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How Your Childhood Affects Your Love Styles
 
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Our childhood, how we were brought up, our relationships with our caregivers play a big impact on our love styles. Whether you are the pleaser, the victim or the controller, your upbringing is largely responsible for that. Watch this video to see how your childhood might have affected who you are. 6 Types of Childhood Abuse https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vRkKPMXXN8M What is Love? https://youtube.com/video/VVGZLuMpVnM/ Our Articles: https://psych2go.net/dr-milan-kay-yerkovichs-5-love-styles/ https://psych2go.net/the-4-attachment-styles-in-love/ https://psych2go.net/dr-helen-fishers-4-love-types/ References: Yerkovich, M., & Yerkovich, K. (2017). How We Love. Retrieved September 28, 201 Check out: Clascity - A Knowledge-Sharing Platform to teach and learn everything https://clascity.com/ We're also partnered with BetterHelp, where you could get online counselling at an affordable rate. You must be 18+ : http://betterhelp.com/Psych2Go http://betterhelp.com/Psych2Go
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The Attachment Theory - How Childhood Trauma Affects Your Life
 
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The attachment theory argues that a strong emotional and physical bond to one primary caregiver in our first years of life, is critical to our development. If our bonding is strong and we are securely attached, then we feel safe to explore the world. If our bond is weak, we feel insecurely attached. We are afraid to leave or explore a rather scary-looking world. Because we are not sure if we can return. Often we then don't understand our own feelings. Special thanks for our patroeon supporters: Ville Medeiros, Chutimon Nuangnit, Cedric Wang, Mike, Eva Marie Koblin, Julien Dumesnil, Mathis and the others. You are wonderful !!! If you feel helpful and want to support our channel, write a comment, subscribe and spread the word or become a patron on www.patreon.com/sprouts. Full Script: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1v82PcEvf_G2iolc5ejPY5dQ2RtqU1Vj9V5L_iIKWUhk/edit?usp=sharing Dealing with Attachment Issues: Dealing with Attachment Issues is no easy task. For those who feel like they can’t help themselves, or can’t find trust through their partners of family, we recommend looking for professional support through a therapy. If you are able to form a secure attachment to a therapist, he can become the one who provides you with that secure base. Here three of possible therapies: 1. Psychoanalysis. The aim of psychoanalysis therapy is to release repressed emotions and experiences, i.e., make the unconscious conscious. In order to do that they therapist might try to bring back some childhood memories, to work at the root cause of the problem. 2. Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT). CBT is a psycho-social intervention that is widely used for improving mental health. Instead of trying to bring you back in time, it aims to explain you whats going on inside your brain and how to cope with irrational feelings or fears. 3. The Hoffmann Process. This 7-8 days guided process, designed by the American psychologist Hoffmann, brings participants back into their childhood to reconnect with their parents at the time when attachment is formed. Its very intensive. Sources: Havard Study https://arizona.pure.elsevier.com/en/publications/feelings-of-parental-caring-predict-health-status-in-midlife-a-35 Minnesota Study https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2857405/ Further Readins: https://www.psychologistworld.com/developmental/attachment-theory
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The Science of Love | John Gottman | TEDxVeniceBeach
 
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World-renowned relationship expert John Gottman set forth to understand why relationships don’t work, but for that he needed to first understand relationships scientifically. Gottman then measured the behavior, perception and physiology of couples over time to understand how love works. With that he was able to create equations for love and discern the mathematical dynamics of love. His science was able to predict with a 90% accuracy whether relationships would last or not. Finally, his studies conclude that the magic of love requires calm and commitment, which in the end makes the magic of great love a bit less of a mystery. John Gottman speaks about how his scientific research has now created a new understanding of all love relationships (heterosexual and same-sex), across the entire life span. He describes the new LOVE EQUATIONS, and the magic trio of calm, trust, and commitment. For more, visit The Gottman Institute at https://www.gottman.com/. World-renowned for his work on marital stability and divorce prediction, Dr. John Gottman has conducted 40 years of breakthrough research with thousands of couples. He is the author of over 200 published academic articles and author or co-author of more than 40 books, including The New York Times bestseller The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Dr. Gottman’s media appearances include Good Morning America, Today, CBS Morning News, and Oprah, as well articles in The New York Times, Redbook, Glamour, Woman’s Day, People, Self, and Psychology Today. Co-founder of The Gottman Institute with his wife, Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, John is a Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Washington where he founded ”The Love Lab" at which much of his research on couples interactions was conducted. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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11 Signs Your Love Will Last a Lifetime
 
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Every happy couple has their own moments. These moments are usually the small things that can’t be planned in advance. It’s almost impossible to provide a "happiness" formula, but it’s much easier to draw some happy marriage moments. TIMESTAMPS When you are always ready to make sure she can sleep safely. 0:33 You can always count on him. 1:16 When her caring doesn’t compromise your manhood. 1:49 You prefer to stay in his arms even if it’s not very comfortable. 2:22 You are trying to survive these hard days together. 2:38 You take turns dealing with inconveniences. 3:05 And even when you fight, you never forget about the most important things in your life. 3:27 You have the same problems. 3:58 You never care what other people think! 4:18 You always understand each other. 4:39 And as long as you are together, you always feel young. 5:03 SUMMARY Happy couples hug each other often, they kiss, they touch each other while talking, they sit cheek to cheek on the couch while having a conversation, they curl around each other when they sleep, or they just gaze at the stars. And, yes, they go all the way from time to time — when it’s right for them. Every happy couple has their own moments that help them to express their love and stay together. These moments are usually the small things that are not logical and can’t be planned in advance. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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35 PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE
 
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The Challenges of Anxious-Avoidant Relationships
 
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Some of the most difficult relationships are those between people who can be categorised as 'avoidant' and others who are labelled 'anxious.' Learn to know which of these two you might be - and how better to handle the tensions that arise in a pairing with your counterpart. Sign up to our new newsletter and get 10% off your first online order of a book, product or class: https://bit.ly/2LayJ9F For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://bit.ly/2E9cxhd Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://bit.ly/2AISjqj Download our App: https://bit.ly/2PchwyB FURTHER READING You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://bit.ly/2zwmdOT “There are so many ways to be unhappy in love, but one kind which modern psychology has given particular attention to are relationships, very high in number, in which one of the parties is defined as avoidant in their attachment patterns – and the other as anxious. Attachment Theory is the term given to a set of ideas about how we love and the role of childhood therein originally developed by the English psychologist John Bowlby in the 50s and 60s. It divides up humanity into three categories according to our varying capacity to behave with confidence and trust in relationships.” MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Visit us in person at our London HQ: https://bit.ly/2zB8573 Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://www.theschooloflife.com/london/community/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Amanda Eliasson https://vimeo.com/artofam
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What Is Your Attachment Style?
 
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Attachment theory refers to a set of ideas formulated by psychologists in the 1960s that gives us an exceptionally useful guide to how we behave in relationships. Knowing whether we are secure, anxious or avoidant in our attachment patterns gives us a vocabulary with which to get on top of some very tricky dynamics and helps us grow into more predictable and more joyful companions in love. Sign up to our new newsletter and get 10% off your first online order of a book, product or class: https://bit.ly/2LayJ9F For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://bit.ly/2BF0N5N Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://bit.ly/2MCcRZx Download our App: https://bit.ly/2N2UMAY FURTHER READING You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://bit.ly/2N2NKvQ “One of the greatest questionnaires in the history of 20th-century psychology had a modest start in the pages of a local Colorado newspaper The Rocky Mountain News in July 1985. The work of two University of Denver psychologists Cindy Hazan and Phillip Shaver, the questionnaire asked readers to identify which of three statements most closely reflected who they were in love.” MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Visit us in person at our London HQ: https://bit.ly/2MrIVA3 Watch more films on SELF in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLself You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://bit.ly/2N2UMAY Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Julia Marchowska https://marchowskajulia.wixsite.com/mysite
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Your Body Language Reveals the Truth About Your Relationship
 
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What your body language says about your personality and your relationship. You can understand what is happening in your relationship without any words. Don't worry; it might be not so dramatic as you imagine. There are a lot of things people try to communicate non-verbally. There is no need to say anything when our body language is expressive enough! The main thing is to read it correctly. TIMESTAMPS Situation #1. Everything is fine, and you like each other. 0:57 Your partner turns their body to you. 1:17 Their pupils dilate. 3:24 Too active in your presence. 3:54 Situation #2. Something is going wrong. You need to talk. 4:45 Their kisses become quick and formal. 5:09 Reaction to your jokes. 5:20 Body "blocks". 5:39 #bodylanguage #attractpeople #personalitytest SUMMARY Good signs - A fantastic indicator is if you start to notice that your hands touch each other by chance very often. There might be even no real reason for it. Or, even better, many specks of dust unexpectedly appear on your clothes that need to be urgently cleaned - what your partner diligently does! Well, with such signs, you can be sure that the interest in you is high. - Sometimes you might notice that, after telling some joke, the person who told it is looking at you and waiting for your reaction. Oh, that is an obvious sign of liking! - A shocking fact for you now: did you know that men usually stop smiling widely around the age of 5-6 years? If you notice that a man near you is wearing a Hollywood smile, it can mean that he is really happy, according to the words of the psychologist Patti Wood. - 100% proof that everything is going well is if you start to notice that your partner uses the same gestures and intonations that you do. It doesn't mean that they are trying to tease you. It is more probable that they like you and are copying you subconsciously! Bad signs - It is a bad sign if partners show contempt toward each other. It might be eye-rolling or speaking badly about the partner, making sarcastic remarks or even calling names. According to the statistics, it is a predictor that there is a threat of break-up or divorce. - You and your partner may sit at the table together, but if you are still eating your ravioli while your partner is already on their coffee and cheesecake, - too bad. Happy couples typically mirror each other's movements, therefore showing some synchronicity. It happens on a subconscious level, and its absence can be food for thought. - 'Arguing is a bad sign!' - you will say. Well, yes. But if partners are cold toward each other and keep their emotions "conserved," it can be an indicator that they have moved past the point of no-return and don't have any feelings left to express. - Loving people tend to show care toward their beloved ones. If instead of straightening your clothes or smoothing your hair, they simply inform you that your hair is messy, you should think whether your relationship is still harmonious. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Healthy Relationships - What You MUST Know To Sustain A Great Relationship
 
