderstood the understanding. You believed that these understandings are absolute; they are not. Nowhere in the history of humanity or today or in anytime in future, will human relationships be absolute, though every… every person who gets little romantic, believes that this is going to be an absolute relationship, there is no such thing about it. A relationship is a variable, always; you have to conduct it on a daily basis. One day if you don’t conduct it properly it may go somewhere. Yes or no? No, please look at it as it is. You have to conduct it right, so ‘No I am doing my best,’ – obviously somebody feels your best is not good enough for them. I want you to come to terms with this. Read Full Transcript: http://isha.sadhguru.org/blog/video/the-nature-of-human-relationships/ **************************************** More Videos & Blogs on Website http://www.isha.sadhguru.org Yogi, mystic and visionary, Sadhguru is a spiritual master with a difference. An arresting blend of profundity and pragmatism, his life and work serves as a reminder that yoga is a contemporary science, vitally relevant to our times. Subscribe to our channel here: http://isha.co/2ebiGKm Free Guided Meditation by Sadhguru at http://www.ishafoundation.org/Ishakriya Free Yoga Tools For Transformation at http://isha.sadhguru.org/5-min-practices/ Official Facebook Page of Sadhguru https://www.facebook.com/sadhguru Official Twitter Profile of Sadhguru https://twitter.com/SadhguruJV Download Sadhguru App 📲 http://onelink.to/sadhguru__app
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19 Psychological Tips That Will Change Your Life
 
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19 Psychological Tricks That Will Improve Your Life. We try so hard to become better, smarter, stronger, and we often don’t look for easy ways. That’s too bad because there are less stressful ways that will give you the same outcome. However, there are less stressful ways to reach your goals. TIMESTAMPS Eye level 0:41 Long light 1:11 Google colors 1:30 Eating slowly 1:51 Zoo uniform 2:23 Banana joy 2:54 Workout coffee break 3:21 Hot spoon 3:47 Location importance 4:09 Saving nap 4:35 Amazing watermelon 4:53 Magic music 5:18 Memory fingers 5:39 Helping hand 6:01 Little men 6:24 Loud relaxation 7:02 Green tea wonders 7:33 Sleeping gymnastics 7:52 Calming yogurt 8:28 BONUS 8:43 SUMMARY - We are likely to buy those things that we see right in front of us. That's why marketing experts put more expensive products (or those that they need to sell fast) right at the level of your eyes. - The candles will last longer if you put them in the freezer before lighting them up. Let some physics in your life. When the wax is frozen, it melts twice as long. - To check the quality of your printer ink, just print the Google logo. We are not sure if this has been done intentionally, but the logo has all the necessary main colors in it. - There is also an experiment stating that “fast eaters” gained about 4lbs in a month only because they were eating too fast, while “slow eaters” ended up with 1,5lbs of weight gaining. - . If you love going to the Zoo, but animals hide from you, you can improve the situation with uniform-like clothes. Take on those things, which are similar to the Zoo workers’ uniform of shape and color. - This yellow fruit is even called “the fruit of happiness,” in case you don’t know. The thing is, only one banana per breakfast is capable of lifting your mood for a half of your usual day. - Fitness and workouts can be tiresome and slowly transform into a routine activity. So, it’s not a secret that people use various additional tricks for the fast fat-burning. - This itching can nearly drive you insane. But there is a simple and very popular hack to cope with it. You just need to place a hot spoon on the bite, and you’ll forget about any itching. - Before calling “911”, first disclose your location. And only then start describing the issue. - A nap during a day improves your memory and protects you from the cardiovascular disease. - Scientists surely know their job! Recently they have proved that watermelon is the natural Viagra with the similar effects: dilation and relaxation. - If you are listening to the music during your workout, you become 15% more productive in lifting weights. - To remember something immediately, clench your fist. This will boost the memory recalling the skills of your brain. - Try to challenge your brain and make any of your ordinary habits (for example, brushing your teeth) with the nondominant hand. - When you have to spend your time with a lot of children, you surely need all of your nerves and patience. If they become too annoying, we usually get upset, and everything ends up in anger and headaches. There is a small funny tip to help you. Try to think of them as of little drunk men. - If you listen to the loud music at home, you feel happier and more relaxed than while doing it at a regular sound level. - Green tea, as well as other metabolism boosters, can be helpful in your slimming. Just drink a cup of green tea and go to bed! - We are happy to share the secret: the “4-7-8” exercise can help you. You need to inhale through your nose for a count of 4, then hold your breath for a count of 7, then exhale through your mouth for the count of 8. Four cycles and you are nearly sleeping! - If you feel anxious, just eat some fat-free yogurt and two spoonfuls of nuts. Amino-acids will help you to calm down. - If you want to know how a person treats you, try to read the body language. Crossed legs and arms mean the “closed” position. Such a person is not ready to trust you. If the person is relaxed and doesn’t cross the limbs – this is the “open” position. And it means this person likes spending time with you and enjoys the conversation. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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5 Psychological Flirting Tips
 
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Have you ever wondered how to get that person's attention or how to get them attracted to you? Well, we have 5 psychological flirting tips just for you! Based on Psych2Go's article: http://www.psych2go.net/top-10-psychological-flirting-strategies-that-actually-work/ Subscribe for more: http://youtube.com/psych2gotv Animation by Nikola Bruno-Santerre. Contact: [email protected] To connect with Psych2Go, reach out here: [email protected] Our main website with 500+ articles on psychology can be found here: http://psych2go.net
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The Biggest Psychology News Stories of 2016
 