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Healthy Relationships - The keys to establishing a healthy relationship that will last forever. The Ultimate Life Purpose Course - Create Your Dream Career: http://www.actualized.org/life-purpose-course Leo's Top 140 Self Help Books http://www.actualized.org/books Full Transcript Here: http://www.actualized.org/articles/healthy-relationships Video Summary: Building a healthy relationship is a life-long endeavor, not a weekend project. Spend time learning about yourself, the opposite sex, and the critical psychological building blocks that govern love and sex. Know the defining characteristics of a co-dependent relationship, an independent relationship, and an inter-dependent one. The co-dependent relationship is the least healthy and unfortunately the most common. Both parties are looking to their partner to fulfill them, which is not only impossible, but typically catastrophic. Independent relationships may struggle to take-off, but offer the potential of becoming an even-healthier inter-dependent relationship with sufficient cooperation. Inter-dependent relationships are built on the individual strengths of both partners, and the synergy created when these individuals collaborate. To best prepare for a healthy relationship, work on yourself first. Operate from a position of abundance, at least in terms of potential partners. Learn to be happy all by yourself. Build yourself an awesome life, and use personal development to work on any "opportunities" for improvement in terms of your personal psychology.
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All the Body Signs That Indicate a Truly Happy Couple
 
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You can never know what struggle a couple goes through behind closed doors and is their relationship still fresh and romantic. Or can you? Dr. Lilian Glass, the author of the documentary film Body Language Decoded and the bestselling book He Says She Says, thinks otherwise. Actually, something as simple as a photograph of a couple can help you reveal a lot about their relationship and even predict their future! We collected 12 details that you should pay attention to if you want to become a body language pro. TIMESTAMPS “He's mine” gesture 1:20 Mutual care 1:51 Strong connection 2:39 Owner 3:26 Like-minded 4:12 Who's the boss? 4:59 Popular people 5:51 Attachment 6:34 Bragging 7:11 Toe-to-toe 7:57 Protector 8:40 Alpha male 9:14 SUMMARY - A hand placed on a partner’s torso or chest hints at feelings of possessiveness. As a rule, it’s mainly women who use this kind of gesture. Their whole body says, "He is mine."  - Sometimes the body language signals come from both the man and the woman. For example, if a woman’s body is turned to her partner, it means she wants to be as close to him as possible. At the same time, the man is standing upright next to her with his hand placed on her waist. - You probably know some couples of this next type. They became used to doing everything together a long time ago. They rarely say “I am” and use “we are” for everything. - When a man holds a woman very firmly by her forearm, this sign indicates that he "owns" her. He shows her off, controls her, and tries to hold her close. Does she like it? Of course, she doesn’t. - Relaxed hands and an intimately inclined head indicate two like-minded people who trust each other. Their relationship may not be sunshine and roses all the time, but what counts is that they are both willing to work on whatever problems may come. - Look at the woman. She is standing in front of the man and smiling. Her legs are positioned in a way to take up more space. This body language shows us a self-confident person. She’s the boss in this relationship. - Some people know exactly how to pose for the camera. People, who love to be in full view, have a specific and quite confident body posture. Here the man is holding the woman firmly, and she knows how to stand to look great and show all the good features of her figure and looks. - They are equal in this union: there are no leaders, no followers, and they live in peace. They’ve been together for a long time and can always rely on each other. They have each other’s backs. This is a power-couple. - Very often you can see men place their hand much lower than a woman’s waist. At first sight, this seems to have a sexual subtext or little bit of the “showing-off” aura about it. - Another lovely thing that men sometimes do is putting their hands on a woman's shoulder. By doing this, a man demonstrates deep care for a woman and shows her and everyone else that he can protect her. In this case, they both walk toe-to-toe, meaning that they’re focused on each other, forgetting about everything else. - Protector: this is an already classic gesture where the woman holds her partner’s arm. It means she depends on him and feels protected. In this case, the man usually stands in front of the woman. He dominates in their relationship and shows that he can be relied on. - Men have different ways to show their power using their body language, and the strongest one is when a man puts his feet up. Women can do this too, but in general, this posture is more common for men. This demonstrates his great self-confidence and belief in himself. Powerful people often choose this position. Do you recognize yourself and your loved one in any of these postures? Share your opinions in the comment section! Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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9 Types of Non-Physical Acts That Are Still Cheating
 
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Not all cheating is physical, and defining an emotional affair that can spoil a happy relationship can be way harder. According to statistics, around 45% of men and 35% of women have admitted to have done some sort of nonphysical cheating. Pay attention to the 9 types of emotional infidelity and what you should do to keep your relationship healthy. If you want to break free from the negative and destructive aspects of your relationship, never be mad at your partner for something they don’t know they’re doing wrong. Talk to them. If you can’t stand the urge to flirt with other people, both online and offline, and you can’t help crossing the line with strangers, it’s a clear red flag that something’s missing between you and your partner. If you’re going out of your way to hide something or someone from your partner, then it clearly means that you’re feeling a little guilty about something. Maybe you feel that your secret “friend” is a threat to your relationship and don’t want to admit this fact. The only way out for you is to admit it to yourself and figure out why you’re being secretive in the first place. Remember that while attraction is not a choice, cheating definitely is. It’s also true for same-sex friends you or your partner has. An affair doesn’t just randomly happen, only you can make a choice to give in to your temptations or not go down that slippery slope. Remember, the love you feel for the dollars in your bank account is nothing compared to the love of a loyal spouse. Let your family and friends know that when it comes to your significant other and your relationship, there is a line that they can’t cross. Music: Love Now - Eveningland Nimbus - Eveningland Dat Groove - Audionautix https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music TIMESTAMPS You’re too close to your opposite-sex friend. 0:46 You flirt online and offline. 1:36 You’re having an affair with your phone. 2:28 You constantly complain about your partner to others. 3:40 You cross the line with strangers. 4:30 You have a secret friend. 5:26 You fantasize about others. 6:29 You lie about your finances. 7:37 You don’t stand up for your partner. 8:37 SUMMARY -Nobody’s saying that men and women can’t be “just friends”, but if your gut is telling you there’s an attraction between your partner and their “friend”, address the issue directly. -Anonymous online flirting, as well as the offline sort, is still an affair. -Instead of talking to their partner, friend, or family member, people are diving into virtual reality to distract themselves. -When you complain about your partner to others, you actually just end up creating even more space between the two of you. -If you need someone, especially a complete stranger, to fill whatever void you have in your relationship, you’re crossing the line into emotional infidelity. -If you’re relying on someone for emotional support, and that person isn’t in a romantic relationship with you, you’re setting yourself up for some trouble with your partner. -In case you’re consistently daydreaming about a sexual partner other than your partner, this could be considered emotional infidelity, and it could lead to a sexual affair because it means you’re disconnected from your spouse. -The problem with financial dishonesty, like any other type of lying, is that trust is lost, and the relationship immediately loses any chance of success. -If your boyfriend or girlfriend won’t stand up for you, it’s possible that they don’t consider the relationship as serious as you do. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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11 Things Happy Couples Do Before They Go to Sleep
 
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How to strengthen the connection between your partner and you? What is vital for a happy relationship of a couple? Here’s a list of 11 simple but very effective recommendations from well-known psychologists. They speak about how to behave toward your partner before calling it a night. TIMESTAMPS Switch your phones to silent mode, and put them away 0:53 Forget about work 1:22 Go to bed at the same time as your partner 1:55 Follow a routine 2:27 Have a heart-to-heart talk 2:50 Don't argue or get into heated conversations 3:49 Keep your bedroom child-free 4:17 Don't share the bed with your pets 4:51 Don's drink alcohol or smoke 5:22 Give each other a massage 6:21 Don't forget about hugs and kisses 7:11 Tricks on how to fight insomnia 7:59 #insomnia #relationshipgoal #bettersleep SUMMARY - Social media dependency suppresses the release of oxytocin (or, as it is also called, the "Love Hormone") in your body. Too bad as exactly this hormone is responsible for emotional intimacy and bonding. - Try to forget about work, and stop checking your work email when you are in bed. It's so much better to spend that time together and have some rest so that you can be productive at work the following day. - Many people in a relationship don't see each other all day long and have a habit of going to bed at different times. As many as 75 percents of couples do this on a regular basis, typically because one of the partner's works, watches TV, or surfs the net. - Following the same bedtime routine, every day helps you to sleep better. While following a familiar routine, your brain receives a signal of the approaching bedtime and prepares your body for sleep. - Pay attention to each other's feelings. You don't need to give advice or find immediate solutions to the problems. Sometimes we simply want to talk and feel the care and support of our loved ones. - This advice is given by people who have been married for 40-50 years and more. Their experience tells them that no disagreement is worth more than a day's fight. Curt Smith reminds us to try not to involve ourselves in heated arguments before going to sleep. Fighting in bed never helps to solve a problem. - Another psychologist, Michael Viner-Davis, is sure that the only time you can let your children sleep in your bed is when they have a nightmare. At all other times, your bedroom should be your private space. - As reported in the research of the University of Kansas, 63 percent of people who sleep with their pets don't get enough sleep. Your pet can't be asleep through the whole night and often disturbs your rest. - Many couples like to have a glass of wine before going to bed to create a romantic atmosphere. However, while your body is digesting alcohol, the restorative period of your sleep becomes shorter. - Specialists from the National Foundation of Sleep confirm that a light and relaxing massage before going to bed is highly beneficial. It improves the quality of your sleep, reduces anxiety, and brings couples closer together. - Remember to kiss your partner before going to sleep as well as to cuddle for a few minutes when you are already in bed. Kissing always evokes positive emotions. Psychologists are confident that if you hug when falling asleep, your relationship is not in trouble. David Klow, a family therapist, advises the couples that have issues with communication to hug each other. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Psychological Test: Guess Which One Is Not a Family
 
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The first relationship of any of us is the one with our families during childhood, and it often determines how we view the world. Take this psychological test to find out how your own first relationships have shaped your personality. Look closely at the picture of 3 families, or two families and one group of people, to be more precise. Can you tell which family is not a real one? Don’t think about it for too long, go with your gut here. Even if the family you come from wasn’t a happy one, don’t let the traumatic experience of the past affect your present and future. Even if your parents, sadly, didn’t have a loving relationship, it doesn’t mean your love and family life will go according to the same scenario. This video is intended for entertainment and information purposes only. The video is not intended to serve as a substitute for professional, medical or psychiatric advice of any kind. Music: 7th Floor Tango - Silent Partner https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music TIMESTAMPS Pick a family 0:46 Option #1 explained 1:21 Option #2 explained 2:13 Option #3 explained 3:14 SUMMARY -Don’t overthink your choice, just go with your gut here. -If your answer is family #1, you’re probably not a family-oriented person - at least not in the traditional sense. -If you picked family #2 because you believe it’s not a real one, you’re strongly family-oriented - there’s nothing more important to you than your family. Being a real family person, you were able to spot the fake family right away. -In case family #3 looks like a group of strangers to you, you probably come from a dysfunctional family. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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9 Typical Signs of an Emotionally Unstable Person
 
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Find out how to boost your self-confidence and learn to love yourself to feel and look like the most confident and successful person. Psychologists revealed 9 typical signs of emotionally unstable people that affect your life. Lack of self-confidence is one of the most important factors that can influence your image, your level of satisfaction with your life, and your emotional stability. While a lot of people sometimes struggle with feeling a little insecure, not everybody comes out a winner from this fight. Of course, a lot of people want to be liked by others. It really just depends on how much someone wants it. Believe it or not, even the most attractive people often don’t feel the best about their appearance. And this is totally normal. You can't always be 100% sure that you look perfect all the time. Try to find the best aspects of your appearance and highlight them. Remember: confidence equals emotional balance. A lack of self-confidence can be noticed even in the smallest details. And our life is nothing but a compilation of small instances. So try and change something about yourself to find peace and self-assurance. Music: Beach Disco - Dougie Wood https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music TIMESTAMPS An overwhelming desire to be popular 0:36 Doubts about their appearance 1:20 Caring about someone else's opinion 2:14 Their reaction to refusal 2:58 High expectations 3:46 Jealousy 4:36 Devaluation 6:05 Indecisiveness 6:35 Being possessive of others 8:24 SUMMARY -If you're ready to do anything just to get more “likes” or views, you should try to figure out what’s driving you. -Remember that people who ooze self-confidence don't fool themselves by thinking they're perfect. -Don’t worry: people aren't generally all that interested in your appearance and your behavior because they’re too caught-up in worrying about how others see them. -Try to imagine how other people feel when someone turns their ideas down, and you'll understand that you’re not alone. -You can’t expect yourself or other people to do the impossible. -Being jealous will bring you nothing but negativity and a bad mood. Try to distract yourself and switch your attention to something else. -Don’t ignore those who really want to help and support you. -Try out a strategy to make decisions easier: consider all pros and cons, think about the consequences and make your choice. -Remember that every person has their own life and desires that are probably different from yours. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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The Way You Hold Hands Reveals a Lot About Your Relationship
 
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How to Know if You’re Meant to be. There are always little signs here and there that can say a lot about a couple's true behind-closed-doors dynamic. And holding hands is definitely one of them! That's simply because body language is your subconscious speaking, putting your innermost feelings on display. So what deepest and darkest secrets can it uncover about your relationship? How a couple holds hands is just a tiny part of the whole picture, so it can’t predict the success or failure of a relationship all by itself. It’s a good place to start, but always look for other clues if you’re having doubts about your partner’s emotional investment in your relationship. And, again, talking openly and honestly will never let you down. TIMESTAMPS Down-facing palm 0:55 Interlocked fingers 1:40 The over-the-shoulder lock 2:39 The one-finger hold 3:22 “Reinforcement” from the other hand 4:07 The wrist grab 5:00 Linked arms 5:53 Holding fingers and slightly pulling the hand 6:48 Without holding hands 7:38 Music: https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music SUMMARY -Couples that hold their palms down have a strong bond based on sincere affection. Whoever’s palm is facing downward or behind tends to have a stronger personality. -Interlocked fingers symbolize passion and a strong connection between two people. If you and your partner don't mind meeting each other halfway, you're gonna be just fine. -There's no distance between you two, which symbolizes how loving and intimate your bond is. -You're two strong and successful individuals who respect each other's space and privacy but can create a powerful union at the same time. -If you notice that you or your partner uses “reinforcement” from the other hand quite often, this can either be a really good sign or a red flag: it can indicate an overly possessive person or show how serious your relationship is getting. -If you and your partner like to gently grab or hold the other’s wrist from behind with your forearms crossing, it means that you enjoy every second that you spend together. -If you and your partner link arms every day, it can mean that the one who takes their partner’s arm is seeking protection or feeling a little bit insecure in the relationship. -Whoever’s pulling the other’s hand might be trying to force their partner to make decisions faster than they're used to. It can also indicate that one of you is fed up with the routine in the relationship. -If your partner always tries to avoid holding your hand, it may be a sign that they're just not that into you. On the other hand, it could simply be shyness or a desire for privacy and more independence. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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The Men's Sexual Psychology Secret  | language of Desire
 
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The Missing Link In Every Relationship Sex? Communication? Romantic Dates? All these things are important, but a breakthrough new video reveals the surprising factor that can make ALL the difference in a relationship and few, if any women (or men) are even aware of it! Click Here To Discover How To Understand & Attract Any Man: http://languageofdesires.co/lod47felicity You're about to learn the biggest secrets 96% of women never learn in their lifetime to instantly attract a man, inspire his love, and make him love you for the rest of your life. Let me start by asking you a few questions. Please be honest when you answer them. Have you ever felt frustrated because you love a man more than he loves you? Are you annoyed when he tells you, "Nothing is wrong," but you know something is definitely wrong? Have you ever wondered why he's withdrawing from you? Doesn't it just kill you when you see the man of your dreams loses interest little by little, day by day, right in front of your eyes? The once ardent lover has now turned into a total stranger. After many failed relationships, I finally decided to take matters into my own hands. After many painful trials and errors, I suddenly discovered a system that would trigger love in a man. After seeing my success, all my girlfriends wanted to know how I did it. I shared the system with them. It worked like a charm. I finally got it! The secrets only master seductresses know. You may have heard of some of these legendary seductresses: Cleopatra, Wallis Simpson and the now infamous Camilla Parker-Bowels. These women were neither the smartest nor the most beautiful (please tell me you know someone who looks better than Camilla!) But there is one thing they know and understand better than 99.9% of women in this world. They know HOW TO INFLUENCE MEN. In other words, they know how to attract men to their way of thinking and make them obsessed and want to satisfy each and every one of their little wishes. They also make men obsessed and fall so deeply in love that in the case of Wallis Simpson, King Edward VIII gave up his throne to spend his life with "the woman I love." This is the power to influence men and make him obsessed. This is the value of aligning men to your way of thinking. It's the power that will deliver the man of your dreams and the love life you could only hope for right to your doorstep. Tell me this is something you don't want to learn and master! To assist your learning, I've spent a lot of time filtering through a huge amount of information, simplifying it and condensing the most useful, practical advice into the least amount of material for you. I want you to quickly digest the information and start applying it in the real world to see how powerful it truly is. If you've ever wanted to know how to truly understand any man, then this is the most important video you'll ever watch. http://languageofdesires.co/lod47felicity Url of video: https://youtu.be/_tgq9RXGP5Y Subscribe Here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCn5XJZ8y156-VbAeBgh5pVQ?sub_confirmation=1 --- Sexual,Psychology,Psychology of Sexuality,attract a man,Human Sexuality,Desire,Relationship,Advice,Tips,Talk,Romance,Romantic,Couples,Happy Couples,Good Sex Life,talk dirty,Love Advice,Better Sex,naughty talk,Collection,Kiss obssession,obsessed,Review,mind,Body,talk,how to please a man
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Relationship Advice - The Master Plan For Creating An Amazing Relationship
 
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Relationship Advice - The deep truth you must know if you ever want to have a chance of maintaining a healthy relationship. The Ultimate Life Purpose Course - Create Your Dream Career: http://www.actualized.org/life-purpose-course Leo's Top 140 Self Help Books http://www.actualized.org/books Full Video Transcript Here: http://www.actualized.org/articles/relationship-advice Video Summary: A high rate of divorce and break-ups is a fact of our society. It's not surprising, given the casual approach our society takes to finding and building long-term relationships. In case you haven't figured it out yet, chance is not on your side when seeking a mate or discerning how to make that relationship a healthy one. So what should you be learning to better navigate these treacherous waters? Some basic realities of human relationships is a fine place to start. These truths work on the playground as well in the bedroom. Give up any misguided notions you may harbor in these areas: you can't control another person, period -- in any way. The only person you can control is you. The best thing for you to change is your attitude. Then some hints for building better intimate relationships: don't operate from sexual scarcity. Get your financial life in order. Get as healthy and fit as you can be. Work on fixing you -- if you're always the one left behind, figure out why and work on that. These are hard truths, that many people will discount, as they travel the road from disastrous relationship to disastrous relationship. Ignore them at your peril.
Views: 218272 Actualized.org
8 Unique LGBTQ Dating Problems
 
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Get a solar universe bracelet here: https://goo.gl/DYN43G Use the discount code: psych2go to get 10% off. There are a number of things those in the LGBTQ community endure during their time on the dating scene. In fact, we have 8 of them listed below. Before you read on, keep in mind that the LGBTQ community is diverse and a few of these problems are directed more to some than they are to others. Based off our article: https://psych2go.net/8-unique-lgbtq-dating-problems/ Links to more of our LGBTQ articles by Alex: https://psych2go.net/category/lgbt/ Content/Script/Voice over by: Alex Nunez Animated by: Chloe Watson (New animator for Psych2Go!) Project Manager: Erin Bogo Community Manager: Priscilla Cha, Nicole Pridemore Producer: Psych2Go Support us by grabbing a psychology magazine here: https://psych2go.shop/collections/magazines Or get a bracelet here: https://www.introvertpalace.com/products/universe-galaxy-the-eight-planets-in-the-solar-system-guardian-star-natural-stone-beads-bracelet-bangle-for-women-men-gift More Psych2Go here: http://youtube.com/psych2go Website: http://psych2go.net Twitter: http://twitter.com/psych2go Facebook: http://facebook.com/psych2go Tumblr: http://psych2go.me
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26 PSYCHOLOGY FACTS YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT PEOPLE
 