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From Pokémon, to fMRI, to the relationship between masculine norms and mental health, 2016 left us with some interesting psych news to ponder. Learn more about the science of Pokémon GO: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXkQVSSfk1k Hosted by: Hank Green ---------- Support SciShow by becoming a patron on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/scishow ---------- Dooblydoo thanks go to the following Patreon supporters—we couldn't make SciShow without them! Shout out to Jeremy Peng, Kevin Bealer, Mark Terrio-Cameron, KatieMarie Magnone, Patrick Merrithew, Charles Southerland, Fatima Iqbal, Benny, Kyle Anderson, Tim Curwick, Scott Satovsky Jr, Will and Sonja Marple, Philippe von Bergen, Bella Nash, Bryce Daifuku, Chris Peters, Saul, Patrick D. Ashmore, Charles George, Bader AlGhamdi ---------- Like SciShow? Want to help support us, and also get things to put on your walls, cover your torso and hold your liquids? Check out our awesome products over at DFTBA Records: http://dftba.com/scishow ---------- Looking for SciShow elsewhere on the internet? Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/scishow Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/scishow Tumblr: http://scishow.tumblr.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/thescishow ---------- Sources: Pokemon GO: http://money.cnn.com/2016/07/22/technology/pokemon-go-apple-download-records/ http://www.gamespot.com/articles/pokemon-go-estimated-to-have-been-downloaded-75-mi/1100-6442180/ http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/mind-guest-blog/the-rehabilitation-of-an-old-emotion-a-new-science-of-nostalgia/ http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1364661316000267 https://www.medical-neurosciences.de/fileadmin/user_upload/microsites/studiengaenge/neurosciences/cns-2014-i7i2.pdf http://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/exercising-to-relax https://www.wired.com/2016/07/psychology-pokemon-go-gets-inside-brain/ fMRI: http://www.pnas.org/content/113/28/7900.full http://www.sciencealert.com/a-bug-in-fmri-software-could-invalidate-decades-of-brain-research-scientists-discover http://blogs.warwick.ac.uk/nichols/entry/bibliometrics_of_cluster/ Sexism and mental health: http://psycnet.apa.org/?&fa=main.doiLanding&doi=10.1037/cou0000176 http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2016/11/sexism-harmful.aspx http://www.cbsnews.com/news/being-sexist-could-harm-mens-health-study/ http://www.popsci.com/research-shows-that-toxic-masculinity-is-harmful-to-mens-mental-health Images: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Pokemon_go_stang_alar.jpg https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:1206_FMRI.jpg
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Daddy Issues
 
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We’re used to being rather mean about people who have ‘daddy issues’. We should be more careful and more kind. Daddy issues can lead to the worst kind of political situations – and need to be understood as psychological phenomena. If you like our films, take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): https://goo.gl/UNk3XX Join our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Or visit us in person at our London HQ https://goo.gl/bOsHi6 FURTHER READING “To say that someone has ‘daddy issues’ is a somewhat rude and humiliating way of alluding to a very understandable longing: for a father who is strong and wise, who is judicious, kind, perhaps at points tough, but always fair – and ultimately, always on our side. It would be so understandable if we were to feel we wanted someone like this in our lives, especially at moments of confusion and chaos…” You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://goo.gl/5vqJDQ MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/2pQqZE Watch more films on SELF in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLself You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Sentio Space http://sentiospace.com/ https://twitter.com/SentioSpace #TheSchoolOfLife
Views: 1280641 The School of Life
Who Is the Right Person for You? (Personality Test)
 
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Finding the right person to share your life with is super important. Take this simple test to find out what type of person is the right one for you! You will answer 10 questions and see the number of points you get for this or that answer after each question. What talent would you appreciate most in your partner? 0:47 What do you look forward to doing together with your partner most of all? 1:18 Which movie would you want to enjoy with your partner? 2:03 When sharing your problems with your partner, how do you expect him or her to react? 2:41 What would you never give up for your relationship? 3:32 Which sound most appealing to you? 4:12 What phrase would be an absolute deal breaker for you? 4:48 All your friends are happy for you and ask you to describe your relationship using one emoji. What is it going to be? 5:24 What would your ideal honeymoon look like? 5:59 What's a perfect anniversary gift from your love? 6:39 SUMMARY - If you have 100-150 points, you’ll be happy with an Adventurer. Trying new things together, traveling the world, looking for the special in the ordinary and being bold and spontaneous is what you appreciate most in life. - You got 160 to 220 points? In that case, a Materialist is out there waiting for you. Maybe that well-organized successful individual will walk into your life tomorrow? Who knows... - Those who scored 230 to 300 points will be in a harmonious relationship with a Family Man (Woman). You can’t wait to settle down and start living with a person who will share your values and beliefs. - If your score is 310 to 400 points, a Romantic dreamer will come into your life and stay there for good. You need someone to chase sunsets with, to fly you to the Moon and let you play among the stars without living your own home and to give you all the love and admiration you deserve. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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10 Psychology Problems Caused by Parenting Behavior
 
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With most psychological issues, the reasons are quite trivial: childhood emotional impressions. You should know that your low self-esteem and anxiety might be caused by certain parenting mistakes. TIMESTAMPS Lack of independence 0:36 Depression, a feeling of guilt 1:35 Inability to rest and relax completely 2:25 Harmful addictions and extreme sports 2:55 Personal life issues 3:29 Search for a parent-partner 4:01 Suppression of own talents and lack of initiative 4:19 Closeness, suppression of emotions 4:46 Extremely low self-esteem, desire to be like someone else 5:11 Lack of independence, irresponsibility 5:45 SUMMARY Parenting mistakes are quite common, but their price is too high. With our own unrestraint, overindulgence, inconsistency, or over-busyness, we make our children nervous and naughty. You are capable of avoiding this. You only have to cherish, understand, respect, and love your kids. Do any of these situations sound familiar to you? Then show this video to your parents. If you’re still a child, they’ll probably change their behavior for the better. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz For copyright matters please contact us at: [email protected] Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC  ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Narcissism and Its Discontents | Ramani Durvasula | TEDxSedona
 
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Narcissism has not only become a normalized social condition, it is increasingly being incentivized. The framework of narcissism with the central pillars of lack of empathy, entitlement, grandiosity, superficiality, anger, rage, arrogance, and shallow emotion is a manifestation of pathological insecurity – an insecurity that is experienced at both the individual and societal level. The paradox is that we value these patterns – and venerate them through social media, mainstream media, and consumerism, they represent a fast-track to financial and professional success. These traits are endemic in political, corporate, academic, and media leaders. There are few lives which are not personally touched by narcissists – be it your spouse, partner, parent, child, colleague, boss, friend, sibling, or neighbor. Whether societally or individually, the toxic wave of narcissism, entitlement, and pathological insecurity is harming us all. The enticements of charm, charisma, confidence, and success can draw us in or blind us to the damaging truths of narcissism. The invalidation inherent in these relationships infects those are in them with self-doubt, despair, confusion, anxiety, depression and the chronic feeling of being “not enough,” all of which make it so difficult to step away and set boundaries. The illusion of hope and the fantasy of redemption can result in years of second chances for narcissists, and despondency when change never comes. It’s time for a wake-up call. Health and wellness campaigns preach avoidance of unhealthy foods, sedentary lifestyles, tobacco, drugs, alcohol, but rarely preach avoidance of unhealthy or toxic people. Yet the health benefits of removing toxic people from a life may have a far greater benefit to both physical and psychological health than going to the gym. We need to learn to be better gatekeepers for our minds, bodies, and souls. Instead of habituating to the global shift of validating narcissism and other toxic patterns, it’s time to understand it and take our lives back. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Santa Monica and Sherman Oaks, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, where she was named Outstanding Professor in 2012. She is also a Visiting Professor at the University of Johannesburg. She is the author of the modern relationship survival manual Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist (Post Hill Press) She is also the author of You Are WHY You Eat: Change Your Food Attitude, Change Your Life, as well as the author of numerous peer reviewed journal articles, book chapters and conference papers. Dr. Ramani received her B.S. in Psychology from the University of Connecticut, and her MA and Ph.D. degrees in Clinical Psychology from UCLA. She brings a wealth of expertise in relationships, sexuality, health and wellness. Dr. Ramani was the co-host of Oxygen’s series My Shopping Addiction, and has also been featured on series on Bravo, the Lifetime Movie Network, National Geographic, the History Channel, Discovery Science, and Investigation Discovery as well as in documentary films on health. She has been a featured commentator on nearly every major television network, as well as radio, print, and Internet media. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
Views: 276892 TEDx Talks
Projection (Understanding the Psychology of Projecting) - Teal Swan -
 
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Views: 283946 Teal Swan
Sensation and Perception: Crash Course Psychology #5
 
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Want more videos about psychology every Monday and Thursday? Check out our sister channel SciShow Psych at https://www.youtube.com/scishowpsych! Just what is the difference between sensing and perceiving? And how does vision actually work? And what does this have to do with a Corgi? In this episode of Crash Course Psychology, Hank takes us on a journey through the brain to better explain these and other concepts. Plus, you know, CORGI! -- Table of Contents: Sensation vs. Perception :54 Sense Thresholds 2:11 Neurology of Vision 4:23 -- Want to find Crash Course elsewhere on the internet? Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/YouTubeCrashCourse Twitter - http://www.twitter.com/TheCrashCourse Tumblr - http://thecrashcourse.tumblr.com Support CrashCourse on Subbable: http://subbable.com/crashcourse
Views: 2727447 CrashCourse
The Paradox of Love & Hate: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder - BPD Relationship Expert
 
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WARNING: this video was not meant to be a resource for those who have Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD), which is a very unfortunate psychological disorder. The video was created as a resource to victims of abuse, past and present, from people diagnosed with BPD. I do not believe that people with BPD are all the same, and are equally abusive. I do know that they hurt the people that they love. Some of them hurt these people very badly. This video is NOT a resource for people suffering with BPD. In fact, it will surely aggravate their condition. Although I believe I know a great deal about the disorder, I am neither a specialist nor an expert in the treatment of it. My skill set is with people who I refer to as “Self-Love Deficients” (codependents) who have Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency). Those who criticize my video(s) on BPD are misinformed about who I am. I neither represent people with BPD, nor do I ever try to. Rather, I am a psychotherapist who provides mental health services to people who are SLD’s (codependents) and trauma survivors. My work is about empowerment, healing and escaping abusive relationships. This is evident in my Human Magnet Syndrome book and my other video and training materials. My intention is not to malign people with BPD, but to empower and lead my clients away from their compulsion to stay in relationships with individuals who are harmful and abusive to them. My work represents people who want to heal psychological wounds and who take personal responsibility for their actions. I AM AGAINST abusive individuals who narcissistically justify their harmful behavior or blame it on the victims. If that fits with people diagnosed with BPD, or for that matter, NPD or ASPD, then I offer no apologies. Ross Rosenberg's latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminar, workshop and other services can be found at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com or www.HumanMagnetSyndrome.com. Ross Rosenberg’s work on codependency, narcissism, trauma, Self-Love Recovery™, and his "Codependency Cure™" has earned him international recognition. He owns Clinical Care Consultants, a multi-location Chicago suburb counseling center, and the Self-Love Recovery Institute. He has traveled to 30 states and twice to Europe to present his workshops. Ross's first book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome" sold over 50K copies and is published in French, Spanish and soon in Czech. His latest Human Magnet Syndrome book, a complete re-write of the first, is available on February 1st. Ross’s 7 million video views/68,000 subscribers YouTube platform has established him as global phenomenon. Ross owns Clinical Care Consultants, a counseling center located in Arlington Heights and Inverness IL. . Ross's articles at http://goo.gl/XEVxgE Dysfunctional Relationship Information.
Views: 272638 Ross Rosenberg
How To Read Anyone Instantly - 12  Psychological Tips Malayalam
 
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Personal Boundary Struggles After Abusive Relationships | HealthyPlace
 