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Learning something new about yourself is always interesting and entertaining. And understanding the psychology behind the way we behave, treat others, and express ourselves can be even more appealing. Today, we here at Bright Side have compiled a list of the most surprising psychology facts that can help you better understand yourself and others. Other videos you might like: 10 Psychology Problems Caused by Parenting Behavior https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_eJPX-OI7c& 13 Psychology Tricks That Work On Anybody https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSvxuekIVuk& 12 Smart Psychological Tips You'd Better Learn https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Szahr27ReQo& SUMMARY: - Any friendship that begins in the period between 16 and 28 years of age is more likely to be robust and long-lasting. - Women generally prefer men with deep husky voices because they seem more confident and not aggressive. - The smarter the person is, the faster he thinks, and the sloppier his handwriting is. - Our emotions don’t affect the way we communicate. In fact, the way we communicate has an influence on our mood. - The way a person treats restaurant staff reveals a lot about their character. - People who have a strong sense of guilt understand others’ thoughts and feelings better. - Men are not funnier than women. They just make more jokes, not caring whether others like their humor or not. - Shy people talk little about themselves, but they do this in a way that makes other people feel that they know them very well. - Women have twice as many pain receptors in their bodies than men, but they have a much higher pain tolerance. - Listening to high-frequency music makes you feel calm, relaxed, and happy. - If you can’t stop your stream of thoughts at night, get up and write them down. This trick will set your mind at ease so you can sleep. - Good morning and good night text messages activate the part of the brain responsible for happiness. - Doing things that scare you will make you happier. - The average amount of time a woman can keep a secret is 47 hours and 15 minutes. - People who try to keep everyone happy often end up feeling the loneliest. - The happier we are, the less sleep we require. - When you hold the hand of your beloved, you feel less pain and worry less. - Intelligent people have fewer friends than the average person. The smarter the person is, the more selective they are. - Marrying your best friend eliminates the risk of divorce by over 70%. This marriage is more likely to last a lifetime. - The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems. - Women who have mostly male friends stay in a good mood more often. - People who speak two languages may unconsciously shift their personalities when they switch from one language to another. - Being alone for a long time is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. - Travel boosts brain health and decreases a person’s risk of heart attack and depression. - People look more attractive when they speak about the things they are interested in. - When two people talk to each other, and one of them turns their feet slightly away or repeatedly moves one foot in an outward direction, this is a sign of disagreement. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz For copyright matters please contact us at: [email protected] ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC  ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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10 Psychology Problems Caused by Parenting Behavior
 
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With most psychological issues, the reasons are quite trivial: childhood emotional impressions. You should know that your low self-esteem and anxiety might be caused by certain parenting mistakes. TIMESTAMPS Lack of independence 0:36 Depression, a feeling of guilt 1:35 Inability to rest and relax completely 2:25 Harmful addictions and extreme sports 2:55 Personal life issues 3:29 Search for a parent-partner 4:01 Suppression of own talents and lack of initiative 4:19 Closeness, suppression of emotions 4:46 Extremely low self-esteem, desire to be like someone else 5:11 Lack of independence, irresponsibility 5:45 SUMMARY Parenting mistakes are quite common, but their price is too high. With our own unrestraint, overindulgence, inconsistency, or over-busyness, we make our children nervous and naughty. You are capable of avoiding this. You only have to cherish, understand, respect, and love your kids. Do any of these situations sound familiar to you? Then show this video to your parents. If you’re still a child, they’ll probably change their behavior for the better. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz For copyright matters please contact us at: [email protected] Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC  ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
Views: 1063996 BRIGHT SIDE
The BEST relationship advice EVER - Jordan Peterson
 
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Professor Jordan Peterson has been in the news a LOT recently, as a staunch defender of free speech, and fiery critic of the increasingly censorious culture we live in. I thought people might enjoy seeing a very different side of him. I encourage everyone to check out the full Maps of Meaning course. It's pretty amazing. Subscribe to my channel for more great content: https://www.youtube.com/gravitahn This video excerpt is taken from here: https://youtu.be/ux6TVYqdN-E Maps of Meaning full course playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL22J3VaeABQAGbKJNDrRa6GNL0iL4KoOj ============================ Follow & support Jordan Peterson: Patreon https://www.patreon.com/user?u=3019121 Twitter: https://twitter.com/jordanbpeterson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drjordanpeterson YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/JordanPetersonVideos
Views: 2128546 Gravitahn
FEAR OF INTIMACY &  the 5 Ways to Overcome it | Kati Morton - Love, Relationships, Dating & Sex
 
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Order my book today! ARE U OK? http://geni.us/sva4iUY FEAR OF INTIMACY & the 5 Ways to Overcome it! There are many articles out there and I have heard from many of you that you have been told the fear of intimacy comes from social phobia, or anxiety disorders. Today I want to talk about where this fear really comes from and more of the root of the issue rather than what co-morbid diagnosis we may have. As a side note: Know that if you are in a relationship with someone who struggles with this and you feel them pushing you away or maybe not giving you the attention that you need; they are doing their best. Many who struggle with this feel that they are giving people all of the love and support they need, because it feels like enough to them. They are not intentionally holding back, they simply don't realize they are doing it. I believe that the fear of intimacy comes from us not having a secure attachment. Now remember, a secure or not secure attachment is something that is created when we are young children or babies. If we have a smothering parent we may grow up worrying that we truly express ourselves and what we are feeling, we may only upset them more and make things worse. On the other hand, if we have a neglectful parent we may not express what we are feeling or going through because we know we won't get the love and support we need. Also, keep in mind that many of us who struggle with this may not even know. We usually find out because of work and work relationships or by getting into a serious romantic relationship. Here are 5 ways that we can overcome it! -CBT & DBT Therapy are best for the treatment of this. 1. Practice expressing how we feel & communicating our emotions 2. Using "feeling sheets" You know those pages filled with emotion words that you can circle. These are great to identify what it is we are feeling 3. Practice reading other people's emotions 4. Be patient. This can take time and practice, but know that it does get better and easier as we stick with it. 5. Practice calming techniques. These could be breathing techniques, distraction techniques or even stretching or yoga. Whatever you can add into your day and lifestyle that help calm you down. Link to feeling wheel: http://blogs.edweek.org/teachers/coaching_teachers/Feeling-Wheel.jpg Link to a feeling word sheet: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/297941331573865975/ WEBSITE http://www.katimorton.com TWITTER http://www.twitter.com/katimorton FACEBOOK http://www.facebook.com/katimorton1 TUMBLR http://www.katimorton.tumblr.com PINTEREST http://www.pinterest.com/katimorton1 HELP! SUBTITLE VIDEOS http://goo.gl/OZOQXi WE NEED YOUR HELP! Subtitle videos if you know English or any other languages! You can help people who are either hearing impaired or non native English speaking. By doing this, you are helping others and strengthening our community. MY FREE WORKBOOKS Easy to follow at home workbooks for your mental health Self-Harm workbook http://goo.gl/N7LtwU Eating Disorder workbook http://goo.gl/DjOmkC LGTBQ workbook http://goo.gl/WG8jcZ KATIFAQ VIDEOS Wondering if I have answered a question like yours? Search for it here: http://goo.gl/1ECSlO MY VIDEO SCHEDULE Monday - New mental health topic video Thursday -q&a's, guests, mental health in the news, etc SENDING KATI STUFF PO Box 1223 Wilshire Blvd. #665 Santa Monica, CA 90403 BUSINESS INQUIRIES [email protected] mental illness therapist ****PLEASE READ**** If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room.
Views: 227986 Kati Morton
6 Types of Childhood Abuse
 
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Childhood abuse can have far reaching effects. From insecurities to intimacy issues, from not daring to trust people to difficulties making friends, the effects of childhood abuse can show in any area of your life. Childhood abuse can develop into lifelong issues, or even Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Today on psych2go, we will learn about different types of abuse. Needless to say, these might be triggering for people so be watchful of what you are comfortable with reading about. There are many more types, so feel free to add others in the comments. Article & research by Kayleigh H: https://psych2go.net/childhood-abuse-types-which-others/ If you enjoyed this video, you can support us by grabbing one of our solar planet bracelet here: https://goo.gl/1XXgG1 or t-shirt here: https://goo.gl/sfWmCZ Happy Sunday and thank you for all the support! Use the discount code: Psych2Go to get 10% off on either items. Sound track: Better Days - Bensound Time Stops - Silent Partner
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Daddy Issues
 
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We’re used to being rather mean about people who have ‘daddy issues’. We should be more careful and more kind. Daddy issues can lead to the worst kind of political situations – and need to be understood as psychological phenomena. If you like our films, take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): https://goo.gl/UNk3XX Join our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Or visit us in person at our London HQ https://goo.gl/bOsHi6 FURTHER READING “To say that someone has ‘daddy issues’ is a somewhat rude and humiliating way of alluding to a very understandable longing: for a father who is strong and wise, who is judicious, kind, perhaps at points tough, but always fair – and ultimately, always on our side. It would be so understandable if we were to feel we wanted someone like this in our lives, especially at moments of confusion and chaos…” You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://goo.gl/5vqJDQ MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/2pQqZE Watch more films on SELF in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLself You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Sentio Space http://sentiospace.com/ https://twitter.com/SentioSpace #TheSchoolOfLife
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Oliver JR Cooper Video Interview: Susan Winter, Bestselling Author & Relationship Expert
 