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Personal boundary struggles can happen after a boundary-destroying abusive relationship. How can you keep new boundaries intact? Watch. Get more info at https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/verbalabuseinrelationships/2019/6/setting-healthy-boundaries-after-an-abusive-relationship, 'Setting Healthy Boundaries After an Abusive Relationship' ▷ Subscribe to the HealthyPlace YouTube Channel at http://bit.ly/2I4o7bH ▷ Visit http://HealthyPlace.com for Trusted Mental Health Information Setting healthy boundaries after a verbally abusive relationship can be difficult. Learn why and what to do to build new healthy boundaries at HealthyPlace. ▷ http://bit.ly/2KnZOKO ▷ See the latest posts on the 'Verbal Abuse in Relationships' blog at http://bit.ly/abuseblog Get more videos about verbal and emotional abuse here: ▷ Abuse, Abusive Relationships Playlist | http://bit.ly/abusevideos Visit HealthyPlace for more: ▷ In-depth Abuse Information & Resources | http://bit.ly/abuseinforesource ▷ In-depth Emotional and Psychological Abuse Articles | https://goo.gl/v3zJRV ▷ In-depth Verbal Abuse Articles | https://goo.gl/JSv34g Follow HealthyPlace on Social Media: ▷ Facebook | http://bit.ly/2jGgZYt ▷ Twitter | http://bit.ly/2KO4Ehg ▷ Instagram | http://bit.ly/2FY90i3 ▷ Pinterest | http://bit.ly/2wnDsCJ ▷ Tumblr | http://bit.ly/2IlK9u1
10 Rare Psychological Delusions
 
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Views: 220372 TopTenz
What Women Want Men To Know About Sexism | Theresa Vescio | TEDxPSU
 
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She’s so sexy! Clearly a complement, right? Terri Vescio discusses how well performing women can be threatening and are often sexualized in ways that can make women feel psychologically and physically unsafe. Theresa K. Vescio is a Professor of Psychology and Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality studies. Her research seeks to understand the factors that facilitate and temper the expression of sexism, racism, and heterosexism. Dr. Vescio has two lines of research that are funded by the National Science Foundation – research on the underrepresentation of women in masculine domains (e.g., science, technology, engineering, business) and her research on masculinity. Dr. Vescio has published numerous articles, edited a volume on The Social Psychology of Power (with Ana Guinote), served as Associate Editor for both the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology: Interpersonal Relations and Group Processes and the British Journal of Social Psychology, and served on the editorial boards of Psychological Science, the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology: Attitudes and Social Cognition, and Social Psychology and Personality Science. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
Views: 54576 TEDx Talks
Narcissistic Parents Create Codependents. Explaining the Origins of Codependency. Relationship
 
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The eventual manifestation of codependency is directly connected to early childhood psychological damage perpetrated by a child's emotional manipulator parent. Emotional manipulators (extreme narcissists) are typically neglectful of their child's basic emotional needs, as their narcissism prevents them from truly understanding and knowing how to unconditionally love and nurture their children. The child's ability to successfully cope with his/her parent's narcissism will transform into an adult codependency. Ross Rosenberg's latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminar, workshop and other services can be found at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com or www.HumanMagnetSyndrome.com. Ross Rosenberg’s work on codependency, narcissism, trauma, Self-Love Recovery™, and his "Codependency Cure™" has earned him international recognition. He owns Clinical Care Consultants, a multi-location Chicago suburb counseling center, and the Self-Love Recovery Institute. He has traveled to 30 states and twice to Europe to present his workshops. Ross's first book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome" sold over 50K copies and is published in French, Spanish and soon in Czech. His latest Human Magnet Syndrome book, a complete re-write of the first, is available on February 1st. Ross’s 7 million video views/68,000 subscribers YouTube platform has established him as global phenomenon. Ross owns Clinical Care Consultants, a counseling center located in Arlington Heights and Inverness IL. . Ross's articles at http://goo.gl/XEVxgE Dysfunctional Relationship Information.
Views: 182476 Ross Rosenberg
10 Things ALL Men Do When They Are In Love
 
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10 ways to tell if he likes you back. Subscribe: https://goo.gl/Hnoaw3 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Most people believe when it comes to love, women are the ones that fall first and hardest. But according to science, it’s actually men who fall in love, and are often the first to say “I love you.” Other than when he tells you, how can you be sure that a man loves you? We will share some things that every single man does when they fall in love. Love may feel magical, but it’s really a chemical reaction that takes place in our brain, involving things like dopamine which affect our bodies. We’ll explain the science behind why this happens, and how it manifests in behavior. Learn about the different types of romance, and how to tell if you have a compassionate man who wants a healthy, long term relationship with you. Even someone’s body language can tell you whether or not they are in love, so check to see if he’s subconsciously mimicking what you do. When you are finished watching the video, tell us what you think in the comment section, and don’t forget to subscribe to TheTalko! ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheTalko Twitter: https://twitter.com/thetalko Instagram: https://instagram.com/the_talko For more videos and articles visit: http://www.thetalko.com/
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Why Men Never Get Over A Breakup
 
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It's commonly thought that women hurt more after a breakup. Is there any truth to this? Go to http://www.harrys.com and use the promo code dnews to save $5 off your first purchase! Read More: Study: Women hurt more by breakups but recover more fully http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2015-08/bu-sw080615.php “Women experience more emotional pain following a breakup, but they also more fully recover, according to new research from Binghamton University.” Why breakups hurt more for women http://fusion.net/story/176210/breakups-hurt-more-for-women-love-study/ “Men and women’s hearts are equally prone to breaking—but does one gender suffer more soul-crushing agony along the way?” The Thoroughly Modern Guide to Breakups https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/201012/the-thoroughly-modern-guide-breakups “Julie Spira isn’t just any writer. She bills herself as an expert on Internet dating, and wrote a book called The Perils of Cyber-Dating.” ____________________ DNews is dedicated to satisfying your curiosity and to bringing you mind-bending stories & perspectives you won't find anywhere else! New videos twice daily. Watch More DNews on TestTube http://testtube.com/dnews Subscribe now! http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=dnewschannel DNews on Twitter http://twitter.com/dnews Trace Dominguez on Twitter https://twitter.com/tracedominguez Julia Wilde on Twitter https://twitter.com/julia_sci DNews on Facebook https://facebook.com/DiscoveryNews DNews on Google+ http://gplus.to/dnews Discovery News http://discoverynews.com Download the TestTube App: http://testu.be/1ndmmMq
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Sociopaths, Psychopaths & Antisocial Personality Disorder Explained. Relationship Expert Advice
 