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In this video interview, author and thought leader Oliver JR Cooper and I discuss how to get to love (yes! in today’s dating world), handle a bad breakup, and my advice to women dating a younger man. Teacher, Prolific writer, author, and consultant, Oliver JR Cooper, hails from England. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation, including love, partnership, self-love, and inner awareness. With over two thousand, one hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behaviour, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice. His current projects include ‘A Dialogue With The Heart’ and ‘Communication Made Easy’. Oliver has been a trusted colleague and friend. I remember when he first wrote to me c/o my website with insightful commentary, reflecting a keen understanding of human nature. We became fast e-friends, as he lives in the UK. He’s a prolific writer with articles numbering in the thousands! And, a bevy of fine books addressing self-growth and personal transformation. I encourage you to check out his work: https://www.oliverjrcooper.co.uk [email protected] https://www.facebook.com/OliverJRCooper https://www.linkedin.com/in/oliver-jr-cooper-6b929445/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFss__Sxzpz3RoVm9vV_EEg Personal Coaching: http://www.susanwinter.net/consultation/ Or, call me on Magnifi: (on demand) by-the-minute coaching https://kp34c.app.goo.gl/jTKIELHZk3gbZvtC2 Join my social media family! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/authorsusanwinter Twitter: https://twitter.com/susan_e_winter As seen on OPRAH, bestselling author/relationship expert Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) writes, speaks and coaches on evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. Media credits include: THE OPRAH SHOW, THE TODAY SHOW, GOOD MORNING AMERICA, ABC/CBS/NBC EVENING NEWS, CNN, BBC, COSMO, HARPERS BAZAAR, PEOPLE, FORTUNE, BUSINESS INSIDER, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, and THE NEW YORK TIMES. In radio, Susan is a frequent guest on NPR, ABC, PLAYBOY RADIO (Sirius), and CBS NEWS RADIO. Her articles can be found on THE HUFFINGTON POST, and THE GOOD MEN PROJECT. www.susanwinter.net
Views: 2488 Susan Winter
The Paradox of Love & Hate: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder - BPD Relationship Expert
 
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WARNING: this video was not meant to be a resource for those who have Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD), which is a very unfortunate psychological disorder. The video was created as a resource to victims of abuse, past and present, from people diagnosed with BPD. I do not believe that people with BPD are all the same, and are equally abusive. I do know that they hurt the people that they love. Some of them hurt these people very badly. This video is NOT a resource for people suffering with BPD. In fact, it will surely aggravate their condition. Although I believe I know a great deal about the disorder, I am neither a specialist nor an expert in the treatment of it. My skill set is with people who I refer to as “Self-Love Deficients” (codependents) who have Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency). Those who criticize my video(s) on BPD are misinformed about who I am. I neither represent people with BPD, nor do I ever try to. Rather, I am a psychotherapist who provides mental health services to people who are SLD’s (codependents) and trauma survivors. My work is about empowerment, healing and escaping abusive relationships. This is evident in my Human Magnet Syndrome book and my other video and training materials. My intention is not to malign people with BPD, but to empower and lead my clients away from their compulsion to stay in relationships with individuals who are harmful and abusive to them. My work represents people who want to heal psychological wounds and who take personal responsibility for their actions. I AM AGAINST abusive individuals who narcissistically justify their harmful behavior or blame it on the victims. If that fits with people diagnosed with BPD, or for that matter, NPD or ASPD, then I offer no apologies. Ross Rosenberg's latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminar, workshop and other services can be found at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com or www.HumanMagnetSyndrome.com. Ross Rosenberg’s work on codependency, narcissism, trauma, Self-Love Recovery™, and his "Codependency Cure™" has earned him international recognition. He owns Clinical Care Consultants, a multi-location Chicago suburb counseling center, and the Self-Love Recovery Institute. He has traveled to 30 states and twice to Europe to present his workshops. Ross's first book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome" sold over 50K copies and is published in French, Spanish and soon in Czech. His latest Human Magnet Syndrome book, a complete re-write of the first, is available on February 1st. Ross’s 7 million video views/68,000 subscribers YouTube platform has established him as global phenomenon. Ross owns Clinical Care Consultants, a counseling center located in Arlington Heights and Inverness IL. . Ross's articles at http://goo.gl/XEVxgE Dysfunctional Relationship Information.
Views: 266143 Ross Rosenberg
The Biggest Psychology News Stories of 2016
 
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From Pokémon, to fMRI, to the relationship between masculine norms and mental health, 2016 left us with some interesting psych news to ponder. Learn more about the science of Pokémon GO: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXkQVSSfk1k Hosted by: Hank Green ---------- Support SciShow by becoming a patron on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/scishow ---------- Dooblydoo thanks go to the following Patreon supporters—we couldn't make SciShow without them! Shout out to Jeremy Peng, Kevin Bealer, Mark Terrio-Cameron, KatieMarie Magnone, Patrick Merrithew, Charles Southerland, Fatima Iqbal, Benny, Kyle Anderson, Tim Curwick, Scott Satovsky Jr, Will and Sonja Marple, Philippe von Bergen, Bella Nash, Bryce Daifuku, Chris Peters, Saul, Patrick D. Ashmore, Charles George, Bader AlGhamdi ---------- Like SciShow? Want to help support us, and also get things to put on your walls, cover your torso and hold your liquids? Check out our awesome products over at DFTBA Records: http://dftba.com/scishow ---------- Looking for SciShow elsewhere on the internet? Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/scishow Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/scishow Tumblr: http://scishow.tumblr.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/thescishow ---------- Sources: Pokemon GO: http://money.cnn.com/2016/07/22/technology/pokemon-go-apple-download-records/ http://www.gamespot.com/articles/pokemon-go-estimated-to-have-been-downloaded-75-mi/1100-6442180/ http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/mind-guest-blog/the-rehabilitation-of-an-old-emotion-a-new-science-of-nostalgia/ http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1364661316000267 https://www.medical-neurosciences.de/fileadmin/user_upload/microsites/studiengaenge/neurosciences/cns-2014-i7i2.pdf http://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/exercising-to-relax https://www.wired.com/2016/07/psychology-pokemon-go-gets-inside-brain/ fMRI: http://www.pnas.org/content/113/28/7900.full http://www.sciencealert.com/a-bug-in-fmri-software-could-invalidate-decades-of-brain-research-scientists-discover http://blogs.warwick.ac.uk/nichols/entry/bibliometrics_of_cluster/ Sexism and mental health: http://psycnet.apa.org/?&fa=main.doiLanding&doi=10.1037/cou0000176 http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2016/11/sexism-harmful.aspx http://www.cbsnews.com/news/being-sexist-could-harm-mens-health-study/ http://www.popsci.com/research-shows-that-toxic-masculinity-is-harmful-to-mens-mental-health Images: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Pokemon_go_stang_alar.jpg https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:1206_FMRI.jpg
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Self-Concept, Self-Identity & Social Identity – Psychology & Sociology | Lecturio
 
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This video “Self-Concept, Self-Identity & Social Identity” is part of the Lecturio course “Psychology & Sociology” ► WATCH the complete course on http://lectur.io/psych ► LEARN ABOUT: - Self-concept and identity formation - Different types of identities - ADRESSING framework ► THE PROF: Dr. Tarry Ahuja is currently a senior medical real-world evidence scientist for a major pharmaceutical company and a lecturer at Carleton University, Canada. He has worked in the hospital setting and National Research Council of Canada for over 10 years. ► LECTURIO is your single-point resource for medical school: Study for your classes, USMLE Step 1, USMLE Step 2, MCAT or MBBS with video lectures by world-class professors, recall & USMLE-style questions and textbook articles. Create your free account now: http://lectur.io/psych ► INSTALL our free Lecturio app iTunes Store: https://app.adjust.com/z21zrf Play Store: https://app.adjust.com/b01fak ► READ TEXTBOOK ARTICLES related to this video: Medical Psychology and Sociology: Personality Psychology http://lectur.io/psycharticle ► SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel: http://lectur.io/subscribe ► WATCH MORE ON YOUTUBE: http://lectur.io/playlists ► LET’S CONNECT: • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lecturio.medical.education.videos • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lecturio_medical_videos • Twitter: https://twitter.com/LecturioMed
7 Things You Must Avoid When Fighting With Your Beloved
 
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Relationships are great – all these breakfasts in bed, little romantic adventures and an incredible feeling of unity, right? But on the other side, not everything is always rainbows and fun. We are all people, and we get angry and frustrated with one another from time to time. During these moments it can be so easy to hurt a person with a word or an action. The resentment can linger for much longer after the fight is over, ruining your relationship, without you even realizing it. It turns out there are some little actions that can cause a serious crack in your relationships. If you already started fighting, it's better to do it at least correctly, isn't it? Let's get to it! Here're seven things you should never ever do while fighting with your loved ones. Other videos you might like: 19 Simple Psychological Tricks That Actually Work https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4tWdTmYZoM& 20+ Psychology Tricks to Read Anyone Like a Book https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RMPxx71ICxk& 18 Types of Kisses And What They Actually Mean https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhOgl_L0srA& TIMESTAMPS: Don't include other family members in your fight 1:05 Avoid violence 2:34 Don't mix it all up 4:15 Never ever talk about a divorce 5:30 Never leave the house in the middle of the fight 6:43 Do not go to bed separately 7:47 Never fight in public 8:52 #relationshipgoal #happycouple #lovetips SUMMARY: - Remember, your fight concerns only the two of you and no one else. By drawing your parents or any other people into the conflict, you risk turning a regular fallout into a real family mess. - Violence can never be good for any relationship, no matter the circumstances. It's a line that must not be crossed. Don’t allow yourself or your partner to use violence, no matter how angry you might be with each other! - When you fight with someone, you naturally start to remember every situation in which he or she did something wrong. Never use it as an argument in your conflict. - You may not realize it now, but when you say "Let’s divorce" during a fight, this can become the biggest insult ever. These words may hurt the feelings of your partner really badly. - Making a dramatic speech, slamming the doors and running into the darkness may seem cool in the movies, but in real life, it's definitely not a great way to solve the problem. We are all adults here and simply leaving the house during a fight will only show how uncomfortable you feel staying under the same roof as your partner. - By going to sleep separately, you show that you are not ready to make up. Something as simple as sleeping together, even if you're trying to be as distant from each other as possible, will ease the atmosphere and quickly resolve the conflict. - This is the universal rule for any relationship, whether it's romantic one or not – never take skeletons out of your closet in public. You will probably agree that seeing a couple, who yells at each other in a public place, is truly and utterly disgusting. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Esther Perel | Modern Love and Relationships | SXSW 2018
 
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Relationships are going through a complex cultural shift. Expectations on intimate partnerships are at an all-time high, yet we lack the tools and resources to reach this new Olympus. Join iconic couples therapist Esther Perel as she shines a light on the state of modern love, the importance of erotic intelligence, and how listening to the stories of others helps us navigate our own relationships. About SXSW: SXSW dedicates itself to helping creative people achieve their goals. Founded in 1987 in Austin, Texas, SXSW is best known for its conference and festivals that celebrate the convergence of the interactive, film, and music industries. An essential destination for global professionals, the event features sessions, showcases, screenings, exhibitions, and a variety of networking opportunities. SXSW proves that the most unexpected discoveries happen when diverse topics and people come together. SXSW 2019 will take place March 8-17, 2019. Subscribe: http://www.youtube.com/user/sxsw?sub_confirmation=1 Connect with us online: WEBSITE: https://www.sxsw.com/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/SXSWFestival/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/sxsw INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/sxsw/
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PSYCHOTHERAPY - Sigmund Freud
 
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Sigmund Freud, the inventor of psychoanalysis, appreciated the many ways in which our minds are troubled and anxious. It isn't us in particular: it's the human condition. Find out more about how Freud thought in our 'Great Thinkers': https://goo.gl/toR8m8 If you like our films, take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): https://goo.gl/7JluX0 FURTHER READING “He described himself as an obsessional neurotic. For although the father of modern psychology told us so much about our inner lives, he was touchingly vulnerable himself....” You can read more on this and many other topics on our blog TheBookofLife.org: https://goo.gl/WtiV8v MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://goo.gl/NJ702c More films on PSYCHOTHERAPY in our playlist below: http://bit.ly/TSOLpsychotherapy Do you speak a different language to English? Did you know you can submit Subtitles on all of our videos on YouTube? For instructions how to do this click here: https://goo.gl/fUMMxh SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Mad Adam http://www.madadamfilms.co.uk #TheSchoolOfLife
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5 Psychological Flirting Tips
 
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Have you ever wondered how to get that person's attention or how to get them attracted to you? Well, we have 5 psychological flirting tips just for you! Based on Psych2Go's article: http://www.psych2go.net/top-10-psychological-flirting-strategies-that-actually-work/ Subscribe for more: http://youtube.com/psych2gotv Animation by Nikola Bruno-Santerre. Contact: [email protected] To connect with Psych2Go, reach out here: [email protected] Our main website with 500+ articles on psychology can be found here: http://psych2go.net
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19 Psychological Tips That Will Change Your Life
 
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19 Psychological Tricks That Will Improve Your Life. We try so hard to become better, smarter, stronger, and we often don’t look for easy ways. That’s too bad because there are less stressful ways that will give you the same outcome. However, there are less stressful ways to reach your goals. TIMESTAMPS Eye level 0:41 Long light 1:11 Google colors 1:30 Eating slowly 1:51 Zoo uniform 2:23 Banana joy 2:54 Workout coffee break 3:21 Hot spoon 3:47 Location importance 4:09 Saving nap 4:35 Amazing watermelon 4:53 Magic music 5:18 Memory fingers 5:39 Helping hand 6:01 Little men 6:24 Loud relaxation 7:02 Green tea wonders 7:33 Sleeping gymnastics 7:52 Calming yogurt 8:28 BONUS 8:43 SUMMARY - We are likely to buy those things that we see right in front of us. That's why marketing experts put more expensive products (or those that they need to sell fast) right at the level of your eyes. - The candles will last longer if you put them in the freezer before lighting them up. Let some physics in your life. When the wax is frozen, it melts twice as long. - To check the quality of your printer ink, just print the Google logo. We are not sure if this has been done intentionally, but the logo has all the necessary main colors in it. - There is also an experiment stating that “fast eaters” gained about 4lbs in a month only because they were eating too fast, while “slow eaters” ended up with 1,5lbs of weight gaining. - . If you love going to the Zoo, but animals hide from you, you can improve the situation with uniform-like clothes. Take on those things, which are similar to the Zoo workers’ uniform of shape and color. - This yellow fruit is even called “the fruit of happiness,” in case you don’t know. The thing is, only one banana per breakfast is capable of lifting your mood for a half of your usual day. - Fitness and workouts can be tiresome and slowly transform into a routine activity. So, it’s not a secret that people use various additional tricks for the fast fat-burning. - This itching can nearly drive you insane. But there is a simple and very popular hack to cope with it. You just need to place a hot spoon on the bite, and you’ll forget about any itching. - Before calling “911”, first disclose your location. And only then start describing the issue. - A nap during a day improves your memory and protects you from the cardiovascular disease. - Scientists surely know their job! Recently they have proved that watermelon is the natural Viagra with the similar effects: dilation and relaxation. - If you are listening to the music during your workout, you become 15% more productive in lifting weights. - To remember something immediately, clench your fist. This will boost the memory recalling the skills of your brain. - Try to challenge your brain and make any of your ordinary habits (for example, brushing your teeth) with the nondominant hand. - When you have to spend your time with a lot of children, you surely need all of your nerves and patience. If they become too annoying, we usually get upset, and everything ends up in anger and headaches. There is a small funny tip to help you. Try to think of them as of little drunk men. - If you listen to the loud music at home, you feel happier and more relaxed than while doing it at a regular sound level. - Green tea, as well as other metabolism boosters, can be helpful in your slimming. Just drink a cup of green tea and go to bed! - We are happy to share the secret: the “4-7-8” exercise can help you. You need to inhale through your nose for a count of 4, then hold your breath for a count of 7, then exhale through your mouth for the count of 8. Four cycles and you are nearly sleeping! - If you feel anxious, just eat some fat-free yogurt and two spoonfuls of nuts. Amino-acids will help you to calm down. - If you want to know how a person treats you, try to read the body language. Crossed legs and arms mean the “closed” position. Such a person is not ready to trust you. If the person is relaxed and doesn’t cross the limbs – this is the “open” position. And it means this person likes spending time with you and enjoys the conversation. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Long Distance Relationship Advice| 4 POWERFUL Tips!
 
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Long distance relationship advice. This video will give you tips on how to handle your long distant relationship. LDR is difficult cause you cannot have that person with you all the time. Tip #1 Understand that it can work. There are a lot of great relationships. Focus on the relationship and positive things. A lot of times we focus on the negative things and it's your responsibility to be happy. Be active in your life and show up for yourself. Tip #2 Maintain the attraction. Create memories so both of you can experience something new. Tip #3: Don't live off of the fear of losing your partner and constantly trying to call constantly. DO NOT FORGET TO SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL! FREE E-BOOK: https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/free-ebook/ Join me on my social media and discover exclusive content. I'll provide all the tips you need to make your love life better quickly Find me on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/AlexLoveCoach/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrecormont/ My Website to see all my articles: https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/ My name is Alex Cormont and I've been helping men and women in their love life for more than 10 years. I became the number one relationship expert in France and Europe. For the past decade, I have helped more than 20000 people all around the world. You want to find the one? Save your marriage? Get back with an ex or learn how to attract a man into your life? I'll give you all the tips you need to improve your relationship. Yes, Love can be taught and I'm the expert you need! I have a unique philosophy from the country of love itself. You deserve to be happy and I give you all the secrets you need in this channel.
10 Rare Psychological Delusions
 
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Support our efforts to make videos about what we want: https://www.patreon.com/toptenz/overview Check my other channel Biographics! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClnDI2sdehVm1zm_LmUHsjQ →Subscribe for new videos every day! https://www.youtube.com/user/toptenznet?sub_confirmation=1 Find more lists at: http://www.toptenz.net Entertaining and educational top 10 lists from TopTenzNet! Subscribe to our Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TopTenz/ Business inquiries to [email protected] Other TopTenz Videos: Top 10 Psychology Theories That Defy Common Sense https://youtu.be/L_jZeCvd608 Top 10 Amazing Genetic Traits https://youtu.be/j4bLQvvfJGY Text version: https://www.toptenz.net/10-rare-psychological-delusions.php Coming up: 10. Erotomania 9. Capgras Delusion 8. Fregoli Delusion 7. Intermetamorphosis 6. Syndrome of Subjective Doubles (SSD) 5. Reduplicative Paramnesia 4. The Truman Show Delusion 3. Cotard’s Syndrome 2. Ekbom’s Syndrome 1. Thought Insertion Source/Further reading: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2552541/pdf/jnma00042-0059.pdf https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15164577 https://youtu.be/WQkHA3fHk_0 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25219764 http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0957154X9400501711 https://drmarkgriffiths.wordpress.com/2014/12/18/double-trouble-syndrome-of-subjective-doubles%E2%80%AC/ https://www.neuro-la-cote.info/cognition-and-behavior/reduplicative-paramnesia/ https://youtu.be/loTIzXAS7v4 https://www.vice.com/en_uk/article/jmkp44/truman-show-delusion https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23103861 http://entnemdept.ifas.ufl.edu/sepmc/HANDOUTS2015/Hinkle_HO_SEPMC2015.pdf https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fnhum.2016.00502/full https://www.flickr.com/photos/[email protected]/3120517120 https://get.pxhere.com/photo/man-black-and-white-photography-chain-black-aggression-cry-jewellery-illustration-psychology-chains-bizarre-paranoia-paranoid-caught-psyche-reality-depression-depressed-psychiatry-patient-suffering-disease-freud-bipolar-diagnosis-mania-delusion-compulsive-hallucination-monochrome-photography-deep-psychology-thinking-disorder-schizophrenia-affective-disorder-manic-psychotic-personality-disorder-relationship-delusional-megalomania-939452.jpg https://cdn.pixabay.com/photo/2017/11/15/21/01/cranium-2952566_960_720.png https://media.defense.gov/2017/Dec/04/2001851755/780/780/0/171109-F-DB515-0095.JPG https://uk.wikipedia.org/wiki/%D0%A4%D0%B0%D0%B9%D0%BB:Vajda_Two_Faces_1934.jpg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vrrU3is7qvU https://get.pxhere.com/photo/beach-sea-ocean-silhouette-person-people-sky-sun-sunset-morning-seashore-silhouettes-1098203.jpg https://cdn.pixabay.com/photo/2017/09/14/01/24/twin-redheads-2747717_960_720.jpg https://cdn.pixabay.com/photo/2016/12/09/21/49/twins-1896106_960_720.jpg https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/4/4b/Two_silhouette_profile_or_a_white_vase.jpg
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10 Things ALL Men Do When They Are In Love
 