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This video follows-up the Huffington Post article: 11 Signs You May Be Dating A Sociopath, for which I was interviewed. http://blog.clinicalcareconsultants.com/?p=2375 Ross Rosenberg details traits and symptoms of sociopathy (sociopaths). Although the term sociopath is outdated, it is still the most common word used for psychopaths and Antisocial Personality Disorder. In the Human Magnet Syndrome, Ross explains what personality is most compatible with a sociopath - codependents. Ross Rosenberg's latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminar, workshop and other services can be found at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com or www.HumanMagnetSyndrome.com. Ross Rosenberg’s work on codependency, narcissism, trauma, Self-Love Recovery™, and his "Codependency Cure™" has earned him international recognition. He owns Clinical Care Consultants, a multi-location Chicago suburb counseling center, and the Self-Love Recovery Institute. He has traveled to 30 states and twice to Europe to present his workshops. Ross's first book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome" sold over 50K copies and is published in French, Spanish and soon in Czech. His latest Human Magnet Syndrome book, a complete re-write of the first, is available on February 1st. Ross’s 7 million video views/68,000 subscribers YouTube platform has established him as global phenomenon. Ross owns Clinical Care Consultants, a counseling center located in Arlington Heights and Inverness IL. . Ross's articles at http://goo.gl/XEVxgE Dysfunctional Relationship Information.
Views: 147238 Ross Rosenberg
My Experience with Psychological Abuse (Narcissistic Abuse)
 
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Thank you so much for watching, and feel free to leave any comments/questions/concerns! I'm really proud of myself for being able to record this. It took me nearly two years to really start the healing process for this trauma. The fact that I can talk about it clearly is a huge step for me. When I got out of this relationship I was definitely heartbroken, but I was more confused and void of confidence than anything. I want to share my story because I feel like it is important to help others who have gone through similar experiences; that's the only thing that got me through my abuse. Watching YouTube videos, reading articles regarding narcissistic abuse, and going to therapy really helped me understand what had happened to me, and that is what ultimately helped me heal. I know there are points in this video where I seem kind of nonchalant about certain events, but that is only because I've had so much time to heal. If you had asked me about anything regarding my ex even a year ago--or even when someone would mention his name--I would spiral and break down. It took a long time for me to get to this place, and if you are experiencing a similar type of trauma, I can tell you wholeheartedly that it DOES get better. I didn't think I'd ever reach a place where I felt comfortable enough to talk about it--let alone share my story on the internet--but here I am! Loud and proud... And I don't care if I face negative backlash for this because I know my truth and THE truth, and that is all I care to share while I'm on this planet. Stay strong xo *to anyone who needs to talk and/or if watching this triggered you in any way, please DM me on instagram @annacarmellla
Views: 2123 Anna Carmela
Self-Concept, Self-Identity & Social Identity – Psychology & Sociology | Lecturio
 
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This video “Self-Concept, Self-Identity & Social Identity” is part of the Lecturio course “Psychology & Sociology” ► WATCH the complete course on http://lectur.io/psych ► LEARN ABOUT: - Self-concept and identity formation - Different types of identities - ADRESSING framework ► THE PROF: Dr. Tarry Ahuja is currently a senior medical real-world evidence scientist for a major pharmaceutical company and a lecturer at Carleton University, Canada. He has worked in the hospital setting and National Research Council of Canada for over 10 years. ► LECTURIO is your single-point resource for medical school: Study for your classes, USMLE Step 1, USMLE Step 2, MCAT or MBBS with video lectures by world-class professors, recall & USMLE-style questions and textbook articles. Create your free account now: http://lectur.io/psych ► INSTALL our free Lecturio app iTunes Store: https://app.adjust.com/z21zrf Play Store: https://app.adjust.com/b01fak ► READ TEXTBOOK ARTICLES related to this video: Medical Psychology and Sociology: Personality Psychology http://lectur.io/psycharticle ► SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel: http://lectur.io/subscribe ► WATCH MORE ON YOUTUBE: http://lectur.io/playlists ► LET’S CONNECT: • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lecturio.medical.education.videos • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lecturio_medical_videos • Twitter: https://twitter.com/LecturioMed
Tony Robbins: Psychology Strength ( Tony Robbins Psychology )
 
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It is nearly impossible to sift through the hundreds of articles published each year on psychological strengths. I empathize with parents who want to know which strengths are most important to cultivate in their children, as nothing is to be gained by trying to develop every valuable attribute. I empathize with organizations, including schools, first responders, and social entrepreneurs who want to create a culture in which each person can maximize their potential. All of us are deluged by too much information. But there is another insidious problem in psychology: Too many researchers focus their energies on their favorite pet construct, never adequately testing if it deserves more attention than the alternatives. There are researchers who specialize in gratitude. Others specialize in forgiveness, and others in self-compassion, or optimism, or grit, or savoring. Some are hyperfocused on happiness—and a competing group is hyperfocused on meaning and purpose in life. Each research team spends a lot of time showcasing how their baby predicts a satisfying life, healthy relationships, physical health, and other elements of well-being.
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10 Types of Girls Men Usually Don't Marry
 