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10 ways to tell if he likes you back. Subscribe: https://goo.gl/Hnoaw3 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Most people believe when it comes to love, women are the ones that fall first and hardest. But according to science, it’s actually men who fall in love, and are often the first to say “I love you.” Other than when he tells you, how can you be sure that a man loves you? We will share some things that every single man does when they fall in love. Love may feel magical, but it’s really a chemical reaction that takes place in our brain, involving things like dopamine which affect our bodies. We’ll explain the science behind why this happens, and how it manifests in behavior. Learn about the different types of romance, and how to tell if you have a compassionate man who wants a healthy, long term relationship with you. Even someone’s body language can tell you whether or not they are in love, so check to see if he’s subconsciously mimicking what you do. When you are finished watching the video, tell us what you think in the comment section, and don’t forget to subscribe to TheTalko! ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheTalko Twitter: https://twitter.com/thetalko Instagram: https://instagram.com/the_talko For more videos and articles visit: http://www.thetalko.com/
Views: 6117144 TheTalko
20+ Psychology Tricks to Read Anyone Like a Book
 
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We get over 55% of information through nonverbal communication, like facial expressions, gestures, and other body movements. Pay attention to the signals that other people send without even realizing it. You’ve probably wondered how convenient life would be if you could read other people's minds. Some people use their intuition for this, but if you’re not so perceptive, there’s only one choice left: learning to read people's body language. TIMESTAMPS Closing their eyes 0:45 Covering their mouth 1:00 Chewing on their glasses 1:26 “Presenting” their face 1:52 Rubbing their chin 2:16 Crossed arms 2:34 Fixing their posture 3:02 Leaning forward 3:22 Leaning back 3:50 Swinging from their heels to their toes 4:14 Rubbing their hands 4:37 The "glove" handshake 4:59 A handshake with the palm facing the floor vs ceiling 5:29 Cupping someone’s hands during a handshake 5:57 A handshake with a touch 6:25 Fixing their tie 7:09 Collecting imaginary lint 7:30 Putting their feet on the desk 7:50 Mounting a chair like a horse 8:11 Playing with their shoe 8:35 Eye contact 8:57 Avoiding eye contact 9:34 Unbroken staring 9:50 A lot of blinking 10:16 SUMMARY - If a person is talking to you and closing their eyes, you should know that they’re trying to hide from the outside world. - A few fingers, a palm, or even a fist near the mouth helps us hold back the words we don't want to let out. - If you see someone chewing on the earpieces of their glasses, try having a heart-to-heart with them and cheering them up. They’re definitely subconsciously worried about something. - Crossed arms are a clear sign that a person is not feeling it today. - When a woman wants a man to notice her, she tries to present herself in the best way possible. She straightens her back to emphasize her breasts, and she may also cross her legs. - When people like someone and want to get to know them, they usually lean forward. - If someone sits back in their chair, they’re showing that they’re tired of the conversation and don't want to keep it going. - If a person doesn't swing back and forth but bounces up and down on their toes, it might be a sign that they’re feeling confident. - Rubbing the hands together generally means that a person has a positive feeling about something, and they’re hopeful. - While you’re shaking hands with someone, if that person takes your wrist with their free hand, they’re showing that they’re trustworthy, friendly, and honest. What psychological approaches do you use to read others? Share your secrets in the comments below. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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The Impact of Early Emotional Neglect
 
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A lot of our adult problems come down to varieties of emotional neglect suffered in childhood. In this film, we look at one of the most famous experiments in the history of psychology, The Still Face Experiment, devised by Professor Ed Tronick - which gives us an insight into the vulnerability of, and need for love in young children. For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://bit.ly/2v1rTho Join our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://bit.ly/2NVwt89 Download our App: https://bit.ly/2Aib6f4 FURTHER READING “Many of us are wandering the world bearing a lot of emotional damage. We may be depressed, anxious or very difficult around sex and relationships. We might in certain moods ask ourselves where the difficulties came from. It’s a continually weird, provocative and yet – in The School of Life’s view – extremely accurate answer that the damage comes, almost always, from childhood, especially early childhood.” You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://bit.ly/2LvbX1a MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Visit us in person at our London HQ: https://bit.ly/2Lx7gnM Watch more films on SELF in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLself You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_panel?c=UC7IcJI8PUf5Z3zKxnZvTBog&tab=2 Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en-GB SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://bit.ly/2Aib6f4 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Matt Knott https://www.curtisbrown.co.uk/client/matthew-hammett-knott #TheSchoolOfLife #Psychology #Love
Views: 684387 The School of Life
Is Social Media Hurting Your Mental Health? | Bailey Parnell | TEDxRyersonU
 
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Scrolling through our social media feeds feels like a harmless part of our daily lives. But is it actually as harmless at seems? According to social media expert Bailey Parnell, our growing and unchecked obsession with social media has unintended long term consequences on our mental health. As social media continues to become part of the fabric of modern life – the “digital layer” – abstinence is becoming less of an option. Bailey think it’s high time we learned to practice safe social before it’s too late. What are the common triggers? How are they affecting you over time? How can you create a more positive experience online? Bailey covers this and more in “Is Social Media Hurting Your Mental Health?” Bailey Parnell was recently named one of Canada's Top 100 Most Powerful Women. She is an award-winning digital marketer, public speaker and businesswoman with a talent for helping people tell better stories. Her work and expertise have been featured on CBC, CTV & in other local Toronto media. Bailey recently founded SkillsCamp, a soft skills training company where they help people develop the essential skills needed for professional success. She also currently works in digital marketing at Ryerson University. Bailey is a frequent public speaker having spoken to more than 10 thousand people. She primarily speaks about social media, personal branding, and media and mental health. She guest lectured her first MBA class at 21-years-old and has been the youngest speaker as multiple academic conferences. She is currently pursuing her Masters in Communication and Culture with a research focus on social media and mental health, and holds an honours BA from the RTA School of Media at Ryerson. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Narcissism and Its Discontents | Ramani Durvasula | TEDxSedona
 
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Narcissism has not only become a normalized social condition, it is increasingly being incentivized. The framework of narcissism with the central pillars of lack of empathy, entitlement, grandiosity, superficiality, anger, rage, arrogance, and shallow emotion is a manifestation of pathological insecurity – an insecurity that is experienced at both the individual and societal level. The paradox is that we value these patterns – and venerate them through social media, mainstream media, and consumerism, they represent a fast-track to financial and professional success. These traits are endemic in political, corporate, academic, and media leaders. There are few lives which are not personally touched by narcissists – be it your spouse, partner, parent, child, colleague, boss, friend, sibling, or neighbor. Whether societally or individually, the toxic wave of narcissism, entitlement, and pathological insecurity is harming us all. The enticements of charm, charisma, confidence, and success can draw us in or blind us to the damaging truths of narcissism. The invalidation inherent in these relationships infects those are in them with self-doubt, despair, confusion, anxiety, depression and the chronic feeling of being “not enough,” all of which make it so difficult to step away and set boundaries. The illusion of hope and the fantasy of redemption can result in years of second chances for narcissists, and despondency when change never comes. It’s time for a wake-up call. Health and wellness campaigns preach avoidance of unhealthy foods, sedentary lifestyles, tobacco, drugs, alcohol, but rarely preach avoidance of unhealthy or toxic people. Yet the health benefits of removing toxic people from a life may have a far greater benefit to both physical and psychological health than going to the gym. We need to learn to be better gatekeepers for our minds, bodies, and souls. Instead of habituating to the global shift of validating narcissism and other toxic patterns, it’s time to understand it and take our lives back. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Santa Monica and Sherman Oaks, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, where she was named Outstanding Professor in 2012. She is also a Visiting Professor at the University of Johannesburg. She is the author of the modern relationship survival manual Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist (Post Hill Press) She is also the author of You Are WHY You Eat: Change Your Food Attitude, Change Your Life, as well as the author of numerous peer reviewed journal articles, book chapters and conference papers. Dr. Ramani received her B.S. in Psychology from the University of Connecticut, and her MA and Ph.D. degrees in Clinical Psychology from UCLA. She brings a wealth of expertise in relationships, sexuality, health and wellness. Dr. Ramani was the co-host of Oxygen’s series My Shopping Addiction, and has also been featured on series on Bravo, the Lifetime Movie Network, National Geographic, the History Channel, Discovery Science, and Investigation Discovery as well as in documentary films on health. She has been a featured commentator on nearly every major television network, as well as radio, print, and Internet media. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Going Inside a Man's Mind With Steve Harvey
 
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The comedian and author talks to some guys seeking relationship advice. For more on this story go to http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/steve-harvey-inside-mind-man/story?id=8768123
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18 Types of Kisses And What They Actually Mean
 
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There are more than 100 types of kisses out there, and each of them shows different feelings! How do you kiss your partner? Check out what your kisses say about your relationship! TIMESTAMPS French kiss 0:28 Quick kiss 1:16 Kiss on the cheek 1:50 Blown kiss 2:23 “Lock” kiss 2:56 “Angel's kiss” 3:25 Kiss on the nose 4:08 Kiss on the forehead 4:39 Kiss on the ear 5:05 Kiss on the lobe of the ear 5:40 Kissing hand 6:20 Neck kiss 7:01 Hickey 7:39 One-lip kiss 8:06 “The Eskimo” kiss 8:40 Lower lip biting 9:09 “Vacuum” kiss 9:37 Body contact 10:08 SUMMARY - Those couples, who prefer French kissing over anything else, are at the peak of their attraction to one another and just can't get enough. If you're together for a long time and still French kiss quite frequently, then you're one of those rare couples, who were able to carry this initial passion through all these years. - Quick kissing is typical for couples, who're together for a long period of time and who've already passed the peak of their passion. However, if you usually kiss like that, it doesn't necessarily mean that you two don't love each other anymore. You're just on another level of your relationship. - Who said that physical contact should be one of the main attributes of kissing? Blown kisses can be just as alluring as all the other ones! If you and your partner frequently blow small and cute kisses to each other, that means that you both are very flirtatious and love to live in the moment. Watch the video and find out other types of kisses what they mean. And which one of these types of kissing is your favorite? Tell us in the comments! Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Who Is the Right Person for You? (Personality Test)
 