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What are the types of girls guys date before meeting the one? Finding your one and only true love can be quite a journey. While girls believe it’s mostly a challenge for them, guys face the same struggles. They meet a whole bunch of different girls on the way to finding that special someone. Dr. Samantha Rodman, a clinical psychologist and dating coach, believes that every girl can be classified as a certain type. No offense, ladies, but it looks like most of you belong to one of 10 categories — unless you’re already a category 11, which means “the one” to someone. Let’s see if you agree with the divisions and recognize yourself as one of the types. TIMESTAMPS: Daddy’s Girl 1:00 Party Animal 1:56 Good Student 2:44 Miss Jealousy 3:15 Gossip Fan 3:56 A girl your mother will love 4:35 Worried is her second name 5:14 Drama Queen 5:53 Fancy Girl 6:27 Beauty Queen 7:00 The One 7:27 #yourrelationship #girlsandboys #menandwomen Music by Epidemic Sound https://www.epidemicsound.com/ SUMMARY: - Whatever a guy does, he’ll never be better than her father. And according to Dr. Rodman, a breakup is likely to make the man feel much worse than the woman. - A party animal definitely knows where the good parties are and which clubs are the best. If a man wants to accompany her, he’s going to have to be OK hanging out with a lot of people she knows. - A smart and well-educated girl — what could possibly go wrong here? Well, you can have a long and interesting conversation with this girl, but only if she can find time for it because she’s crazy about her studies and takes additional classes and extracurriculars. - Jealousy in a relationship is normal, but only when it doesn’t get out of hand. A girl that always reads between the lines and looks for a reason to get angry is a red flag. These girls are scared of being alone. They see a prospective threat in any other woman their guy ever greets, be it a colleague or just some acquaintance. - When in a relationship with this girl, men often think that Miss Jealousy is a better option because at least she thinks about him instead of thinking and talking about completely different people. - It’s very likely that this man will soon get the feeling that his girlfriend has a relationship with both him and his mother. This is definitely not a good situation for any guy. - She’ll bombard him with text messages to check on him every 10 minutes. It’s not about being jealous; it’s just that she worries too much. - There’s never a dull moment with drama queens because they are so emotional, and the relationship is never easy. It’s not difficult to get them to go somewhere, but at the same time, they often create drama even when there’s no good reason for it. - Fancy Girs are trendy and stylish, and they know everything about fashion. They know which clothes to wear to attract attention, and they’re the ones who always look perfect. So what could possibly go wrong here? - Beauty Queen, like a fancy girl, is very beautiful, and she gets a lot of attention from men. Most of the time, the guy who dates her doesn’t even understand why she chose him. - But “the one” is a girl who laughs at her boyfriend’s jokes, and he laughs at hers. She is someone who might have completely different tastes in art, cinema, or music, but they still have a lot in common. She is good with her boyfriend’s mother and his friends. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Child Psychology : How to Discipline a Child That Does Not Listen
 
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Children that do not listen are exhibiting a challenge to authority rather than a listening problem. Get through to your child with the assistance of a licensed psychologist in this free video. Expert: Dr. Craig Childress Contact: www.drcachildress.org Bio: Dr. Craig Childress is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in the treatment of ADHD and angry-oppositional relationship disorders of childhood. Filmmaker: Max Cusimano Series Description: Raising children can be a confusing project at times. Improve communication with your child and resolve common issues with the assistance of a licensed psychologist in this free video series.
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#190 Philip Kavanagh: Evolution And Clinical Psychology, Self-Esteem, And The Dark Triad
 
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------------------Support the channel------------ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thedissenter SubscribeStar: https://www.subscribestar.com/the-dissenter PayPal: paypal.me/thedissenter PayPal Subscription 1 Dollar: https://tinyurl.com/yb3acuuy PayPal Subscription 3 Dollars: https://tinyurl.com/ybn6bg9l PayPal Subscription 5 Dollars: https://tinyurl.com/ycmr9gpz PayPal Subscription 10 Dollars: https://tinyurl.com/y9r3fc9m PayPal Subscription 20 Dollars: https://tinyurl.com/y95uvkao ------------------Follow me on--------------------- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedissenteryt/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheDissenterYT Anchor (podcast): https://anchor.fm/thedissenter Dr. Phillip Kavanagh is an Associate Professor of Evolutionary Psychology at the Institute for Social Neuroscience, and Adjunct Associate Professor of Psychology at the University of South Australia. Dr. Kavanagh lectures across both the undergraduate and postgraduate psychology programs, provides research supervision to honors, master's, and PhD students, and clinical supervision to students in the clinical program. In this episode, we talk about the relationship between evolutionary psychology and clinical psychology, and the discipline of evolutionary clinical psychology. We go through some major issues, like how to properly classify something as a mental disorder/disease; how our modern environments differ in significant ways from the environments we evolved in, and the problems that brings, and the phenomenon of evolutionary mismatch; the several different schools of thought that we have in clinical psychology, and if it would be possible to unify them under a core theory; the difficulties in objectively evaluating patients; life history strategies, and the problems that arise when we have unfulfilled expectations. We also talk about personality variation, and the relevance of personality inventories, like the Big Five, in a clinical context; the sociometer theory, and its explanatory power; how our modern obsession with happiness might be problematic. Finally, we discuss recent literature on the Dark Triad and the Light Triad of human nature. Time Links: 00:58 The relationship between evolutionary psychology and clinical psychology 02:59 Classifying something as a mental disorder/disease 08:37 Evolutionary mismatch, and problem in our modern environments 21:21 Issues with the different approaches in clinical psychology, and how to possibly unify them 28:48 Limitations of the clinical context 37:28 Life history strategies, and the problem with unfulfilled expectations 48:56 Personality variation and personality inventories in a clinical context 53:30 The sociometer theory, self-esteem, and suicide 59:54 The problem with focusing too much on happiness 1:05:46 The Dark Triad of human nature (narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy) 1:11:40 The Light Triad (Humanism, Kantianism, and Faith in Humanity), and the interplay between the Dark Triad and the Light Triad 1:14:50 Follow Dr. Kavanagh’s work! -- Follow Dr. Kavanagh’s work: Institute for Social Neuroscience: https://bit.ly/2P6L3vp Faculty page (University of South Australia): https://bit.ly/2KzFc2T Articles on Researchgate: https://bit.ly/2tGSek1 Twitter handle: @Dr_Phil_K Relevant papers: Are Expectations the Missing Link between Life History Strategies and Psychopathology?: https://bit.ly/2UhtXLX Social Exclusion, Self-Esteem, & Mating Relationships: Testing a Domain-Specific Variant of Sociometer Theory: https://bit.ly/2IvvtYW Testing the Sociometer Model of Social Rejection: The Role of Self-Esteem as a Domain-Specific Mediator of Relationship Outcomes: https://bit.ly/2DbyHNI The Light vs. Dark Triad of Personality: Contrasting Two Very Different Profiles of Human Nature: https://bit.ly/2Ip1stI -- A HUGE THANK YOU TO MY PATRONS: KARIN LIETZCKE, ANN BLANCHETTE, SCIMED, PER HELGE HAAKSTD LARSEN, LAU GUERREIRO, RUI BELEZA, MIGUEL ESTRADA, ANTÓNIO CUNHA, CHANTEL GELINAS, JIM FRANK, JERRY MULLER, FRANCIS FORD, HANS FREDRIK SUNDE, BRIAN RIVERA, ADRIANO ANDRADE, YEVHEN BODRENKO, SERGIU CODREANU, ADAM BJERRE, JUSTIN WATERS, ŁUKASZ STAFINIAK, AIRES ALMEIDA, BERNARDO SEIXAS! A SPECIAL THANKS TO MY PRODUCERS, Yzar Wehbe and Rosey! I also leave you with the link to a recent montage video I did with the interviews I have released until the end of June 2018: https://youtu.be/efdb18WdZUo And check out my playlists on: PSYCHOLOGY: https://tinyurl.com/ybalf8km PHILOSOPHY: https://tinyurl.com/yb6a7d3p ANTHROPOLOGY: https://tinyurl.com/y8b42r7g #TheDissenter #PhilipKavanagh #ClinicalPsychology #EvolutionaryPsychology
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6 Signs You’re Dealing With a Toxic Person
 
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How to know that you’re dealing with a toxic person? They do exist, and chances are we’ve met one or 2. Sometimes they might not realize they’re causing harm to others. There are situations that might be putting us at risk and, without us knowing it, damaging our sense of worth. Fortunately, there are warning signs you can look for to see if the person you’re dealing with is a toxic person. #toxicpeople #toxicrelationship # TIMESTAMPS: Toxic people play the victim 1:02 Emotional abuse 2:52 Pathological liars 4:07 Toxic people seek to control 5:25 People who don’t respect boundaries 6:32 Negative people 7:59 Music: https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music SUMMARY - People who struggle with the victim mentality don’t think they have power over their lives, and they blame other people and circumstances for how unhappy they are. They also avoid responsibility. Have you ever been in a situation where you believed someone owed you an apology but, by the end of the conversation, you ended up apologizing instead? That is a classic victim attitude, in which they flip the situation. - Emotional abuse can be one of the most painful forms of violence and a killer of self-esteem. It can be verbal: yelling, belittling, criticism, and accusing. It can also be subtle: intimidation, manipulation, and the “silent treatment.” - Pathological liars take lying to the extreme. A pathological liar is someone who constantly tells lies, usually in an effort to protect their image. They are masters of manipulation and can lie straight to your face. They tend to be impulsive people with a deep need to impress. Their lies might not always have a purpose, and sometimes they might lie to you just because they can. - Some toxic people can be master manipulators, and they are clever about hiding their true intentions. Controlling people might want to know where you are and who you are with. They might be vocal about it or try to control you in more subtle ways. - Toxic people project their vulnerabilities and insecurities onto another person in the form of anger and bullying. They are incapable of respecting boundaries. They can’t process their own toxicity, so they deal with it by putting it onto someone else. - Everyone can feel negative sometimes. But toxic people wish to share their negativity with the world, and it can spread like wildfire. They can only speak of bad news or negative stories and complain nonstop. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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FEAR OF DEATH - How to Overcome Fear of Death | Psychology of Happiness
 
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FEAR OF DEATH - How to Overcome Fear of Death? Are you afraid of dying? Are you afraid that your loved one is going to die? Overcoming fears are one of the hardest things. Why is it so hard and painful? And how to deal with the fear of death. Online psychologist / Life coach - Elena Semenek. Psychology of Happiness, where happiness is the purpose of life! ══════════ 🍉 GROUP WORKSHOPS (In-person and Online): https://www.facebook.com/pg/psychologyofhappinessusa/events 🍇 PRIVATE SESSION contact me by: 📧 Email: [email protected] 💙 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/psychologyofhappinessusa 🧡 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elena_semenek 💚 Twitter: https://twitter.com/elena_semenek 💖 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/psychologyofhappiness 🔴 Subscribe for new videos: https://goo.gl/FvjViJ ══════════ WATCH ALSO: ► Why am I getting stuck in negatives https://youtu.be/X8XWa8WlJtI ► How to overcome fears and anxiety https://youtu.be/EZqRaOc9sl4 ► How to spot a liar https://youtu.be/XpJowMmkphM ► Fear of Loneliness, Jealousy and Cheating https://youtu.be/zdabwkY_Dbk ► Men’s fears in a relationship https://youtu.be/RsmT1KIEPn4 ► Learned helplessness - How to stop being weak? https://youtu.be/FeVqLIhXCCU ══════════ PLAYLISTS: 😋 How to be happy and enjoy life: https://goo.gl/Mdu2Wk 👀 Fears and anxieties: https://goo.gl/M5scrf 💖 Relationship advice: https://goo.gl/sKKA6U 🖤 Cheating and Love triangles: https://goo.gl/FgozA8 🌟 How to be successful: https://goo.gl/6S9ZB3 💰 All about money: https://goo.gl/PgWJdY 👩 Playlist for Women: https://goo.gl/DfAcLQ 🤵 Playlist for Men: https://goo.gl/8Kf6pv 🍓 Psychology of Happiness - All videos: https://goo.gl/M8YHD4 ══════════ PSYCHOLOGY OF HAPPINESS, where happiness is the purpose of life! Everything about Men and Woman psychology, how to be happy, how to enjoy life, how to be successful, and how to be fulfilled. ✍ Add translation to this video to help others to discover it! Click the gear icon and go to Subtitles/CC then to Add subtitles/CC! 💰 If you want to support my channel, you can transfer any amount to this PayPal account: [email protected] 🏆 My channel in Russian: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHHPbWiYc-DDhPeR8KD9nBQ ══════════ fear of death, overcoming fears, how to overcome fear of death, psychology of fear, afraid of dying, fears, how to overcome fears, life with anxiety, online psychologist, psychologist near me, psychology, psychologist, online therapy, life coach psychology of happiness, Elena Semenek, how to be happy, relationship advice, psychology of love, relationship psychology, how to be happy in a relationship, psychology of happiness, how to be successful, relationship tips, dating advice, how to enjoy life, enjoy your life ══════════ MUSIC Beneath the Moonlight - Youtube Library
Psychological flexibility: How love turns pain into purpose | Steven Hayes | TEDxUniversityofNevada
 