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Finding the right person to share your life with is super important. Take this simple test to find out what type of person is the right one for you! You will answer 10 questions and see the number of points you get for this or that answer after each question. What talent would you appreciate most in your partner? 0:47 What do you look forward to doing together with your partner most of all? 1:18 Which movie would you want to enjoy with your partner? 2:03 When sharing your problems with your partner, how do you expect him or her to react? 2:41 What would you never give up for your relationship? 3:32 Which sound most appealing to you? 4:12 What phrase would be an absolute deal breaker for you? 4:48 All your friends are happy for you and ask you to describe your relationship using one emoji. What is it going to be? 5:24 What would your ideal honeymoon look like? 5:59 What's a perfect anniversary gift from your love? 6:39 SUMMARY - If you have 100-150 points, you’ll be happy with an Adventurer. Trying new things together, traveling the world, looking for the special in the ordinary and being bold and spontaneous is what you appreciate most in life. - You got 160 to 220 points? In that case, a Materialist is out there waiting for you. Maybe that well-organized successful individual will walk into your life tomorrow? Who knows... - Those who scored 230 to 300 points will be in a harmonious relationship with a Family Man (Woman). You can’t wait to settle down and start living with a person who will share your values and beliefs. - If your score is 310 to 400 points, a Romantic dreamer will come into your life and stay there for good. You need someone to chase sunsets with, to fly you to the Moon and let you play among the stars without living your own home and to give you all the love and admiration you deserve. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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Psychological flexibility: How love turns pain into purpose | Steven Hayes | TEDxUniversityofNevada
 
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What can we do to prosper when facing pain and suffering in our lives? More than a thousand studies suggest that a major part of the answer is learning psychological flexibility. Steven C. Hayes is one of the researchers who first identified that process and put it into action in the form of a popular acceptance and mindfulness method called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. In this emotional talk, Hayes distills the essence of psychological flexibility down into a few easy to understand sentences. He takes viewers through a harrowing journey into his own panic disorder, to the very moment in his life when he made this life changing choice: I will not run from me. Hayes shows how making that choice allows us to connect with our own deep sense of meaning and purpose, arguing that taking a loving stance to your own pain allows you to bring love and contribution into the world. Steven C. Hayes is Nevada Foundation Professor at the Department of Psychology at the University of Nevada. An author of 38 books and more than 540 scientific articles, he has shown in his research how language and thought leads to human suffering, and has developed “Acceptance and Commitment Therapy” a powerful therapy method that is useful in a wide variety of areas. His popular book “Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life” was featured in Time Magazine among several other major media outlets and for a time was the number one best selling self-help book in the United States. Dr. Hayes has been President of several scientific societies and has received several national awards, such as the Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapy. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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8 Psychological Tips On How To See Through People
 
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You don’t need to be a psychic in order to read people’s minds. Those around you constantly give away their thoughts, feelings, and intentions without even realizing it. You just need to be really attentive to see right through them. Obviously, everybody’s different, each with their own mannerisms and peculiarities. That's why it's so important to understand what behavior is normal for a particular individual. Slight changes in their behavior or body language can speak volumes and allow you to read them like an open book. Analyzing all the information you have, you'll be able to understand someone’s personality a lot better without even spending that much time with them. In different cultures, there can be different rules. For example, in some countries, people look away to show their respect, not because they’re hiding something or feeling uncomfortable. They say you should never judge a book by its cover. That’s good advice and all, but a person’s appearance really can tell a lot about them. We like to spend more time with people who share our interests and personality traits. Watch who someone spends most their time with and how they treat other people. See if this person tries to make others comfortable or rudely annoys people without even noticing it. Music: Level Plane - Riot From Russia With Love - Huma-Huma https://www.youtube.com/audiolibrary/music TIMESTAMPS Define the norm 0:20 Observe and compare 1:05 Always mind the context 1:43 Check out how someone is dressed 2:19 What's with the face? 3:26 Watch their behavior in a group 5:12 Listen to how they articulate their thoughts 6:07 Trust your intuition 7:02 SUMMARY -Try to understand what behavior is normal for a particular individual, and then pay attention to anything the person does differently. -Pay attention to the details: how they carry themselves, how they communicate with other people, what secrets their body language reveals. -Always keep in mind the context of the situation: in different cultures, there can be different rules. -People, either willingly or subconsciously, show their true selves through their clothing choices. -Facial expressions can reveal a lot of things people would rather keep hidden. For example, when someone likes you, their facial muscles relax, the head tilts a bit to the side, and blood rushes to their lips, making them slightly plumper and brighter. -Watch who someone spends most their time with and how they treat other people. -Don’t just listen to what a person says, pay attention to how they say it. -Intuition can let you down from time to time, but the longer you keep listening to it and observing people, the better it’ll work. Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
Views: 814647 BRIGHT SIDE
What Women Want Men To Know About Sexism | Theresa Vescio | TEDxPSU
 
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She’s so sexy! Clearly a complement, right? Terri Vescio discusses how well performing women can be threatening and are often sexualized in ways that can make women feel psychologically and physically unsafe. Theresa K. Vescio is a Professor of Psychology and Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality studies. Her research seeks to understand the factors that facilitate and temper the expression of sexism, racism, and heterosexism. Dr. Vescio has two lines of research that are funded by the National Science Foundation – research on the underrepresentation of women in masculine domains (e.g., science, technology, engineering, business) and her research on masculinity. Dr. Vescio has published numerous articles, edited a volume on The Social Psychology of Power (with Ana Guinote), served as Associate Editor for both the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology: Interpersonal Relations and Group Processes and the British Journal of Social Psychology, and served on the editorial boards of Psychological Science, the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology: Attitudes and Social Cognition, and Social Psychology and Personality Science. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
Views: 46249 TEDx Talks
10 Psychology Tricks That Work ON ANYBODY
 
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10 Mind Game Tricks You Can Do On Your Friends. 10 Edible Makeup Ideas / 10 Funny Pranks https://youtu.be/UiOkZ-DAGTE Jake Paul's Team 10 Members Reimagined As Cartoon Characters https://youtu.be/-uFZyx70_n8 Subscribe: https://goo.gl/Hnoaw3 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The human brain is a powerful organ, but not so powerful that you can’t easily manipulate the minds of others. By using these sneaky tricks, you can fool people into doing exactly what you want them to do, without them even knowing what’s going on! From defusing a sticky situation in the boardroom to catching a stalker, these are 10 psychology tricks that work on anybody. If you ever find yourself in a sticky situation with a colleague at work, use this easy method. When you think someone is going to talk bad about you, or get aggressive with you at a meeting, just sit next to them. People are less likely to get aggressive with someone who is nearby. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheTalko Twitter: https://twitter.com/thetalko Instagram: https://instagram.com/the_talko ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.thetalko.com/
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Whisper 20 - Personality and relationship psychology
 
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I couldn't sleep, so I decided to make a really long video. I love Psychology Today, so I mostly just ramble about that and read a few articles.
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False Pride, Ignorance & Arrogance
 
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How to deal with people who are arrogant, ignorant, condescending and full of false pride who seek to belittle you, your success and tear you down in an effort to make themselves feel better about their shitty lives. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who is twenty-three and has had a total of two relationships in his short life. He starts out by complimenting me on what he has learned from reading my book, but then goes on a rant that reeks of false pride, arrogance, ignorance and condescension as he tries to belittle me, my work and my methods that have helped tens of thousands of men and women all over the world to improve the quality of their lives and personal relationships. This is a prime example of the type of self-hating and self-loathing kind of people who go through live tearing other people down in order to build themselves up and make themselves feel better, even though inside they feel like a giant pile of steaming dog-dung. I discuss why you must tune these kinds of people out and can’t let them discourage or influence the pursuit of your grandest goals and dreams. “People who are happy, abundant and loving, only have encouraging and kind words for everyone, even those who are struggling or not as successful as they are. They build people up and sincerely rejoice in the success of other people. Miserable people, who hate themselves and their lives, go through life looking for opportunities to tear other people down and belittle them in an effort to ease their own suffering and feel better about their shitty lives. The next time you encounter another human turd in the punchbowl, just remember that no one will ever do or say anything that is not a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves in a moment. Don’t take it personally because it’s not you, it’s them.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCW3Man Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: http://amzn.to/1XKRtxd Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3 You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCWMY Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: https://amzn.to/2TQV2Xo Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to purchase Official Coach Corey Wayne branded merchandise (T-Shirts, Mugs, etc.): https://teespring.com/stores/coach-corey-wayne Click the link below to book phone/Skype (audio only) coaching with me personally: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/products Click the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=LKGTSSLYJ93J6 Click the link below to read my FREE self-help articles: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/ From my heart to yours, Corey Wayne
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What we can learn from narcissists | Keith Campbell | TEDxUGA
 
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What do Kylie Jenner and the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge have in common? Dr. W. Keith Campbell argues that both require a little bit of narcissism. As head of UGA's Department of Psychology and a leading scholar on narcissism, Dr. Campbell has devoted more than 20 years to studying narcissism and in his tenure, has authored more than 150 academic publications. His talk addresses the complex implications of narcissism: how we can harness its power and avoid failing under its influence. Dr. W. Keith Campbell is Head of the Department of Psychology. He holds a BA from the University of California at Berkeley, an MA from San Diego State University, and a PhD from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Dr. Campbell is the author of more than 150 scientific articles and chapters, and the books, When You Love a Man Who Loves Himself: How to Deal with a One-way Relationship, The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement (with Jean Twenge), and The Handbook of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Theoretical Approaches, Empirical Findings, and Treatments (with Josh Miller). His work on narcissism has appeared in The New York Times, USA Today, and Time, and he has made numerous radio and television appearances, including The Today Show, NPR’s All Things Considered, Fox News, and CNN. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
Views: 202181 TEDx Talks