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What can we do to prosper when facing pain and suffering in our lives? More than a thousand studies suggest that a major part of the answer is learning psychological flexibility. Steven C. Hayes is one of the researchers who first identified that process and put it into action in the form of a popular acceptance and mindfulness method called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. In this emotional talk, Hayes distills the essence of psychological flexibility down into a few easy to understand sentences. He takes viewers through a harrowing journey into his own panic disorder, to the very moment in his life when he made this life changing choice: I will not run from me. Hayes shows how making that choice allows us to connect with our own deep sense of meaning and purpose, arguing that taking a loving stance to your own pain allows you to bring love and contribution into the world. Steven C. Hayes is Nevada Foundation Professor at the Department of Psychology at the University of Nevada. An author of 38 books and more than 540 scientific articles, he has shown in his research how language and thought leads to human suffering, and has developed “Acceptance and Commitment Therapy” a powerful therapy method that is useful in a wide variety of areas. His popular book “Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life” was featured in Time Magazine among several other major media outlets and for a time was the number one best selling self-help book in the United States. Dr. Hayes has been President of several scientific societies and has received several national awards, such as the Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapy. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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16 Psychological Paradoxes That Make You Behave Strangely
 
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When we say our actions are a result of only our own decisions, we lie a bit. Our brain is constantly tricking us, impairing our perception of reality. Are you one of the many people who wonder why they get their best ideas in the shower? The answer to this eternal question might seem confusing as it’s one of a number of paradoxes you've probably never thought about. TIMESTAMPS: The more effort you make to impress people, the less impressed they are 0:37 The harder you try to achieve your goal, the harder it will be to get there 1:09 The more honestly you speak about your mistakes, the more perfect you seem to other people 1:43 The more you dislike something about another person, the more likely it is that you have this character trait yourself 2:11 People who don't trust others can't be trusted either 2:39 The more failures you've had, the more likely you are to succeed in the end 3:22 The more you fear death, the less you enjoy life 3:55 If you care little about others, you don't care enough about yourself 4:18 The more friends you make, the more lonely you feel 4:41 The more you argue, the less likely you are to convince people of your point of view 5:13 The more options you have, the less happy you are with each of them 5:40 The more you learn, the more you realize how little you know 6:05 Overconfident people are rarely right 6:23 The harder you try to keep a person close, the more you push them away 6:46 The less available something is, the more you want it 7:13 The best ideas come to you in the shower 7:33 #psychology #psychologicaltricks #psychologicaleffects Music by Epidemic Sound https://www.epidemicsound.com/ SUMMARY: - When you are trying too hard to impress people, you aren't likely to show your true self. Subconsciously, people will feel your insincerity and won't fall for your performance. - Your mind can play some pretty cruel tricks on you! For example, if you expect something to be difficult, you unconsciously overcomplicate things. - Vulnerability is an amazing thing. When you aren't afraid to demonstrate it and feel comfortable about not being ideal, people tend to think that you’re perfect. - According to Carl Jung, a famous psychologist, if there's a trait that bothers you in others, it reflects those parts of you that you deny or feel insecure about - Those who feel insecure about any kind of connection they have with others often use this tactic. - There's nothing wrong with trying again and again. You'll succeed eventually! - Any fear you have paralyzes your desire to be happy and enjoy your life. And since the fear of death is one of the most potent fears a person can have, it doesn't let you live your life to the fullest. - You might not notice it at first sight, but be sure that those who are rude, uncaring, and impolite to other people are just as negligent to themselves. - If you really want to convince someone, stop arguing. Give the other party time to come to the same conclusion on their own. - This is the famous “paradox of choice,” where people who are presented with more options feel less satisfied with the one they make. When you make your choice, you automatically reject other alternatives. - The more convinced a person is that they are right, the less likely they are to know the subject. The problem is that many facts change over time. But an overly confident person isn't likely to check the truthfulness of something they think they know. - When you try to be as close as possible to another person, that's mostly your jealousy speaking. Such behavior can only make your partner feel obliged to love you and be loyal. And that's not a healthy relationship. - A relaxed state of mind can help you turn your focus inward. Thus, your mind will be more likely to make insightful connections. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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99.9% of Men Get Sexually Attracted To Women Who Do These 5 Things!
 
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Sexual attraction starts with things no one really talks about! But now you will know exactly how a man feels when it comes to how to attract men and how to sexually attract men. You don't have to fight for our attention but you have to be different. Here's how... DO NOT FORGET TO SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL! FREE E-BOOK: https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/free-ebook/ Join me on my social media and discover exclusive content. I'll provide all the tips you need to make your love life better quickly Find me on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/AlexLoveCoach/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrecormont/ My Website to see all my articles: https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/ My name is Alex Cormont and I've been helping men and women in their love life for more than 10 years. I became the number one relationship expert in France and Europe. For the past decade, I have helped more than 20000 people all around the world. You want to find the one? Save your marriage? Get back with an ex or learn how to attract a man into your life? I'll give you all the tips you need to improve your relationship. Yes, Love can be taught and I'm the expert you need! I have a unique philosophy from the country of love itself. You deserve to be happy and I give you all the secrets you need in this channel.